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July 16, 2009
Posted: 03:39 PM ET
Adela Fernandez.  My mom.
Adela Fernandez. My mom.

Most of you thought that our visit with the "wise Latina women" in Miami was a cool and fresh idea. (Scroll down to see the clips) But some of you have written with some pretty harsh criticism about the fact that my mom doesn't speak English.

I'd be lying if I told you that didn't sting a little bit. But hey, I understand that many of you are more than a hundred years removed from your ancestor's arrival in America and that gives you a different perspective.

Rather than sharing research or historical analysis, let me just take this opportunity to share with you my perspective:

My mom can't express herself in English, because I can.
She isn't accomplished or wealthy, because I am.
My mom missed meals when I was growing up so that I could eat.

You see, my mom didn't bring me to America so she could become successful or educated. She brought me to America so I could become successful and educated.

She couldn't go to night school, because she spent 10 to 12 hours a day in a factory sewing leather shoes while my dad washed dishes and cleared tables at Miami beach hotels.

Their story is the story of millions of immigrants who came to America, maybe even the story of your ancestors. They struggled, went without and even sacrificed their own betterment, so that we could thrive.

I welcome your thoughts.

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LL Brown   July 16th, 2009 3:45 pm ET

Good for you, Rick. Your success speaks volumes about your mom.

Ruben Javier   July 16th, 2009 3:46 pm ET

Rick, we are all proud of strong Latina women like your mom, my mom, and Judge Sotomayor. They fight every day to make our dreams come true! Que siga la lucha!
Ruben

Shannon   July 16th, 2009 3:46 pm ET

What a beautiful commentary on your mom and dad and your family. You are surely blessed to have such parents.

I G Dell   July 16th, 2009 3:46 pm ET

BRAVO....OLE` RICK!!! You make ALL MOTHERS PROUD :) :)

Nikki- NC   July 16th, 2009 3:46 pm ET

I appericate your honesty. My ancestors traveled to the new world seeking what ever other person who comes to America does, a new way of life.
No one should be mean or harsh because your mother doesn't speak English. Plenty of people can't speak English, it is a hard language to learn. And every parent wants their children to have a better life than they did.
Your mother should be applauded for all she does done for you.

Roc Henderson   July 16th, 2009 3:46 pm ET

just two words rick: well said!!

Mary Ann Wasil Nilan   July 16th, 2009 3:46 pm ET

Your Mom must be so proud of you...I know I am!

StevenGonzalez   July 16th, 2009 3:46 pm ET

Great job on responding to the ignorant masses who commented on your mom's English. Well said brother!

Caryll   July 16th, 2009 3:46 pm ET

Bravo, well answered

Alison   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Hi Rick,

I really appreciated your perspective on why your Mom doesn't speak English. I had never thought about it that way before and I think it's a very valid point you made.

Thanks!

Alison

Julie Treemarchi   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

well said, Rick ,well said good for you and your cutie pie mom

Steve Z   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

You tell 'em Rick.

Jack Cannon   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Great story and even greated commentary after the story.

I wish that more news was delivered in your style and with your emotion.

Keep up the good work.

Jack Cannon

Jake   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Rick,

I thought your response was incredibly poignant. Most of us our immigrants of some sort and can probably think back to relatives whose english wasn't perfect.

Thank you for sharing and hopefully educating.

Jake

John   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

You da man! Loved your piece on this. I am sitting here working from home today...have CNN on in the background...and it just caught my ear. Superb!

Keith   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Rick, I am retired in Mexico; took Spanish in college; my wife was born in Guadalajara and I have lived with her for 32 years and I still don't speak Spanish.

I can tell you learning a language at 61 is extremely difficult. I can't imagine doing it while working full time and especially not while working two jobs or more.

I will say one thing. Not one Mexican person has ever made a negative comment about my not speaking Spanish and having an FM3. They always treat me with great warmth and courtesy. Americans could learn quite a few things about good manners from their neighbors to the South.

Mocky   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Awesome response, and the pura verdad. That's what made YOUR country what it is today!

Mari   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Rick, Your words about your beautiful mother are truly eloquent. Thank God for people like your Mom and Dad. Your parents story is what is best about this country, just as you are!

Cameron   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Everyone Rick needs to stop judging race or anything else as God is the only one to judge us all one day

Doug Dennis   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

I've watched your show for awhile and can say I was not a fan....until i watched your explanation about why your mother doesn't speak english. it's refreshing to hear a voice speaking for those whose words go unheard (rather, not listened to).

Joan Shaw   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

As a 76 year old woman who would love to speak Spanish but can't – I totally relate to your Mom and admire her.

Jess Bongaarts   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Rick,

Thank you so much for the story about your mother. For many a year I have wished that I was part of a family like that, the type that could hang out in the kitchen and laugh, sit around the table and just talk.

Your thoughts and reflections on all of the hard work your mother went through when you were young prove one thing: she raised you right :)

Thanks for the national conversations - I'm a stay-at-home-mom and your daily broadcasts are my little sanity breaks after my girls go down for naps.

- Jess
Burnsville, MN

Joe   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

The most personal experience only the son of an immigrant could share. Strong, Brave, Honest. God bless those parents who came to America and sacrificed so their children could succeed.

Laura Garcia   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Hi, I Just saw this on TV and I have to say what you said is beautiful and shows that you are a sensitive and caring person. It's true that she probably can't because you can, that's the epitome of why people come here; it's too bad some people can't understand that.

David Kirk   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Rick,
I really enjoyed your taking some time to share of your personal life and of your mom and dad. Was very touching and, after watching you on CNN for a long time, it's nice to gain a perspective on you as a person... Listening to you gave me a good feeling, a feeling that you are far more than just an accomplished news anchor. Thanks for sharing.
david kirk

Anne   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Hi Rick,
Doesn't bother me one bit if your Mom doesn't speak English. You are so fortunate to speak both languages because of her.

John Hatfield (JohnInNova)   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Rick,

You have to be very proud of your Mom and Dad! I just listened to you talk about why they brought you to the United States. This country is strong, because of people just like your parents. They are complete and total successes!

What a wonderful story. Thanks for sharing.

John In Northern Virginia

KING FEARLESS   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

This was one of the most genuine moments of television that I have experienced since Inauguration night. Thank you for your honesty and thank God for strong, selfless mothers like yours!

Steven R   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Rick-

So eloquently spoken. I could not have said it better. The story of you and your mom is everyone's story. My grandparents came from Russia and Poland worked in sweat shops so their children could succeed. Thank you for reminding us and bringing into the front of our national consciousness.

Steven

Janet Perez   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

I am so proud of you and of your mom. You spoke for thousands of people who are in the same situation. Many of our parents came to this country not so they can say I live in the USA, but to give their kids a better chance at life. I loved you in WSVN in Miami and I love you CNN.

Divine Destiny   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Rick, I was moved by your comments about why your mom does not speak English. Keep being proud.

Rachel   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Hi Rick, I understand your point about how your parents toiled in order to give you a good life. But that's no excuse for not learning the language of the U.S. i.e. English. They could have made that effort to assimilate inspite of the hardships they endured since a lot of immigrants do that by going to centers which offer English classes. In any case, God bless your family.

Mimi   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Rick, I understand where you are coming from about your mom, I really do. However, my grandparents immigrated from Poland and they did learn to speak English. Yes, they spoke Polish at home but out in public, in the country they chose to love, they spoke English. Why? Because no one made allowances for them at the turn of the century. You learned the language of the land, no exceptions.

Guy   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

Thank you.

w chollar   July 16th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

well said!

those who do not "get it", probably grew up with a less-rich culture with less appreciation for the opportunity this country offers. Opportunity is a gift... not a right.

Craig Pritchard   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

've got to tell you Rick, GREAT EXPLANATION to an ignorant question about your Mom.

Tell her she did I great job from what I can see.

Take Care

Beth Love   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Hi Rick,
Awesome story and very creative presentation. I rarely respond to something like this, but you really got my attention. Thanks for giving us the wise Latina perspective. I love your mom and admire her so much. She must be so happy and proud of you.
Beth

nell post   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Love your mom! She did a great job raising you, too!

adewale adelaja   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Dear Rick,

The statement you just made about your mum is the best I have ever heard from a news anchor.

regards

ade

David A Whitaker   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Thank you Rick., I don't have a lantino backgroung I am a African Americam. I appreciate you comment about your mother and father. I am pretty sure they are proud od you. Keep up the good work.

David
Martinsburg,WV

Daniel T.   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Your words moved me Rick. Thank you for sharing what you did about your amazing family. My mother and father came to this country 30 years ago from Iran, with nothing, and have given my brother and I every opportunity to succeed. I hope to make them as proud as I am sure your family is of yourself. Thank you.

ali   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Love you show! Keep telling it like it is! And you’re mom is just fine the way she is. Your explanation was excellent. Ignorant people will continue saying ignorant things. Peace,

Ali

THE INDIVIDUALS   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Every nation has gone through what you have gone through Rick! We are Black and came here a slaves! What good was learning English if we were not even considered human? Your Mother is a wonderful Woman and we respect your life story! The kkk speak english so what does that mean? They are terrorist!

Rey   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

I know it stings a lil to read those comments. I too come from immigrant parents so I totally get it. Thanks Rick for your view!

Ruben Javier   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Rick, we are all proud of strong Latina women like your mom, my mom, and Judge Sotomayor. They fight every day to make our dreams come true! Who cares if they don't speak English well? They speak Spanish well, and they do so to share our values and our culture. Que siga la lucha!
Rubén

Ginger   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

As a third generation American, my Grandmother, like your mother Rick, does not speak english. However she raised my father who speaks both languages perfectly to be a hard working man who with my mother raised me to become the first member in my family to go to college and a top 20 college at that. The traditions and ethnic I have learned from my grandmother and my hispanic heritage have taught me more than any white senator ever could.

Diane Offutt   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

I am so glad to hear what you said about your Mom. I grew up very close to my grandparents who came from Italy and spoke very little english. They also came to America to give their children and grandchildren a better life.

Thanks for sticking up for your wonderful Mom. As a Mom myself, I know she is so proud of you RIck.

A dedicated CNN fan,

Diane Gasparri Offutt
Woodstock, GA

Delourdes Roney   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

OMG!!! Rick you made me cry that people are even thinking of the negative things to say when you tried to bring the story of Sonia in a different light to them. Please Ignore those people. Your mother did great and SO WHat!! she doesn't speak english. Tell them to learn to speak spanish. GEez people these days.

Yaser - University of Florida   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

I couldn't have said it better myself. My mom brought my brother and I from Nicaragua so we can go to college and become accomplished. That is an opportunity we never took for granted. We went from one bedroom apartments and soup kitchens to owning our own home... and that's just chapter one.

Paula in WI   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Your mother is a beautiful woman and your explanation alone is a testimony to that.Too many people speak without thinking things through.For the record I totally agree with everything you've said on this subject.Keep up the good work.You've made her proud as she has you.

John   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Rick, I agree 110%.

Larry in Tennessee   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Good answer Rick! The commentors who have questioned why your mother cannot speak english probably have one thing in common. They were graced with being born in the U.S. or were brought up from an early age in this country thus they did not have the challenge of learning english after living with another language for a good part of their lives.

Surya Sahukar   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Hi Rick,
I am blown away for what you said for ur mom not able to speak english....It remainds me of one thing...which is constant across the world ....moms love for their sons...and vice versa...I am proud of u u wise latina...man!!!

Thanks.
Surya

Joan Shaw   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

As a 76 year old woman who would like to speak Spanish but can't – I totally relate to and admire her.

Jason Beal   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Hats for this piece, and to your Mother and your Father for the sacrifices they made. What they did was the American dream after all. Shame on those who were so quick to be hateful and mean spirited.

Jessica Gasper   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Thank you for those heartfelt words about your mother. As soon as I saw the segment, I knew these ignorant assholes would start their attack. People who have never struggled or sacrificed anything to give someone else a better life always seem to want to criticize others. Your mothers sacrifices definitely paid off, and I'm sure she is very proud of you.

Mary Sue Morrow   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

You have wonderful, heroic parents. They should be proud of your intelligence, morality, professionalism, ans success. But most of all, they must be proud of their loyal and appreciative son.

Nicholas Colella   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Rick, It's sad to see people who are ignorant to the fact that people live here and do not speak English. My great grandfather came to this country
on a boat from Italy and operated two successful businesses and didn't speak a word of English. Now that is extraordinary!

John Hamilton, Ontario Canada   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Thank you man, that was just beautiful. I just listened to your dialogue about your mom and the sacrifices she made to make you the fine gentleman you are today. I feel the same way about my mom who did not have half the hurdles yours did, but is none the less what the world ought to be about.

Keep it up Rick, you rock.

Elizabeth   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Rick, your mother has nothing to be ashamed of for not speaking English. My ancestors arrived in the US three centuries ago, and you know what? I could understand your mother because I studied Spanish in high school in the public school system. If people want to speak the same language as your mother, maybe they should be grateful for the opportunities in America and take a Spanish class or two.

Xinia   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

i got chills down my spine and tears in my eyes watching this piece on CNN at my desk. Our families' stories are similar to SO many of those Latina women who come to this country with nothing so that their children can have something. My mother came into this country 25 years ago, crossing the Mexican border with my two older sisters, who were both barely in elementary. She has worked as a housekeeper for those 25 years so that she would be able to witness me walking across the stage in Madison Square Garden to get my dual degree in Politics and Latin American Studies from NYU.
She can't because I can...

Chuck Halm   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Great piece. Your parents are heroes and great to hear from the other ladies as well.

John Daniel   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

God Bless you, Rick..your mother raised a damn good man!!!! She has my love and respect for her amazing job....she is a very lucky and ACCOMPLISHED mom!

Ed Rodriguez   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Rick:
Bravo!!!...Love the Segment on the Proud Latina Women. You describe
what so many of us went through growing up with our Hispanic parents. They worked so hard to make our lives better.

Susanna Garcia   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Dear Rick,
Thank you so much for your beautiful comments about your mother. I was moved by your description of what your mother did for her family. I hope that others who have lost perspective about their own immigrant ancestry are reminded about our common struggles.

Jason Jones   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

I am shocked that anyone would criticize the fact that your mother could not speak English. Honestly, I highly doubt that any of the people that are making the criticisms speak the King's English themselves. I doubt that they would like to have someone scrutinize their usage of the English language, because the verdict would be harsh indeed.

Felicia Lopez   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

THANKS RICK !!! I almost started crying when you defended your mother and her non use of the English Language. As a Wise Latina woman myself Puerto Rican/Black I thought your story was a breath of FRESH news!!! Thanks and keep keeping us informed!

naline   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Beautifully said....

Loved it!!!!

And, forever be proud of your mother and father for loving you enough to sacrifice so that your life would be better.

God bless them....and, you....

naline

gary z   July 16th, 2009 3:48 pm ET

Hi,Rick maybe our parents ran into each other at Ellis Island and didn't even know it.

ERIC-MICHAEL WILSON   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick Sanchez, your response to the people that asked why your mother didn't speak English just went off about 20 seconds ago. That was absolutely amazing and heartfelt, and I look up to you more than you could probably ever know. I'm black and I have every reason in the world to just be another statistic, but I've stayed up on everything, and I'll be graduating from high school in a year. I'm now ASB president and help students out all over campus in multiple areas, and I hope to graduate and go to college to study communications and political science. My cancer surviving grandmother has done everything for me and she's my everything, and I have the same love for her that you do for your mother. You're an inspiration to me and I'll always remember what you just said.

Richard J.   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick, You are an amazing reporter and I always enjoy your show on CNN. After that beautiful tribute to your mother and all that she and your father did so that you could be where you are today, I now know that you are an amazing human being. You just added a whole other dimension to what I will feel when I see you on CNN. God Bless you brother.

patnap   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick....glad to see your appreciate your Mom and realize the sacrifices she made for you. She is proud of you and should be.

Michelle   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

I absoultely love what you just said about "why your mom does not speak English" and I love the way you said it. I am not Latina, I am African American but I understand experience of being a minority and being misunderstood which leads to inaccurrate assumptions. Thank you for your words, simple yet powerful!

J. W.   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Your mother sounds like a wonderful person. I do have a problem with her being in this country for so long and doesn't speak English. If she loves being here she should learn the language, it's pretty rude not doing so!!

Kevin   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick,

I have never posted a comment before but I watch you everyday. Your comments regarding your mother must be said more in America.

gurmukh khalsa   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

You know what Rick this story is not only yours but of many many Americans. My Mom can't speak english either, but she gave up everything for me thats better than speaking english.

Alexander   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

I think that the struggle of your mother is the quintessential American experience. America is built off of people like this and I think that CNN's choice to air these segments shows not only a dedication to breaking barriers amongst Americans, but also an interesting perspective on an important issue in our country. Instead of ostracizing and antagonizing others for their differences, In this country especially, we should celebrate the fact that we have such unique groups amongst us. Spanish is a beautiful language and immigrants who come here and are unable to speak english should be welcomed warmly with the hospitality that our country should be famous for.

Keven   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

WOW!! You just told our story. Thank you

Teresa V.   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Very well said, Rick!! This is what our Latino youth needs to hear. They need to hear that their parents came here for them! Thank you!

Terence O'Neill   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Your thoughts were very moving and reminded me of the struggles my Mexican mother and Irish father went through so that I could have a better life. Thanks for reminding us that we are who we are because of the stuggles and sacrifices that our families made for us.

Susie Farley   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Way to go Rick! Your thoughts were spoken with heartfelt sincerity and I agree with your perspective.
sfarley
Waco, Texas

Simone   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Yes!! I love your response
I can't believe that people asked the question why does she not speak english. It amazes me that people even still think this way.

Renzie   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Hi Rick,
I am touched by your story. So, why do you come across each day as a pompous jackass who doesn't honor and respect your Latino heritage? I am both confused and perplexed. Your mom and sisters are truly proud of who they are; as they SHOULD be.

J. Patrick   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Amen Rick. The awful part is.... you should not have to explain. You did and what a great way to do it. I myself would have just told the people "cause' she can, and she's not afraid"

tansley   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick,

I cannot believe that people would be so insensitive to question why your mother doesn't speak English. It doesn't matter. Your "Wise Latina" story was very good and I appreciate your perspective.

Matty   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick, My grandparents made the same sacrifice for my father, so he also could be educated and successful. My father often shares all the sacrifices they made with his 5 kids so we do not forget where we came from and appreciate what blessing we all have today. Your story made me cry... thanks so much for sharing ! ~Matty

Frieda Ruppaner-Lind   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick,
I admire your mom and you can really be proud of her. What a great lady – she always put you first and made sure you had the chances she didn't have. If she can express herself better in Spanish, then she has every right to do so, expecially on camera!
Frieda

Shom Shamapande   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

I'm African. My parents came here to attend school. My mother is shy. She speaks English but she is shy. Your comments about why people come to America echos as... not a latino thing, not an African thing... an American thing.

I loved the piece. I often disagree with you Mr. Sanchez. But on this issues i have one word: AMEN

Stephanie   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick, I was born in Minnesota and am as gringa as you can get, but I loved your response to this. I'm an immigration attorney and I followed that path because I have so much respect for immigrants – people who left everything they knew behind to give their children a better future. People who know and accept that they may never be anything big themselves, but they have high hopes for their children. And it's this selflessness that, I think, makes them admirable. So I think your mom is pretty awesome and she did a good job!

connie   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick, thank you, thank you for taking us to the home of your amazing mother. Thank you also for being wise enough yourself to give the perfect answer to whomever still doesn't understand how motherhood works, in any culture!

Sonia Labrador Rodriguez   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

I am a Puerto Rican college professor and I teach Spanish. From my experience and perspective learning a foreign language is a choice. You can not force someone to speak it. PUerto Ricans are a good example of that. Your mom did not learn Spanish because there was a large community that supported her and she had no need to do it. Besides, last time I checked, USA does not have an official language.

Joy   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Thanks for sharing. Your mom is amazing! You are a lucky guy. Who cares that she doesn't speak english.

Mirza   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

U r parents r lucky to have u as there son.

JESUS CUADRA   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Papo, right on for the way you just defended your mom. People that criticize the older generations that don't speak english make me so made. I'm from Hialeah too. I live in Missouri I am American born, but 100% Cuban in my blood and because i was raised like you. Gringo's here do the same and stereotype hispanics and Latino's. Its frustrating, i miss my hometown. Anyways just wanted to give you props.

Omer   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

More people should look at the whole picture instead of seprateing the story. It is because of parents like yours and many more that makes America the great nation that it is.
May God bless your mother and all mothers like her.

Janet Berlo   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Dear Mr. Sanchez,

I have never written to any newscaster, or written on any news blog. But I am moved to do so after your eloquent and beautiful defense of your parents in response to the rude comments made about your Spanish-speaking mother. (Shame on those ignorant commentators.) Your response to them was perfect, and classy, as is your mother.

Sincerely,

Janet Berlo

Gunta   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Your statement just a few seconds ago of how of your Mom brought you here, to the US, was not for her betterment but yours touched me greatly. It is also my story. Am an immigrant from Latvia. My parents brought me here for a better life for me, not themselves. I could not hve it better than you.

Gunta

RUTH   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick that was touching, about your mom. You explained it beautifully. Keep speaking for your mom. She is blessed you to have you as her son and you to have her as your mom.

ChrissieB   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Thank you ! Thank you for honoring your Mother and by doing so – honoring every other immigrant who has come to this wonderful country to make a better life for their children. So your Mom doesn't speak English – well I don't speak Spanish – I figure that makes us equal. What makes her so much braver, stronger and worthy than many of us is that she travelled to a country where she could not speak the language and through her determination and love for you, her son, managed to put you through school and ensure that you not only spoke the new language but hers too – she supported you and made sure that you got what you needed to have the opportunities that she did not have. She is a remarkable woman and I salute her.

Woody Woodson   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

I completely agree with you.
I also commend you for the love of your mother.
Hang in there!
Your show is outstanding!

Dr. Mark   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Way-ta-go Rick, Good response to the question as to why your mom speaks no english. She obviously is accomplished, look at what she did with her son, I think she definately reached her goal/s when she came to America.

Dotty Alexander   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Your Mother is beautiful. She must be a very proud lady. What does it matter what language she speaks as long as people get her message of love!!!

Chris   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

I am a third generation American. I'm glad you posted why your mother doesn't speak english. Gave me a different pointe of view I am greatful for. Thank you and keep up the great work.

Mike   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Great insight Rick about why some parents don't speak english.
I think more folks need to do a bit more critical thinking on a given subject before "tweeting" or posting comments !

Helena   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Rick, thank you for your perspective. You should be absolutely proud of your parents. This is not only your story, but the story of millions of immigrnants ready to sacrifice their gratification for the future of their children.

Nancy Irwin   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

I was very touched at your piece on your Mother. Thank you for sharing that with us. I hope you were able to share it with your mother cause I know she would be more proud of you than she already is. God Bless You!

Eva   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

You Go Rick!!! I applaud your comments about your Mom.
Your Mom Rocks and she's more American than those idiots who disrepected your Mom with their ignorant comments. God Bless America! God Bless your Mom!

Auntie in Honolulu   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

I agree with King Fearless. It WAS on of the most genuine, honest, personal moments of television... Thank you.

Sandy Hutchison   July 16th, 2009 3:49 pm ET

I am horrified and embarrassed that anyone in this country would criticize your mother's inability to speak English. I have nothing but admiration and respect for her. I would do anything for my children and obviously so would your mother. What's not to respect ?

Madan   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Mr.Sanchez,
That was a wonderful speech you gave regarding your parents

james   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

well said rick. i enjoy your show, and often the "fresh" perspectives you offer. additionally as a veteran of 3 tours in iraq id like to say that the officers and their families that were wounded today are in my thoughts.

Farrah   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

awww, rick! what you said about your mom was the most sweetest thing i've ever heard! i was in love with you before because you're HOT, but my my, im in love with you even more because your thoughtful and considerate. you truly are a package deal! if i were your wife, i'd have you do the show from home ; ) ...

Domenic   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Rick, Im sorry I disagree. My parents came here and struggeled for thier childrens' success but they also worked hard to learn the language of the country that gave them the chance to do these things. They wanted to assimilate to American culture rather than try to hide in the old culture and change America to suit thier needs

Larry Francois   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Rick,

I am black man and in my opinion there is no explanation necessary why your beautiful mom speak English. You are fortunate to have a wonderful lady. I am the voice of experience, my mom died when I was nine.

Larry

Giovanni Sanchez   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Thank you and Amen! I couldn't have explained it better myself. My grandmother has lived in the states for over 50 years and the poor thing still struggles with her English. She was an immigrant, a factory worker, one who sacrificed herself for her family. As a result, all her kids became professionals. The 3rd generation, the 50% of us have acquired our masters. There isn't a day we can't thank our grandmother for everything she's done for our success.

Isabel Garcia-Hodges   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

I think it's insane that people are missing the point!
Yes, my grandmother does not speak english either. We are smarter, and more educated because they worked harder and sacraficed so much.
Is your mother wise? yes, definitely!!!! She made the wises choice a parent can make-to sacrifice herself to give her children a better life.
In my eyes, she is the wises of wise latinas.

-Isabel

Kristine Cruz-Vega   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Thank You so much for that Rick!! I was very moved and can completely understand where you are coming from. Thank You!!!

liz   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Thank you! I have had it with "English Only". I am from Virginia and wish that I could speak both Spanish and English as well as my Miami-raised friends and business associates. I learned more about being American when I moved to Miami and met the Cuban population and learned about true sacrifice. Our citizens need to better educate themselves about our world. Frankly, your mother should be able to speak any language she wants to speak. Keep up the good work!

Ruby   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Rick:

Thank you for speaking out for so many us.

God Bless!

Joseph Randleman   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Rick

What you just stated about your mother makes me proud to be an American. The fact that your parents came here to give you an opportunity is a lot like many others in this country. Your story is touching and the man that you have become today is owed to your hard working parents. Thank you for what you do.

Bill Johnson   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Rick:

I just heard your perspective on your mom. That's just about the best thing I've ever heard someone say about their mom! She is certainly a special woman. I hope she was watching.

Bill
Georgetown, SC

Tamekia   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Please Rick do not listen to this ignorance. So what your mother does not speak English. She is a dynamic woman who is more accomplished than many Americans...how so??? Look at the successful son she raised! I truly have a new found respect or you for addressing this on air. I wish you all the best.

Sent from my iPhone... Please excuse typos

Tony   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Rick I recognize your perspective its' your mother. You have described her in a light that should impress any mom. However I must disagree with you. She can't because she chose not to learn her new countries language. I believe this is unfair to both herself and others. I took 3 years of German only to be sent by the Army to Honduras, Nicaragua and Puerto Rico to name a few. Out of necessity and being a good guest I am a fair communicator in spanish. So I am proud of what your parents achieved in the melting pot, she just has not melted enough. Respectfully Tony

Ati   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Hi Rick! I've only started watching your show recently; I love your reporting style. Honest and straightforward!

I just heard you give your perspective on why your mom doesn't speak english...which brought tears to my eyes. I am an immigrant/ naturalized citizen myself and completely understand you.

Keep doin what you're doin'.

Frances   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

How dare anyone criticize your mom for not speaking English! No one has that right! A person should be respected for what they have done, not how they speak.

Lynell   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Rick,

Your a good son and your Mom is awesome for everything she has done for you. God Bless you & your MOM......

Monica   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Rick

Your perspective, WELL SAID.....

Even though you did not HAVE to explain your life story you did. I am very proud that you were able to keep your composure while giving an explanation.

Just know that there are millions of Americans that still have trouble with their own native tongue (English) and they were born here! They have had the same opportunities as you and are still not making an impact to this world.

Keep up the good work and wish your mom a Happy Birthday from one of your loyal fans!

P.S. You are a "Wise Latina Man"

Nancy   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Dear Rick,

I heard your comments about your mom. It sounded like my Grandmother who came from Europe in the early 20's. I don't know why anyone has to apologize as you did. Your mom like a wonderful lady.

I am embarassed about the horrible comments from our "white, old" Senator's. How dare they say the things they did about Sonya. She is smarter than most of them and has the right to be proud of her heritage as well as her gender. It is right for her to support young people that need to hear her story. Without it, we are all poorer.

Barbara Herrera   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

THANK YOU RICK! My mom raised my sister and I all by herself after immigrating to America. So many times we face people that think she is inadequate because of her accent. But, my mother is the most amazing person I know. She sacrificed in ways that I can't even say. And now, I can be the person she has always wanted to be... in America, making change... making the world a better place. You made me so proud Rick. Thanks for saying what us immigrants (and Latinos) want to tell the world all the time.

Johnny Addie Jr   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Great comments on your Mom. Same story with my parents only 70 years ago. I think what causes resentment today is the amount of immigrants coming into our great country and immediately getting on welfare, food stamps, free schooling etc without working those 12 hours a day like our parents did.

Kim   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Rick,

Thank you for sharing your heartfelt words on your mother. She sounds like an amazing woman. As someone who is far more than a hundred years removed from my ancestors arrival in America, I can still recognize, respect and appreciate the selfless souls like your mother who gave the best part of their lives to bettering those of their children. As an avid viewer of your show, I thank her for the gifts she gave this country.

Karl Lunney   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Mr. Sanchez,

Respectfully, you have no reason to explain why your mother does not speak English. While I understand your efforts, the fact that you have become what you have says enough.
If you said what you said as a tribute to your mother, good for you. It showed. If you said what you said trying to somehow change some of the more close minded views of other Americans, you may be wasting your time. I applaud your mother as I do all first generation immigrants to this country who come here both legally and with good intent. And she clearly added value and her son brings us the news daily. Good for you.....and good for her.

Karl

Steve Berman   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

I felt that your response to your Mother's speaking English was both personal and universal. It was appropriate and you should feel proud of both the piece and your parents!

Alexandra   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Rick-

I appreciate the story you shared about your parents risking everything to come to this country so as to provide their children with a better life and better opportunities. I come from Italian decent and my grandparents proudly share their stories with me. It is because of their struggles that I have had wonderful opportunities presented to me and am now going into my second year of law school. It is too bad many Americans cannot appreciate your mother and father's struggles and it saddens me that you had to defend them. As an Italian-American from southern New York, who is on her way to the District Attorneys office this fall, I cannot be more excited to see Ms. Santomayor on the bench next to other progrssive thinkers like Ruth Ginsberg.

Roman   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Hey Rick,

I am so proud that you are proud of your mom the way she is. Nobody should care whether or not she speaks english. She is a great mom and her accomplishments with her children equal to those of Sotomayor's mother. Many people do not understand that it is VERY difficult to learn a second language when you start later in life; let alone your mom's duties and obligations while raising a family.

Tienes una mama de ORO!!!

Roman

James Torres   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

I never liked your show until today. Your explanation on why your mother does not speak english was tremendous. "my mother does not speak english, but I do" Thanks for that!

Neil   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

You mother story was truly inspiring. You mother doesn't need to listen to those who say that she must learn English. My grandparents are Danish immigrants. I can't imagine what it must be like coming to a country that speaks a different language with little money. It is inspiring and don't let the xenophobic people tell you otherwise.

Lat95122   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Wow that was so well put, Many immigrant parents want the best for their Kids and Accomplish more than their kids. with less than a high school education. I was really moved thank you

you have my respect

lou

Joslin Salant   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

I'm a mom who made sacrifices for my son. My dad was a Dutch immigrant who did the same for me. Your explanation as to why your mom doesn't speak English touched my heart...and even brought me to the brink of tears. It was beautiful and poignant and must have made your mom's heart sing! Good for you!

P.S. I loved being taken into your mom's kitchen to hear what those ladies had to say! The man who said the judge has some "splainin' to do"...should be removed!!!!

Shom Shamapande   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

I'm African. My parents came here to attend school. My mother is shy. She speaks English but she is shy. Your comments about why people come to America echos as… not a Latino thing, not an African thing… an American thing.

I loved the piece. I often disagree with you Mr. Sanchez. But on this issues i have one word: AMEN

Joel Castellanos   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Hello RIck,
Your commentary was truly heartfelt and the truth of the matter is that there are people out there that will never understand the experience of minorities. My parents also came to this country to provide a better life opportunity for me and my siblings. Thanks for sharing that story, hopefully it will open the eyes of those who have no idea.

JH   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

Great story – inspirational. Thank you for sharing. It's conversations like this that will open people's minds to those of different nationalities and religions. The struggles of your parents transcends individual differences.

Susan   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

I teach Composition at the local community college, and a year or so ago I read a study about this...it takes 3 generations for change to manifest itself...your Mother speaks her native language, you are bilingual, and then your children are more than likely to speak English with Spanish as a sideline.

The idea actually plays out in many areas also!

Liquenda Allotey   July 16th, 2009 3:50 pm ET

This is exactly what I tell my 3 kids that I brought to America 3 years ago. I have not been able to go to graduate school because I have to work to ensure they receive all I can give them to achieve the proverbial American dream. You don't need to explain to anyone why your mom doesn' speak English. You are the outcome!

hap   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Thank you, Mr. Sanchez, for your heartfelt explanation to all those who have been critical about your mother's inability to speak English. I loved the piece with your mother, and thought it was great that you didn't even have to use subtitles because of the way you communicated with your mother and to the viewers!

edgard   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

hey Rick!

As an African immigrant i can understand...the reel reason that these people are getting into that kind of remarks is simple...
its just because they will never be better than you,and i mean you and your Mom that doesnt speak English...
they just ignorant and will never know better

Terry Warren   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Rick,
I think you have a beautiful mom who is very eloquent. I can understand you being very proud of her. My family comes from Europe on the Mayflower :) , so I don't have the experience of family coming recently from another country – but I do know that just because a person does not speak English does not mean that the person is not wise, educated, or hard working, just like it does not mean a person is wise, educated or hard working just because that person speaks English. There is much more to wisdom then going to school. Thank you for sharing your mom with us.
Terry

Melissa   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Thank you Rick. That was a beautiful sentiment about your Mom. It brought tears to my eyes.

My grandparents lived the same experience as immigrants from Italy. Their English was poor, their house small, my Grandmother worked in a clothes factory (sweatshop) in NYC and my Grandpa was a mason-building the Verrazano Bridge. Instead their son, my Dad, went to school and college-the first in his family.

Today I am a doctor, oncologist actually who researches cancer cures.

God bless my grandparents. They taught us all out hard work, sacrifice, family, love and that education can change the world.

The sentiments of the ignorant embarrass me. It is very....UNAMERICAN.

Thank you again.

Mark   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

I completely agree with you! Most immigrants come to America to bring a brighter future to their kids. High 5 to you and your dedicated and loving mom!

Esther   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

I am an accomplished business professional who works in the "white collared society," yet my parents immigrated from Korea and speak broken English. Many folks comment on how Americanized I've become, etc, which is fine because I always consider myself to being an American with Korean heritage, as opposed to a Korean-American.... Your explanation for why your mother doesn't speak English was well done... it spoke the truth and gave people a great glimpse of the reality of the differences between being a 10th-plus generation immigrant and a 2nd generation immigrant. Thanks so much for sharing that perspective with your viewers. I normally do not have time to watch a lot of TV but I like to keep CNN on in the background when I can, so I am really glad to catch your show.

Vincent Burton   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

I love the entire story and I loved the way you stuck up for your family. It couldn't have been said better and it brought tears to my eyes. Keep on doing what you do!!!!

David   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Thank you Rick for your perspective. Many americans forget that most of us have come to this country due to our parents trying to do better for us as your mother has sacrificed for you.

Jc Olivera   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Totally Agree with you on why you Mom couldn't get education.

My parents move from an small village to the nearest City to work, they raised me there, and years later I move to Los Angeles, after years, I'm now able to help them and give 'em what they didn't have such a proper home, now that I'll be a father I want my daughter to become successfull and educated.

No one can judge other people with out knowing what they've been thru.

..Saludos!.

Jc Olivera

James Landis   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Thanks for the perspective. I am the 14th generation of Swiss/German, Mennonite. I am 60 years old, and I remember my parents speaking "Pennsylvania Dutch" (Low German) with my grandparents and older relatives. There was a good spirit of community and strong bonding of family. My generation lost this connection, but when I heard you interpreting for you mother, I remembered and honored all the diversity. It makes us better people and a stronger culture to own all of us, no matter.

James L.

Patty Gavilan   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Thank you Rick !!!! Thank you for sharing your mom with us yesterday- a great Latina woman and for puting into words what so many of us lived.May you always be proud of your great Latino mother.She has said more by her life and love for you than many say in a lifetime.

tony anderson   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Hey Rick, your comments about your mother was well said. Your parents like so many others have made so many sacrafices so that their kids can have a better life. May God bless them for being unselfish in this self-centered world. Too bad more parents today were not as concern about their children. At least you did not let your parents hard work go in vain. Keep up the good work and may God bless you and your family. tony

diane lake   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Though my mother speaks english, she is from France. Accent and everything.
I know what you are saying and I understand how you feel.
But, we share many special things here. We are children of immigrants and have first hand knowledge of the immigrant experience. We also know about the original country of our parent(s). Our roots.
Many times we also have dual citizenships.
Do not feel bad because your mother doesn't know english. Look at what she has done in life. the bravery in coming to a new land and working and becoming part of this country.
And it gave you a reason to learn a second language.
We have something special in our lives that most in this country only have some vague knowledge of.
Your mother and father are special people with courage. They must be so proud of you and to see that their dream did come true every afternoon on CNN

Edwin Guzman   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Well said Rick, I have had to explain to many people this very limitation my mother has in Calgary, Canada. I believe my parents moved here for their kids to have a better life.

I applaud your courage and keep being proud.

Edwin Guzman

Michelle Tessier   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Bravo!!!
I'm an ELL teacher in WA state. I'm printing out a copy of " Why doesn't she speak English" for my high school students. Concise, heart felt, and so very true! Thank you for standing up for all of my families, who have yet to find their voice here in the U.S.!

Julia Azevedo-Dodson   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Rick

My father came to the US from the Azore Islands (off the coast of Portugal) many years ago, prior to "English as a second language" classes, etc. He, however, taught himself to speak, read and write English in order to assimilate into American society. He and his brother started their own businesses and became productive3 American citizens. So, for you to say that those of us questioning why your mother doesn't speak English, don't get it – you are wrong, very, very wrong. My father spoke English and Portuguese, because he could.

Laurie   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

I understand Rick..I live her in S FL and speak only a small amount of spanish. The difference that angers us is the effort made to try to learn the language. Little to none. I work in the area, visit retail locations and see the typical worker in Miami. Too often I hear – no habla english" only to find that they understand but are afraid to speak it. The spanish I know I will at least try...poorly for sure.

The real problem is...you live here now, are a US citizen [or legal anyway] and you do not speak the language? My Mayflower ancestors struggled far less as it was the same language, but they figured out a way to communicate with the natives. It needs to work that way now.

Andrea   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Thank you for your segment on wise Latina women. I was happy to see real Latina women discussing Sonia's comment and it's meaning. I too share the same experiences of having to prove myself and being mistaken for a person of a lesser position. Even though your mother doesn't speak English she to is a wise woman. She realized that you could have the opportunities, the education and a life that was out of her reach. She is wise for sacrificing her own needs in order to provide these opportunities to you.

gayle in atlanta   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

ok rick i understand why your mom dosen't speak english but u fail to remember amarican born moms did without also so that their children could be sucessful and suceed you said other immigrents did this but i did itas well for my children. give the credit to all those that have and r doing it

Stephanie   July 16th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Rick, I stand proud because I couldn't have explained this better myself. For me it was my grandmother. She, like your mother, struggled and sacreficed for us. I was proud of her and even prouder to be her link to the 'english speaking' world. She taught us the idea that you should put family first and always be greatful for what we had. We never took her for granted and always knew that we would carry that trait utmost in all we did. I now teach it to my children and hope it carries through generations.

Thank you for helping me put it into prospective. I will treasure it always.

Stephanie Lopez
Fellow Latin
Hartsdale, NY

Kevin Armstrong   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Rick,

I am a frequent viewer of you and CNN. I am a black american (52 yo). Although I do speak English and frankly until today strongly felt every american should speak English. However, after listening to your heart felt explanation for why your mother doesn't I feel embarrassed (ashamed). I believe everyone has a story and has the freedom to express themselves however they choose...thanks for your story:)

Lynette   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Rick – You have me in tears about your mom. I am a mom and I understand those sacrifices we mothers make for our children. Your mother's sacrifices for you speak very loudly to me. I understand her language and labor of love as a mom. BIG UPS TO YOUR MOM!!!!!

harman   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

I'm 16 and my parents came to the United States for the same reason.

Sean   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

I get the backstory Rick however, I think that Americans feel like your mother came over here but did not take any time to learn the english language.

Pam Green   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Rick, I teach English to teen immigrants at the high school level, and I appreciate your explanation of why immigrant parents are not always able to learn English. I see my students work hard in school and their parents work two jobs to create opportunities for their children. I was happy to see this common situation explained on national television.

Anibal Rodriguez   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Hi Rick, I was moved today after watching your commentary regarding your mother's "lack" of English skills.
I am a naturalized citizen myself, but my parents had to struggle in their own country so I could come to the US and paid for my expenses while I was a cadet Westpoint.
I am now a proud US citizen and a Proud US Army Veteran
.Allways be proud and mindful of your parents people!
P.S. My mother still does not speak english.

Ysabel Williams   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

As a "wise Latina" and mother of US born boy, I salute Rick for featuring his mom as she is, for defending her and for being proud of her in front of the whole wide world. Her sacrifices have not been in vain because she has an educated son who is also a good man who loves her. What more can a mother want in life?

I am an attorney and can relate to everything Rick's guest related.

Margarita Pellegrino   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Hi Rick, you brought me to tears, because my mother did the same thing, when we came from Colombia in 1968 she worked in a factory so We can get a better education a better life etc. Thank you for reminding me how lucky we are to have parents like that.

JoAnn   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Wow..I'm speechless. I watch you nearly everyday, and most of the time I find you arrogant and irrelevant to the heart of an issue. Not today....why? Because you spoke from your heart, because you spoke the truth of why millions of people come here to the United States, including those who are undocumented: to find a better life for their children. Que viva Rick!

Mary Lou Chollar   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

I just watched you as you discussed your mom and dad and what they did so that their children could thrive in America. I am so proud that we have people like your family here in this country. I got tears in my eyes as you spoke.

I am an Irish American school teacher in The Woodlands, Texas whose grandmother was an orphan and came here from Ireland when she was 14. All of her children were successful. I say HOORAY for people like your parents and my grandmother. America will always be strong if people like them continue to come here.

Thanks so much for sharing your story.

Beth   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Wow-your comments really hit home about you, your family, your mom. My family is Italian. Gram and Grandpa could speak english, but their backgrounds are similar to your parents work history. The factory, the back breaking work that they and my parents did for us..for us 7 kids.

Some of us did well, others are having issues in our clan....I had to bite my lips to keep from crying when you were speaking. I am with you and your family. God bless you, God bless your whole family, and Rick you are right, we are the 3rd generation here, of course we all speak english. Your comments hit my heart.

Walisson   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

hey...I was born in Brazil and, of course, English is not my first language. My mother also came to America to help her children to become more educated in the land of the "American Dream". Despite of this crisis, a dream is never over. Be always proud of who you are and everyone else should respect that.

Marlyce Miller   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Beautiiful , absolutely beautiful! You did a wonderful job of "sticking up" for your mom and presenting another perspective. You made your mother very proud with your comments. I applaud you!

Kimberley Cornwell   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Kudos to you for speaking the truth about your mother and the sacrifices she and your father made so that you could grow up and be the man you are! As an African American woman who had two parents who worked hard so that I could attend private schools, graduate from both an undergraduate and graduate program, I can totally relate to your loving defense of your mother. Who is the greater "American"- those who speak with the language of bitterness, cruelty and hatred or those whose stories are exemplified not by their words but their actions and the success of their children? I think we both know the answer to that! May God continue to bless your mother!

Winifred from Snohomish Washington   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

The response you gave regarding your mother not speaking English was noteworthy. The sacrifices of our fathers and mothers are part of the picture missing in this country understanding culturally responsiveness. We don't live for ourselves; we live for our children and the next generation. We make sacrifices willingly to improve conditions for our families, not nuclear but what is considered extended family. I was so proud of your response. I would like to get a copy of your quote so that I can post it at my school to remind everyone the lens for which our families look through.

Julia Elaine Bledsoe   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Rick you are blessed to have a wonderful Mother who happens to be a wise Latina woman. Your Mama did without so you could have. I call you one lucky man.

Julia Elaine Bledsoe

Chris Morrow   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Nice story and commentary Rick. I get sick of hearing people criticize immigrants for not speaking English. Maybe more of us should learn Spanish.

Shahid   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

A great example of extra ordinary parents with the endless will of their children get succeed in every part of their life which reminds of my parents and of those million of parents who does the same to make their children life amazingly beautiful.

Jason Beal   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

J. W. did you not listen to what he said at all? She didn't have time to learn English as she was working all day long for the betterment of her child.

Linda   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Rick,

I think it totallly respectable how you defended your mother. One cultural thing people fail to remember about the Latino community is that we respect our parents for their sacrifices. I think SotoMayor has handled herself very well with all the ignorant questions that have been thrown her way. I am proud to see a fellow women and at that, a latina women go the distance she has over come. She is a great example that with determination and dedication, ANYONE can go as far as they are willing to DREAM!

Sharon Thomas   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Well said Rick. Thanks for sharing your Mom's story. She is an amazing woman for all the sacrifices she made to clear the path for her son's successes. A true woman of strength.

Laurie Cover   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Hi Rick.
You just brought a tear to my eye. I love watching your reports. Your so real, honest and you bear all to see.
I love what you just said about your Mom and Dad and how they came to America to give you education and help you succeed and did so by going without for themsleves.
Beautiful story. Beautiful family. Beautiful man.
Keep up the Great work!
I truly appreciate your candor.
Thank you.
From a Mom in Canada.

John W. Mikus   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

My father did not begin to speak English until he was forced to learn English in a school where no Czech was spoken. He was the first our family of small farmers to earn a college degree. Unfortunately, in Houston, Texas, there are still too many children who receive a bi-lingual education and drop out of high school. Rick, what do you say to the mothers of these children?

Connie M   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Your story is so much like mine. I am a first generation American. My parents did not speak English, but that didn't stop them from becoming American citizens; and proud ones, too.

Dario Garrido   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

I just saw your segment about "Wise Latina Woman" and I have to say that your mom is adorable, and that just like your mom my mom doesnt speak english but I dont mind because thanks to her and her courage I'm here being the first generation of "Garrido's" in the united states, we all follow our dreams fighting different ways and unfortunately for those who have it all since they born they dont understand us and the dont apreciate things the same way that we do, but we apreciate our parents courage to give us a better life style and thats the important thing... watching that segment today I feel very proud fo your work and to be call "Latino" thanks Rick

Vic   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

As someone who's family emigrated to the US, I was impressed with your compassionate portrayal of your experience. My grandfather came from Panama and grandmother from St. Lucia. So the island and Caribbean culture are evident in my family even today. For some to criticize your mother because she doesn't speak English is short sited and I believe mean spirited. While it would have been nice for your mom to learn English, she instead took care of you so that you could become the person you are. That by itself is a great tribute to her and your father. If more folks took care of their own, yes at their expense, our world, indeed our country would be a better place. Congratulations to you and your famuly. Also, I loved the wise Latina piece. I think Sotamayor will make an excellent judge and I've been disgusted at the one-sided, negative questioning of her due to that one comment being taken totally out of context. It really shows how short sited and yes, bigoted some people including some of our well placed congressmen are. We cannot change as a country quickly enough.

Cheron   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Rick, I sympathize with you. Forget all the haters... yes they can say "This is America why doesn't your mom speak english?!" But to that I say "This WAS NATIVE America before it was overtaken by people who came across the ocean. If we're talking about speaking the language of "America" I say why don't you all speak Navajo, Hopi, Sioux, Seminole etc. Native American and Spanish was here long before English. Non-bilingual people do not understand the beauty of being able to express yourself truly in your native tounge. Somethings are just better said in Navajo, Spanish, Hopi, etc... personally I can better express myself in my native language.

Kennedy Marcellin   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

I agree with u fully, my mother came to America so I can be successful she went days and nights without food just to save money to send for us, and everyday when I get up for work I remember that.....

Frank   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Great personal story about your parents. My father was brought here at age five by his father from Germany. Similar story. In turn, my father became a janitor and mechanic in order to support three children, giving me a chance to graduate from college and be successful. Whether Spanish, German or other language dominated immigrants, most wanted to provide an opportunity for their families. Kudos to you for sharing.

john   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Hi Rick,

What a breath of frsh air. I love your show and I love your perspective. Your mum must be proud of your well deserved accomplishments and the central role she played. Her selflessnes and devotion to you is palpable. Others may have myopic view of the world but you are helping to educate those who can not see beyond their own world. Keep up the good work.

alex lyrics   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Thank you Rick for sharing with us your mother, the wise Latina wome, and also that segment about your parents struggling, and the fact that your mother didn't learn English. For a long time I thought you were far too off on the Latino cause. But after seeing this CNN report, I now realize that your reporting is important to the struggle for civil rights, just as much as African Americans, and other minorities struggle for. "Equality " I watched those republican southern Senators, and it just reminded me of a good old Salem witch hunt. We need to weed out those old racist in public service. If you research most of those senators have ties to white supremacists, kkk, and other groups that wish to corrupt and keep the same old fashoined white ways o the good old south.

Kalimah L. Priforce   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

I can't believe they are judging your mother's use of her native tongue to effectively communicate her opinion. Thank you for your defense of her and other immigrant/first generation American parents who work hard in spite of language and cultural barriers. As a son of Afro-Latino roots and of the nation of Haiti, thank you for standing up for our families and those who sacrificed much to make us even better Americans.

CMartinez   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Bravo, Rick, on defending your mom. I'll have to admit, there are many times when get a bit tired of your chatter, but you really hit it on the mark today. I have a similar background with immigrant parents who worked tirelessly to make a future for us. I am grateful for the opportunities I've been given, including getting my MD-PhD at one of the best medical schools and a successful transition in finance. My cousins who didn't come here have done well in my ancestral country, but life is much tougher for them. It would not have been possible without the sacrifices of my parents.

Soraya   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Dear Rick,

I find your words touching and hitting close to home. As a first generation American, I have dealt with other Americans thinking my parent's accents and languages are strange and hard to understand. They too struggled so my brother and I could earn bachelor degrees and successful careers. One Christmas, I gave my degrees as presents to my parents because THEY made it possible for us to reach our full potential. I speak English without an accent but there is no shame in an accent or in not speaking English. This country was built on the backs of immigrants. Speaking English does not make you more American, what makes you American is your desire to better yourself, your family and your love for the country that makes it all possible.

Lynne Glaser   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

That was an awesome commentary about your mother. You have every right and reason to be as proud of her as she obviously is of you. Stories like yours and that of Sonia Sotomayor are what America is about, and it's too bad that some Americans have forgotten that as they and their families float to the top.

marty   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Your comments touched my heart and it reminds me that we often forget what our parents have done for us. You have shown us how proud you are of your Mother and I know that she is very proud of you. We should all remember to Honor our parents.

Ernest Lister   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Rick, don't get much chance to see you, work and all, but just tuned
in when you spoke of your Mother and Father struggling for your sake.
Touching. You got critical comments about your Mother not being
able to speak English? Unbelievable. Your story is enlighting and
inspiring. God bless your Mother always – and I know you are but
always, always be proud of everything she has ever done and does
now. You are lucky. Bless you. Hope you keep on talking on CNN,
my favorite station. Your voice, or its inflection, or jus the content,
whether agreeable or not, is a pleasure to hear. Good Luck always.

Debbie   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

My grandparents came to this country for exactly the same reasons as your parents. My grandparents worked in a sweater factory, raised a family, AND learned English. They were PROUD to speak English. And btw, I live in Miami.

Richard Love   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Nice vignette of your life Rick! A hug for your mom.
I suspect most of the negative you've seen has come from followers of
one of your own, Lou Dobbs.

Kitch A. Hamilton   July 16th, 2009 3:52 pm ET

Rick,

I appreciated your defense on behalf of your mother, and all the other mothers and fathers out there t that migrated and made the sacrifice, so that people like you and I could better ourselves. Thank you for always being you Rick, keep up the good work. My girlfriend said, you look great without the makeup.

M.T   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Hi rick, when will president Obama start taking responisbility for his actions and impacts on the economy? The time for blaming somebody else is over, it's time to man up and except it.

Carole   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

I'll bet your mom speaks English a lot better than most of those criticizing her speak Spanish! The shame is theirs, not hers.

Maya   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

GET EM RICK!...It is hard to believe people are still that ignorant about people who do not speak English... ignorant to the struggle of coming and MAKING IT in this country.
My father is from Gujarat and doesn't speak English clearly but I can speak for him…in fact all seven of his children do speak for him and represent him very well. It is sad that ignorant people do not have their ancestral migration experience to share or be proud of.

a. vaile   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

I really appreciated your reply. It was personal and applied to a large population that is consistently plagued by calls to "speak English", mostly by those who can barely speak, nor understand it themselves. I take issue with people who have so many opportunities for their own education, not bothering to educate themselves in at the very least, English, and any of the other languages widely spoken and freely offered at most adult education centers. The same people who refuse to extend resources for the people they are requesting to "speak english".

Marilyn Campbell   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick,
I admire you. Your parents raised a good man. I have no problem with your parents not speaking English. I just want the individuals your age to speak English. It is our language here. Many Spanish words will and have become a part of our life. I just don't feel that our voting ballots should be written in any language, but English. Change will occur. It has, but if you come to the United States. Youth should learn English.
Marilyn from Kenmore, WA

marcia blackburn   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Now that you are so sucessful why have you not seen to it that she learns English? She could certainly beneit from it, like you did. As for Ms. Sotomayor, people are not objecting to her being Hispanic, they object to the obvious chip on her shoulder. There is nothing hard about applying the law....you either know the law or you don't. People should be just American, not black-American, green-American. You are either American or you're not.

marie   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick – You have a beautiful family & I thank you so much for sharing your experience with us. My mother and grandmother did not come from another country, but they have the same spirit your mother does. They overcame so much for my brothers and me to go to college and succeed.

I had the opportunity to move to a country in Europe with my husband's job for a few years a while back. I did not know the language but went anyway. It was enough to realize how big of an obstacle the language barrier and culture differences are. Your parents' choice to move to a country to help their children was an amazing gift that they worked very, very hard to give. You are truly blessed!

Edna R. Moore   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Good work, Mr. Sanchez. I admired your talk with "Wise Latina Women", and your response to criticism as to why your mother does not speak English. Those negative reactions from bloggers speak to the reason why we desperately need serious discussion on race in America. So many people live within their small universe, and don't understand the bigger picture of what makes up the beautiful mosaic that is called America. So, congratulations on raising the issue, and giving voice to this critical issue. Obviously, those "genteel and noble" Senators from the south are in dire need of discussions on race, to help them better understand the importance of diversity, in all walks of life here in the United States. Kudos to you, Mr. Sanchez.
Edna R. Moore

martha obexer   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

I think that you do not need to tell anything about your mother. Be proud of what she acomplish with you , and there plenty of americans that dont know how to speack their own language and born here. Your program is very interesting and I educate people like me.

Dick Foster   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick.....you don't have to apologize to anyone. Who cares if your mom speaks english. My mom spoke english but it was her character(and your moms) that speaks volumes to the american dream. It isn't what language you speak....its what you do in life that really matters. You mom sounds like a great woman.

LTC Stephen S. Galley   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Thank you for the story of your mother. My job is simply to support and defend the Constitution of the United States. I feel great pride to put myself in harms way for people like your mother.

Tasha Teixeira   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Thank you so much for sharing your mother's jounrey in America. Im very proud of you... I was crying tears of joy because of your mother's hard work your able to inspires others like myself. Im a single mother of a 5year boy. thanks again RS

Cynthia   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

My mom could not attend high school because her German father said girls did not need an education. She instilled in me the love of learning and now, her daughter, (me) has a doctoral degree in Nursing!
Cynthia

Catherine   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick, I appreciated your explanation of your mother's inability to speak English. I, too, am the daughter of immigrants. My mother came here from southern Italy at 16 and was placed in a class of 4th-graders. After the first day, she never returned to school. She became a seamstress, was paid for "piecework." Her fellow seamstresses were all Italian-speaking as she was. Because she spoke no English, Italian was my first language. This has been a gift my entire life as I have never had to struggle with any romance language to communicate. My mother eventually learned to speak English, but could never write it properly which was an embarrassment to her, but cute to me. Thanks for your comments. They touched my heart.

maxine   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

I am glad that you expressed the many sacrifies your parents made in order for you to suceed . Many people tend to forget where they are coming from and who help them to get there.

Rebecca Potts Baker   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Thank you, Rick! I would love to have been able to hear more of your conversation with your mom and the other women – all wise Latina women. I do not understand (well I do, but I won't get on that soapbox here) why people spew out such ugly comments about another person "not speaking English." That, in and of itself is a very racist comment.

It doesn't matter, but I am Caucasian (is that word still used?) and I am so very proud that Judge Sotomayor IS going to be the next Associate Supreme Court Justice.

I am so glad you are taking your show in new directions – the national conversation, live after the show... the news in fresh ways of presentation, like today – around the table with your mom and friends doing what we all do – sit around the table and talk about issues – what's going on.

Another thing I like is that you will give commentary!

Keep up all of the great work...and you are a wise Latino man!

bonnie hobbs   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Thank you so much for sharing your story about your mother. I too have been guilty of immediately accusing Latinos of not learning our language, yet living here. You really put a different perspective as to why some do not. It really touched my heart, and i must tell you , from now on before I ask that question of someone again, I will think twice.

Take care and God bless your mother!

D.J. Stange   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

I am a head Producer in Florida (not saying where)...and leave your show on in the background while I work. I like your executions...however, today, i loved it. the depth of honesty you displayed in "defending" your mom was more than impressive...it was inspiring. Good for you bro.
D.J.

F Gibson   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

YOUR STORY HAS TOUCHED MY HEART AND I WEPT. YOUR MOTHER IS A CHILD OF GOD AND WONDERFULLY, BEAUTIFULLY MADE BY GOD. ALOT OF MY FAMILY CAME TO THE USA AS IMMIGRANTS AND THEY ARE STILL COMING. LET'S RESPECT AND LOVE ANOTHER. RICK I SALUTE YOUR NEWS PROGRAMME. KEEP UP THE GOOD WORK!

Jaime Angulo   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick, simply put: you make me feel proud when I watch you on tv.

I just saw you talk about your mother and why she does not speak English.

I am Puerto Rican and am a lawyer. This accomplishment is due to my mother and father.

I was touched by your story, and know the sacrifices that our parents made for us.

Please be proud, as I am proud, even watching you on tv right now. Your story was fresh, different and it is the point of view that the media has failed to express.

With kind regards,
Jaime Angulo

tony   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

How can you call your mom a wise Latina woman she cant even speak English .Parrots can speak English and they have minds the size of peanuts . You said you were rich why don't you be a good son and pay for some English lessons and help your assimilate into society .Get her a parrot maybe she might learn something from it.

Dennis   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick listening to you speak about your mom at the end of your "wise latina" segment brought tears to my eyes. My parents and my in-laws speak very little English. I want to THANK YOU for explaining why most of our parents don't speak the language.

Ariana   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick,

My heart flutterred when you spoke about your mom's inability to speak English, for my mother doesn't either. She and my father left everything they had and everyone they knew back in Iran so that my siblings and I could succeed. They sacrificed their youth and vitality in order for us to become physicians and dentists.
I've always lost it when friends and coworkers comment on my mom's inability to speak English and I now realize that it is because they are as far removed from their ancestors as they are that keeps them from empathizing.

Anthony La Polla   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Your response as to your mother's not speaking English spoke volumes. You were able to go beyond the language issue to what really !!! matters in a mother. You are and should be very proud of her!
God bless her!

Mark   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick, just saw your piece regarding your mom... much love to her... This is the same story as my family. My mom, coming from Jamaica went without and worked long hours so I would have a fighting chance. In addition, she kept my head deep into education because that was the way up. Lesson learned? Sacrifice and hard work does payoff. My aunts and uncles did the same with my cousins... we turned out OK. Coincidently...grown up in the Bronx. Be blessed.

Rgray   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick, with teary eyes I thank you so much for that response. "Your mom can't because u can". Being of african decent and stripped of our dialect, I always felt people of bilingual decendants and their children were "fortunate". I applaud your comment. It struck a cord.

Holly   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Hi Rick, What you just said about what your Mom had done for you gave me chills! I know she must be beaming with Pride over you!

People are so ignorant sometimes-don't you people know you can't say anything about anyone's Mama?! Geez...

LUCY MBAKA   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

I am an immigrant. I am educated and have an graduate degree, not from USA. I came migrated to the USA in order to support my three children get an opportunity to make a better life for themselves. Despite my qualifications, skills and experience the job market has not been good to me for many reasons.... however i have chosen to become a Caregiver for the elderly and any available job to support my children and our common purpose. Like most immigrant parents, its not easy but thats what we do. s elderly person, I dont need English to clean this woman.....I just happen to come from a background that gave me the second language....Your mom did not need to speak English to make it happen for you! She did it and i am doing it, thats all that matters!!!!!!!!!

Maria   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Often, I watch your show simply because I am a CNN junkie – just to keep the tv on hoping to catch interesting stories I can share with my adult students who are learning English as a second language. My students are often people like your mom who sacrificed practically all their adult immigrant lives here in America for their children so that like you, their children can become wealthy and successful. I take my hat off to her for her success and hope that she can someday find the time to learn English in my class, even just fo the heck of it.

SEB   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick,

You don't have to give anyone an explanation why your mom can't speak English. Fact is, no one–NO ONE–knows what your mother and father had to go through to give you a better life. There will always be people judging you but as long as you stay true to yourself and the values your parents instilled in you, you don't have to listen to the hateful remarks.

It is unfortunate that we still live in a country where racism and discrimination is so prevalent. It sickens me actually. And it infuriates me when someone who has NO CLUE what it means to struggle or assimilate yourself into a country and a culture that is so closed and cold to people of different backgrounds, has nothing but negative things to say.

Give your Wise Latina mother a besito from all of your viewers who understand your family's struggle.

Skip Hill   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

I was moved to stop in the middle of my work to let you know I was touched by your commentary. In a day when we hear a great deal of ranting and raving against immigrants, too many Amercans forget that this country is indeed a country of immigrants willing to make sacrifices to obtain a piece of the American Dream, if not for themselves, then for their children and grandchildren.

Jonathan F.   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Congratulations, what you say about your parents, is so true, as young latino what you said , it made me feel proud, most people dont understand why are parents dont speak english,or why our dad and mom has to work 16 hours a day. Mr. Rick Sanchez felicitaciones!!!!

Shanteria   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick,

I was probably just as furious when I found out some of the viewers had issues with you mother only speaking Spanish. The prejudices and high level of ignorance we experience in this country is really disheartening. I am a Spanish speaking African-American female and a first generation college student now completing my second year of medical school. I feel that I too have to explain this concept to people all the time. Why is my mother disabled? Why is she uneducated and underpriveledged? Similarly to your story, my mother is in this position because instead of seeking to improve her life, she worked 3 jobs and went without food and so many other things to afford me the opportunity to have a better life.

I am very happy to see you on air and love watching your show and hearing your opinions.

Best regards,
Shanteria

Freddie Eason   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Hey Rick

I applaud your defense of your mother, people who for whatever reason forget that not all people were born with silver spoons-they are quick to jump to judgement without understanding the culture and hardships of others-I, like you-family worked day and night so that i could suceed now I pass the torch to my children!

Tom Studer   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Your commentary on the 'why' your mother cannot speak English, was one of the most noteworthy expressions of thanks and grattitude to the sacrifices that all of our ancistors made to make our lives better.

Your response to the 'negative' comments on your blog was thoughtful, insightful, and professional, and heart warming.

I truely enjoy your unique perspectives on the News.

Tom Studer

Vic   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick, what you said about your Mom and why she does not speak English hit the nail on the head.
I have had a very similar experience in my life, but let's face it, every one in America must have had a similar experience, may be not with the language if they came from England or Australia, unless they were royalty.

Marco A. Ramos, Jr.   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick,
I just wanted to commend you on your comments today. Very well put. You made me think of the sacrifices my parents went through so that I can have an education and be successful. Thank you for sharing your thoughts with us.

Ray Bupp   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Mr. Sanchez

WELL SAID.
I wonder how many of the cave dwellers who responded negatively to your piece speak a second language, or could learn one now.

I love your work. Keep it up.
Sincerely
Ray Bupp

Carol   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Hey Rick I think that its great that your mom brought you to amarica so that you could be succesful. What bothers me is the ones that come to america to get a free ride. It also does not bother me that she cant speak english, it does bother me that the ones that do come and work under the table and do not speak english and then say they do not have to because its a very country. Yes it is a free country but people have made it like that so they could have a better education better living for their children. I hope that you do understand what I am saying.

Wayne   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick, I'm glad your mother came to America! My grandparents did the same thing! In fact when I was a little boy I had to go to special classes to learn the english language and loose my culture!

Julius   July 16th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick...sometimes we simply have to stop an share a bit of personal history for others to understand what sacrifices like the one your mother made... truly means...Very well said..

P.S..I loved the " Wise Latina Segment"....

Julius

Stephen Pagnozzi   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Hi Rick, Its a darn shame you feel that you need to explain why your mom doesn't speak English. Well, here's a head's up to all the closed minds out there. My Dad was Born in Naples Italy speaking his native language ,and when he came he had his ideas on making better his life so that my sister and myself would have a better advantage. Like all of you should feel, I am Proud of my heritage, and Its a Wonderful thing to speak another Language. Why? Because, if you can open your mind, you will all realize what a diverse country we are. And how proud we should all be of one another to be under 1 gigantic roof. The USA. Rick, God Bless you and Your Mom

Marion Gonder   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

I think your Mother is wonderful Rick, I am in Canada and was watching you on CNN. My Dad and Mom came from England. My Dad said it takes many "wonderful ingredients" to make a cake, for the cake to be perfect. We are all ingredients in this lif'e's story, you and your Mom and her friends sound wonderful to me. Keep up the great work, Rick!!

Marion in Canada

david guillermo   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

hey i just seen ur story on ur mom i also come from imagrant family and thanks to my mom that brought me from mexico i am know a us citizen and she also can not express here selfe but im proud of her
just like u with u mom my respics to her

and i also what to let u know that u got my respict y couse know i know where u come from and under stand how things are know and days

tj   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

You can make all the excuses you want for your Mom. She has been here long enough to learn English. My father was an immigrant and had to go to work in a coal mine -tougher than your Mom's work. He was killed in the mine when I was 2 years old. He didn't have as much time as your Mom. But guess what? He came here LEGALLY and he learned ENGLISH. ! I don't have to make excuses for him.

Robert   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Rick my family has been in this country for over 100 years. My wifes family is Italian like myself and her father came from Sicily 40 years ago. If it were not for them I would no nothing of my heritage or culture. He speaks Italian at home and amongst his friends family. God bless your Mom and family for keeping your language and traditions alive as Americans. We all bring something to this country of ours and we can never have enough of others cultures and ideas. Shake the Haters Rick!
Keep up the good work.

Faye Bulaon   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Hi Rick! I just saw your show, and heard your perspective on why your Mom didn't speak English. As a Filipino-American brought in by parents who also sacrificed their own betterment to bring their children to America, I admired how you openly spoke about your background to allow the rest of America to understand where you are coming from - where a lot of Immigrant families come from. Thank you for sharing, and for helping in the education of multicultural America. Keep up the great work!! :-)

J. Foster   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Your answer to those who asked about your mother was moving and so very true of many immigrants to the USA. My grandfather came from Tenedos, Greece to escape genocide by the Turks. He worked in the coal mines of W. Va and raised seven children. Through all of this his children flourised and until the day he died he still had a very heavy accent when he spoke English. Bless your mother! She has done herself proud.

Eamonn Garry   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Hi Rick, Mothers are wonderful and your's is a loving one to make the sacrifices she made to ensure her family got the education that is available to all in this great country. I also came from a foreign country and have gladly made sacrifices so that my children got the education that was available. It is of no consequence that your Mom (God Bless Her) does not speak English she has realized the American dream through her children's success.
Sincerely,
Eamonn.

Sonia Baltazar   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Well said Rick! I can relate to your words. As I watched your show with my parents (who neither speak English), they understood every word you said and you made them proud. Thanks!

Renee   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Bravo Rick! So many of us have similar stories. Because we are Proud of our roots and very much part of two or more cultures, we sometimes find the need to tell our family's story. Not everyone will understand, but that is their right to express it. And it's your mother's right to express herself in her native language.

Jo   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

My grandmother came from Poland and could not speak good English and we never thought anything of it ,when family got together it was a whole family of foreign speaking people even though my parents and aunts and uncles could speak English.Our country has become a place that doesn't respect people for who they are or what they do but for what we as Americans expect of them. We have forgotten that this country started with foreigners and we now have come to think we are better than others. It is so sad.

P Miller   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Not every immigrant who comes to America needs to be accomplished, wealthy, successful or highly educated, but they should be able to speak, read and write in the language of the country in which they reside. Period.

Ruth Reffkin   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Rick,
You have a new loyal fan. Your rcomments about your mother touched me deeply and actually made me cry. She must be so proud of you, as she should be, not just because of all of your successes but because of your sensitivity and appreciation of all hard working parents especially immigrants who sacrifice so much for their children.
Yours is a voice that needs to be heard and I intend to tell all of my friends to tune in your show. I also really appreciated the initial offering of the interviews of some Latina women. You are correct in noting that their voices have not been heard in this matter. I think it is John Stewart that has satirically noted the importance of protecting white men from the oppression that they have suffered for so long at the hand of Latina women. The reality, of course, is that this is an important segment of our nation that has been underrepresented, underappreciated, and underpaid. By the way, I am a 63 year old white woman, so this is not based on any personal bias.

Thank you,
Ruth

Jason Largever   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Rick,

i have watched your show sometimes and thought man you have a bit of an arrogant chip on your shoulder. As I have watched i have seen you are a very capable JOURNALIST! I grew up needing the love and kindness of my friend's mothers who were from the "old" country and believed in discipline and sacrIfice. i didn't have the greatest mom and not whining as to not having that, but my friends mothers could never speak english but WOW what great ladies and great influence they had on me! NEVER let it sting! Too often, and sadly the way America is heading, respect, discipline, hard work and kindness has beEn lost to being TOO "P.C!" You were the lucky one! never forget that, as IF I need to tell you! A GREAT MOM IN ANY LANGUAGE IS THE GREATEST PORTAL TO BETTER TOMORROW!

Tyran from Texas   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Rick....I LOVE you. You are the best! I love your rebuttal to those who were critical because your mom can't speak English. It literally brought tears to my eyes. I am an accomplished African-American female with a graduate degree. My mom is college educated & my dad has some college, both of which worked very hard and sacrificed all of their lives so that I could have "better" than they had. They live a modest lifestyle, but all they ever wanted was for me to be successful. I thank God for my parents who sacrificed "everything" so that I may have more. It's parents like yours & mine who have produced successful offspring like you & myself to contribute something positive, and make a difference in the world. YOU make a difference in MY world. Thank you for your AWESOME reporting.

Aaron Gonzales   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Hey Rick, awesomely put! When I watched the segment it did cross my mind that your mother wasn't speaking english. It didn't offend me, just stood out. You said it best."...many of you are more than a hundred years removed from your ancestor’s ..." ).I guess our country isn't as old as we think which mean we still have lot's to learn.

Lara   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Thank you for sharing this- it's something that too often is forgotten so quickly by those who have not or no longer struggle as your parents did. My grandparents experience was much like that of your parents and the quick judgments of others who don't walk in those shoes need to be addressed- so thank you for doing that. Your parents were extremely hard-working and did whatever they had to do to make a better life for their children- people need to be reminded of these struggles, to be reminded that how to put dinner on the table and clean clothes on the kids are the all-consuming thoughts and that education and betterment for oneself often comes dead last with immigrant parents.

Brian   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Your mom's life got me thinking about my great-grandmother. She came to the U.S. around the turn of the 20th century, flocking to Ellis Island like so many other determined dreamers.

She lived to see her grandkids, but died before I was born. I only heard stories about how she raised so many children and worked tirelessly so that they'd grow up to have more than she had.

And yes...she never learned to speak English.

Rick...thank you for reminding so many of us about the sacrifices that have been made by people like your mother. It was impressive and inspiring.

Ingrid Zabala   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Rick,
Yo estoy muy orgullosa de ti! I have watched you since I was a little kid growing up in Miami and I am now an Adult living in Atlanta, how ironic to still have you so close! Anyways, I am writing because I am Cuban-American and you just had me in tears when you spoke so BEAUTIFULLY about your mother and why she does not speak English. On Saturday, I will graduate for the third time from college because of the sacrifices that my parents (especially my mother) has made. No-one truly understands what sacrifices are unless they go through them. It is sad that certain people would even make comments about anyone and the language that they speak. We are all imigrants with exception of Native Americans. It is sad that in 2009, people are still so narrow minded. I do not get to watch you too often as I work in the public school system, but when I do I always have enjoyed your show. May you have many blessings as you deserve it! Your hard work, dedication, and persistance always pays off, for all of us! FYI: Statistically, I should not have made it as far as I have, but why would statictics matter when the sky is the limit!!!

Linda Wakefield   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Thank you for sticking up for your mother, for showing the perspective of an immigrant parent wanting the best for her child, and for reminding the public that most of us are the product of immigrants. The reason our country has been so successful is because of our diverse backgrounds and I feel that diversity should be respected and celebrated. Therein lies our strength as a nation. Celebrate diversity and stand united with love for our country.

Debra   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Hello Rick, this was my first time seeing you on CNN. I don't watch it much because I am working on my dissertation. Anyway, I saw the segment on "some wise Latina women" and the response you gave in regards to you mother not speaking English. As I watched the segment I noticed that she didn't speak English and did not think anything about it because, you are able to communicate with her. One thing people need to remember is some people who have learned English was forced to give up their native language. As time passed, younger generations could not communicate with the older generation because they did not speak their native language in the home. Your mother had choices to make and evidently she is happy with the outcome. People need to remember, in most cases, you lose you native language, you eventually lose youself. Sorry for any typo errors narrow minded people sometimes rub me the wrong way. Lighten up!

Cathy Smith   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Hi Rick!

My parents immigrated here from Italy for a lot the same reasons you parents did. My mother worked in a factory just like yours, to give me all teh same oppurtunites you have. She also learned the language. Do not excuse night schooll for ones unwillingness to learn and move beyond their own comfort zone. This is happening too much in America and that is why we often see our phone bills or others pulic signs in two languages. I don't agree with this. I believe if you come to this country it is unacceptable not to learn the language. It is almost an insult. It's like saying, I will take all that you have to offer, but I will not give to you in return. I would not expect to live in another country and not learn the language or expect that the country begin printing signs and bills in my language. It's just disrespectul.

Thank you

Elizabeth   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

What an awakening! I learned frim your insightful comments as to why your Mom does not speak English. Your family is to be admired for their dedication in raising their children and I admire your frankness in sharing this information with your viewers. We have much to learn in this country from the hard working people who come here to follow their dreams.

connie   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Rick, me encanta lo que dijiste!!!! It is so important for people to be reminded of how recent Latin American/ Hispanic immigration is. As a 37-year-old Panamanian American, I , clearly, remember befriending an Italian American when I was in elementary school. Her grandmother spoke NO English. As an 8-year-old, I knew that her grandmother "could not, so that she could"! Thank you for that insightful comment.

Patricia Johnson   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

What a great response! I get so angry when stupid Americans (most of whom have never left the US, much less speak another language) are so bad about thinking that learning English is easy. They should all try and learn another language and see how hard it is, especially when you are an adult. Brava to your mom. You are a lucky man.

Linda   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

You presented this so beautifully, Rick. Kudos to you and your mom for allowing us this glimpse into your personal lives. And kudos to CNN for employing you in this capacity to reach out to so many! Why don't they dump that moron Lou Dobbs and give you another hour or so?! We need more people like you talking to the huddled masses!

Jason   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Rick,

I completely understand where you come from. I am from a Jewish background, where many Jews including two of my grandparents had to go through tests, and tribulations to try to bring their families over to America from a very savage Europe at the time. They weren't completely successful... However despite their pain in bring their family over, had they not done so... Who knows what would have happened to me, and my future child to be born in 6 short months from now.

Thanks Grandpa(s),

Jason

SaMarJ Ali JaMa   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Rick i love what you said i really do, man i think you just spoke for every immigrant in this country, especially those who are of Latin/Hispanic decent. Rick man i loved it, i really did, she don't cause you can. we need to make shirts, bumper stickers, wrist bans and anything else that says that.

Being black my earliest ancestors didn't have that choice, but i wish they did God knows i wish they did. And I'm glad your mom and dad did have that choice, I'm glad they don't speak english as well as you cause hell you do, and you do it well in the end that's all that matters. you just spoke for a whole lot of people when you said she dont cause you can, much love, peace and blessings Rick

gerry   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Congratulations Rick, for your charitable rebuttal to those who
criticize your mother. My parents came from Ireland, and although
there was no language barrier, i can identify with what you said.
I tell you, i am so fed up with the arrogance of some very fortunate people in our society, they have no sense of gratitude and humility for their good fortune...........And, what i find even more astonishing is that it seems to be a common attitude amongst conservative right wing
church -going americans.....It seems they have a distorted view of
what being a patriotic american is, and also what a christian is.
Maybe they should read the gospel narrative of the Pharisee and the
sinner, again...........That arrogance seems to be a residual of the Bush era.

Lisa   July 16th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Rick, I enjoyed your show today. I think it is wondeful that you have such a loving, caring, and strong mother. Who cares that she doesn't speak English. She worked her butt off in America to make a better life for her whole family. Which brings me to why I am posting here....I may have taken it wrong, but one of the ladies that you had on this episode, seemed almost irritated or offended by the fact that people might assume she is a court reporter, or someones assistant or etc. I found this quite offensive. As if those type jobs are just so far beneath her. So what does she think of your mom?? Your mom didn't hold a lawyer position. But she had something alot more respectful than a law degree. It is good to be proud of your accomplisments and she should be but just because others are not a lawyer, does not mean a court reporter is mud on your feet. And no, I am not a court reporter. I hope this educated lady finds a better way to put what she means next time.

Irma Garza   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick, Your mom must be so proud of you because she succeded on what she wanted out of her life. To have you become somebody. My mom came from Mexico and my dad from Texas. She would do laundry and iron other peoples clothes and dad would do labor work so that we could go to school. There were 8 of us. Thank the Lord that we all did good. My brothers are police officers in Houston, I am an Insurance Agent have my own business. We are Latinos. My parents are both smiling from heaven and are saying how proud I am and telling my dad we did a good Job!

tracy   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Mr Sanchez I applaude your mother for her sacrafice . I am a widowed/divorced mother of five children one of whom is mildly Autistic.

As a mother I want my children to have a better school experience than I did and I want them to have every chance there is at a successful future.
Your mother has given you a wonderful gift of sacrifice and a great heritage . Enjoy what she has given you and never take it for granted.

Thomas Fischer   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick,

Thanks for sharing the reasons why your mother does not speak English. So many Americans need to hear such, over and over apparently! When I taught in Brooklyn in the late 60s, so many of the parents only spoke Italian. Like you, my students became very successful in law, medicine and on Wall Street because of the hard work of their parents. Later when I taught in the suburbs of Chicago in the 90s, many parents only spoke Spanish for the same reasons. I am sure that my ancestors who came from Germany in the 1880s probably only spoke German unless they married the Irish side of my family. Our country will continue in this way as long as unselfish parents like yours come here to help their children be successful.

janice   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick I loved what you said about your mother....I was so proud of you for defending her. She sounds like a very "wise" women. I am African American and I to was raised by a very wise woman. Bravo

jim bruemmer   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick

Your comments about your parents........"muy bien dicho" !!!!

Keep up your good work...

BTW...You're the main reason that I watch CNN.....I'm normally a Fox News junkie....but, you're "fair and balanced" as well.

(From an old gringo who lives on the border and loves BOTH sides).

Jim Bruemmer
Anthony, New Mexico

David Ferrer   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick, I could not have said it any better. Many people from diverse ethnic backgrounds don't realize that many Hispanics have not been here long enough for total immersion into American culture, and our parents and grandparents have given up so much to give US the chance to succeed that THEY never had.

MARY   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

thanks for getting opinionated snobs straight!!!! Your mom is beutiful and so many families have stories as yours does. Both my great grandparents and grand parents had no more than 3rd grade educations a some could not read,but, they worked hard to make it better for each generation to come. That is the fabric of America.God bless your mom, she did a great job. Mary

Greg, Ontario   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Hey Rick,

I thought your Mom was a delightful lady from what I saw. As for what she did to make things better for you, it has nothing to do with the fact that she doesn't speak English. Both of your parents did what any parent should and usually does for their children. Not speaking English was a matter of choice unless you and your siblings didn't learn English until you left home.

Another point if I may? Anyone that would put Mom out there for people to comment on is sort of asking for it don't you think?

Joyce   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Actually Rick, it's also the story of millions of Americans who have lived here in America all our lives!!

Damon Spencer   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick,

I feel for you about comments that may have been made about your mother. When I was watching the piece yesterday, I immediately thought that some would have a problem with it from my upbringing in New Mexico and Southern California. I think that this shows the ignorance that still exists in America and the lack of tolerance.

I love that fact that you didn't shy away from showing your mother speak Spanish, it took some cahones to expose your mother. From my experience there are not many places that are as special and loving as a Hispanic household and I envy you my friend. Let the haters hate......because I'm sure they probably don't get the fact that Americans didn't all grow up with trust funds, listening to classic rock, and vacationing in the local state park!

And truth be told what Sotomayor said was TRUE! Latina's wisdom, nurturing spirit, work ethic, and loyalty is unparalleled! Ask your colleague Lou Dobbs.....he knows! Keep up the good work brother!

Edward - Omaha   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Thank you for defending your mom. Our families are looked down upon -you are our voice. Other "immigrants" are to proud to defend their own families. Thank you.

A. Barry   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Your monologue defending your mom for not learning English was quite moving. I respect the legacy of hard work and integrity that your parents and many other immigrants have built.

However I really don't see how this truly justifies not learning English after being in the country this many years Rick. I am quite sure that due to have a son as "wealthy and educated" as yourself your mom has not had to struggle to make ends meet for quite a number of years now;...am I right?

But nevertheless, weathy or not immigrants have a responsibility to learn English.

Donnie   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick,

I just watched the piece you did on Latino Women. I understand what the ladies were saying about Mrs. Sotomayor. I will be happy when she is confirmed for the Supreme Court. I felt the power and love in your voice while you were talking about your mom. She is a very beautiful lady. I thank God, for her sharing you with us. Be blessed.

Cynthia Gracie   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Dear Rick,

What a bunch of BS, RIck.

Don't make excuses for your mother not being able to speak English. All of my four grandparents immigrated from Poland to the U.S. in the 1910s and they *all* taught themselves how to speak and communicate in the language of the United States, which is English. Why? Because they had to work here. They had many children who knew also knew Polish and English, and they depended upon their kids to help them with the English language. They wanted to learn English. And so should your Mother. Don't make excuses for her.

Teach your Mother how to speak English. She lives in the United States. Your rationalizations about your Mom's inability to not learn based on your ability to speak the language is dumb and just doesn't cut it.

Best wishes,
Cynthia Gracie

Brian Frappier   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick,

This is the first time I have ever took the time to reply to anything.

I was taken back that your mom didn't speak English.
After hearing your defense about her,,,I understood.
However, I live in Austin Texas and associate with those who do not speak english and don't care to learn it......they are just here for the money....don't care about intergrading....This really fires me up!! Then go home to where ever your from!!! Whats your thoughts?

Harry   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

i am offended at some of the comments made about rick's mother...i am an immigrant myself who's parents have sacrificed themselves for their children...maybe we should make a law that requires all immigrants to know English to stay in the USA??...good luck with that one when Sotomayor makes it into the Supreme Court...

Heather M. Brown   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Hi Rick,

I just watched your explanation on this story – about the Wise Latina Women and also about why your Mom doesn't speak English. My family came over to the U.S. on the Mayflower to flee religious persecution. Another (direct) line came over in the late 1600s/early 1700s. My ancestors fought and took bullets in the Revolutionary War to form this nation and to make it a place where the free could have a representative government and pursue life, liberty and happiness.

Do I think people should do their best to learn the language of their adopted nation? Sure. However, I believe that Spanish should automatically be taught in America starting in Kindergarten or 1st grade. I also believe that parents, like yours, do whatever it takes to make sure their children have a better life than they had and for that they deserve our respect. Sometimes what they did for their children is done at the expense of learning that language I feel immigrants or expatriates should learn.

Knowing that – and because of that – I've studied over a half dozen languages and was thrilled that I was able to understand your mother's responses before you provided your translations.

So hats off to you and your friends in Hialeah for your Wise Latina Women segment. Hats off as well to your parents for a job very well done.

Take care y muchas gracias,

Heather

Darren Elisaga   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Awesome brother! It's refreshing to see someone on TV finally "Keeping it real"!!!! My highest respect to your mother.... She is a living definition of the word "mother."

Shaunak   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick, I am impressed.

It is hard to believe that you are a minority sometimes because of the color of your skin. I did feel at times that you were just using your last time in vain.

However, I understand you better after you comments defending your mom and I am impressed. As a first generation East Indian, my parents have made the same sacrifices to make the lives of their children better. I applaud you for bringing their struggles known to those who DO NOT understand this.

Being of East Indian heritage, it is hard sometimes for others to see what my parents had to go through. We are minority group that is never really considered a minority because of our success in America. However, we still have to through the same struggles.

Thanks

Barbin   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick,
I thought your Mom was charming. I don't speak Spanish, but I sure got a sense of what she was saying before you interpreted. You are lucky to have such a warm and bright person for a Mom. You are right–we all came from somewhere. My grandparents came from Slovenia when it was just a location in Austria. I always knew when my Grandma was talking (in Slovenian–her English was about like your Mom's is–wouldn't do it on the record) about me and my brother to my Mom. How much the immigrant experience is–even if it generations and languages apart. Yes, how much our families worked so that we could/can enjoy the educated and safe lives we life. We are grateful to our families and we understand that they worked very long hours and didn't have opportunities to learn English. The beauty of America is that it is all-embracing.

mary deleon   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

rick.....I was touched by your comments about your mother's sacrifices to give you a better life. Thanks for sharing this with everyone and hopefully others will appreciate the struggles that immigrants and their families endure. I also like your wise latinas conversations. Keep up the good work!

Wanda   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Hey Rick,
You are so fortunate to have been raised with such beautiful loving parents. It was so touching to hear the words from you about the quality of life of your Mom and Dad. You are so blessed. I try to watch your CNN segment as much as I can. Actually, when I do watch tv I am a CNN junkie. Thank you for giving so much inspiration to everyone. You are truly a beautiful person!

Warm hugs,
Battle Ground, Washington

Carol   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

BRAVO, BRAVO on your piece on your madre,......from someone very white whose ancestors came over on the Mayflower. This "I'm here, shut the door" attitude by many whites shows how little they have matured and grown since their ancestors arrived, whenever it was.
Gorgeous Latina women around your mothers table! Maybe Sessions, Graham and their buddies are threatened because their daughters, if they have them, aren't as smart or as pretty. Happy late Birthday to your exceptional mother. She too is beautiful, and I suspect, smart.

Lori B   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

I'm sorry that your Mother was subjected to this ridiculous American opinion. I truly do not understand why people feel speaking english is the most important aspect of living here in this country. I prefer that people who come here, bring a positive attitude, hard working ethics, a desire to better themselves and their family. They enrich our country with their ideas, and culture. I wish I had learned a second language and am very envious of those that have more then one language. Kudos to your Mom, she obviously successfully raised an intelligent, compassionate man...not small feat in this society. Obviously the language she spoke didn't impede her success, but I bet the words she spoke enhanced it. :)

Jim   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick, Your Mother not speaking English, it hurts her more than I, I support both of you!! I am not a predudice person, my Parents raised me this way. Actually my older Sister married a gentleman from Cuba, great man! My Nephews are Hispanic. I voted for President Obama and I am happy with my pick! I chose him because he brought fresh leadership, not that he is black/white.

I am a White Irish American, can't we all just get along! I know people have been hurt, you should hear some of my Grandparents stories. I am a patient person, please stop trying to seperate all of us! Please

Jim

Naomi Rose   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick, your response to that criticism was very moving! Yes, many mothers make incredible sacrifices for their children's success. Whether your mother speaks English or Spanish or both languages (which most of us in America are uable to do) is immaterial. She is a mother who sacrificed for you, and you are proud of her. So are we!
God bless you for your sincerity and honesty.

Rick Weiss   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

About your mother – she looks great and well mannered – but
as yourself I am a first generation American from Switzerland.
My father had a high school education, but managed to learn
both French and English fluently on his own. My mother also
managed to learn French and English. This was due to the
fact that we moved and lived in these countries and my fathers
philosophy on this was simply that if you lived in some else'
country and eat their bread you should respect their ways and
do everything you can to integrate.
This did not mean that we lost our cultural values, I still today
feel more Swiss in many ways than American.
My point is that I think that a great deal of the discomfort that
people have here in the United States for Hispanics is that
they do not, in many cases but not all of course, embrace this
country culturally and appreciate it for what it is. Anyway we
could go on and on about this topic but I think that embracing
the country that has welcomed you should be obvious.

Rev. Dr. Jerry Hebert   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick,
I am a whte male – my grand parents on my fathers side are from Poland and on my mothers side Native American and French.

I speak flawless english – and I am very proud of the comments you made about your mom and your family. I think it is the men and women like your mom that need to be honored in this country. This is the foundation our nation was really founded on with the kind of character your mother brought to the fabric of this nation. We are all better off for her sacrafice and commitment.

Thank you

Bill Hanbury   July 16th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Your mom sounds great, but you would be doing her a favor by encouraging her to learn english. Knowing better english can only help to enrich her life. Without it, she remains somewhat compartmentalized in a sub-culture. I'm sure she's perfectly content with this, but for her sake (not because people who don't even know her think she should speak english) you should want her to expand her horizons and see a bigger picture, and learning english would help her do just that. Buenas suerte.

Sheryl   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

You tell 'em Rick! You brought tears to both my husband and I.
Because we related to your story of your mother. Bless her! Anyone who has a problem with that doesn't have a heart! Keep up the great work!

Debbie Maya   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

i love the story you just shared about why your mother does not speak English. She is a noble woman. And you are the best son to fullfil your families dreams. This country needs more of that dedication to excel for the good of the whole. We have been wading in a sea of greed for too long. Long live the Sanchez family and others like you!!

Chris   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

Rick,

Thank you for speaking about your perspective in efforts to impart insight and understanding. I too am from Hialeah and am a product of first generation parents who gave up their personal interests for the good of us children. You I also don't think many people realize that many of our parents had careers in their countries. My father was studying to be an engineer and my mother a lawyer. Both gave up their careers and immigrated to the states for freedom resorting to work manually and several jobs at a time! Today, I am a few months from away from obtaining my doctorate degree in Clinical Pyschology–all because my parents made sure I had that opportunity. My parents speak some English, but that was only possible after we had gone through school. They took the intiative to go to night school. Still to this day, they work hard and have an amazing work ethic. Nevertheless, for the first generation immigrant, learning English becomes a luxury and definitely secondary to putting food on the table!

Thanks Rick!

Tru Ann Davis   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

Rich, What a wonderful Son you are.!IYour Mother is a true Gem.
Such a sweetheart that I had a lump in my throat as your story and their story mirrors so many wonderful parents who raise wonderful and accomplished children. It was so sweet and lovely to hear her speak spanish. I tried in high school ,because I've always wanted to speak the language. The only language that your Mom needs to speak is the universal language of love and understanding,which she does so well. What a sweetie-pie !

Carolyn   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

That's the story of my family. Some of them spoke French their whole lives. But it was a couple hundred years ago and we have forgotten that they weren't with the English program. It's the promise of America: make things better for your children. So I appreciated your comment on it.

Sharon   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

Your comments about your family were just beautiful....It's a shame that we have so many small minded ignorant people in this world

dilan   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

Hi rick, just saw your comment about why your mom came to america. I fully understand your feelings about this topic because i am currently in the same situation but, just praaying my children do not go through what i am . Does this not however surprise you about people talking about immigrants like they are uninvited slaves who are and can only do the lowest jobs in the american society and get no praise but blames for every economic problem. Give your mom a special embrace each time you see her rick, that is your heroen no matter what wars america may be fighting.

Prince Ananaba   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

rick, i watcch you everyday from my office, good stuff. you are correct about your mom not having to know how to speak english and not being successful all because you are. she made sacrifices for you. this is true of my grandmother who is over 100 yrs. old in nigeria. she had no fridge, no tv, no radio, but her children and grandchildren can buy any quantity of those things she could not enjoy. you are right on our parents made the most of what they had so that we could do better thank they did. my dad once said to me "i want you to go to school overseas to give the exposure i could not have."

thank you my friend.
the Prince.

Vincent   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

Rick, your mother doesn't need to speak English. She speaks the language of a "mother's love". You are so blessed to have her.

Judith Yaworsky   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

RicK:

Thanks for sharing your family's story with us. I found it very emotional and could relate very well.

Quite truthfully, I have always thought you very cocky, but this story puts a whole different perspective on you.

Judith

Kristina Maynard Vazquez   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

YES!!!!!!!!!! You said it so well. I cannot remember being moved to tears by an anchor's editorial comments before, but today I was.

I'm Irish American by heritage and am married to a hispanic man. My Mother-In-Law speaks very limited English and it has been a struggle at time. I admit to getting frustrating at times, but I realize the same things that you stated in your post and on air. She didn't get to do all the things to better "herself" because she and my father-in-law were busy working and making sure that my husband and his brother could pursue the education they needed to be a success. I remember her pride on Easter when she grabbed a passerby to tell them in halting English that her oldest son (my husband) was a lawyer and the other was a stock broker. To quote another wise Latina woman "The America dream in my house!"

bronwyn   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

People are very quick to judge I always find.
I think your parents did a wonderful job with you and they must be so proud of you.Your brutal honesty,compassion and respect for others is a fresh change and I hope you continue to do the great job of reporting and digging that you do.
I am sure that many people appreciate what you do.
Thanks Mom for your great son!!!

Skip Piper   July 16th, 2009 3:56 pm ET

It was a shallow question....Maybe your mom like mine had more important things to do like raising children to become responsible and productive citizens.

deece   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

My issue isn't so much with the fact that you're mother cannot speak english although I am not in favor of US tax dollars being allocated to cater to immigrants who do not assimilate and learn english.

I take issue with the fact that the panel of Latina professional women in your round table discussion were so absolutely biased in favor of Sotomayor. If we took the exact words spoken by Sotomayor regarding a "wise Latina woman" and subsituted them with the term "a wise white man", we know there would be a huge public outcry about the candidate's inability to serve on the supreme court in a un-biased and impartial manner.

Vincent Gutierrez Jr.   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Your perspective hits right at home. My parents became U.S. citizens a while back, but they still speak broken english. They have lived here since they were 17 and 20 but will occasionally get harassed by others for their accent. They came to this country so that my siblings and I may have a better life, just as the grandparents or great grandparents of those who harass them today fail to understand. Unfortunately, I feel this kind of ignorance will never end with the close minded.

Rita Hoag   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Rick, I am so glad someone on TV spoke up and defended people who speak a language other than English and who come from backgrounds that didn't originate in the United States. We need to realize that the US has always been a melting pot and shed our prejudices and celebrate the differences between us. I feel sorry for people that have to hide from the name Maria. Personally my mom's name was actually Dulce Nombre de Maria, and she personified such a special name. Thanks again Rick. Maybe someday people will no longer fear these cultural differences and enjoy the richness that they offer.

Jimmy Two Owls Adams   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

I've read and listened. All I have to say; You and yours, as with all, have made this country the wonder it is and always has been. I and my family are from the place you have come to make the true wonder we always knew it was.
Jimmy Two Owls
Choctaw Nation

Dave   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

First, your show. Give it about a 7 on a 1-10. Watch it about 3 times a week. Second, your mom. Love your comments. My Grandma came from Slovakia just about 100 years ago. Neither her or Grandpa leaned much English. She leaned enough to raise 10 children and Grandpa learned enough to work in the coal mines and steel mills. My mom is 1st generation American and at 93 is still bi-lingual. It really irks me when I hear someone utter the likes of "if you can't speak english you better go back to where you come from". I have overheard that a number of times here in N Carolina in reference to Hispanics. Racism is unfortunately alive and thriving.

Bob Wilke   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

The best cure for bigotry is knowledge. Not just academic knowledge but direct knowledge of other people and their life experiences.

Sharing your mother's story was a great way to help quiet the noisy anti-immigrant voices because it puts a very real and, dare I say, empathetic face on the immigrant experience.

As you pointed out, for most Americans, their immigrant history is long in the past. But it's a matter of historical fact that we're all from someplace else.

John Young   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Good for you, Rick Sanchez!

Today is the first time I've ever seen you. Your explanation as to why your mother does not speak English was right on! I think many people in America today lose sight of what many have to go through to ensure better lives for themselves and, more importantly, their children.

Andrew Zajac   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Rick's mom has made a choice: a choice to be lazy.

A wonderful thing was created many, many years ago – books.
Another wonderful thing was created – libraries, where books can be checked out for free.

All that is required is the effort to go to a library and checkout a book that teaches english. Have a friend go with you to help if you are nervous. Or even just checkout "See Spot Run." Do SOMETHING to improve yourself, not just the lives of your children.

The less we do to be able to understand each other, the less united we become. And laziness is the beginning of ignorance, which leads to anger and hatred of our differences, instead of discussing and celebrating them.

I hope more people realize this and make the choice to learn, instead of choosing ignorance and laziness. Otherwise oneday this nation will become more like the (Fill-in-the-blank for any current nation or region at war and in-fighting), full of anger, distrust and violence over differences that are not understood due to not understanding the other person.

bob jones   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

I am much more interested in the actions and deeds of your mothers heart and soul than the particular language used. Your mother sounds wonderful. Even though my Spanish isn't great I understand what she represents. Thanks mom!

RealistLittleIdealist   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Normally I do not post comments, but this story has compelled me to do so. It is very easy for people to forget where they come from and become judgmental to say the least. It seems that Americans forget very quickly and that is why one of the reasons in general the US is no longer the beacon it once was. Great response to such bigotry and ignorance ….

Bryan Magliocca, Sr.   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Good for you Rick! Most Americans are too far removed to understand the sacrifice that immigrant parents make when they come to the United States. I'm a teacher in Massachusetts, and most parents of immigrant children I work with are busy working two and three jobs so their children can be fed and attend schools. We drive buy and are annoyed when we see immigrants waiting at the bus stop or riding bicycles to work. We forget how difficult it is for immigrant families to get started in this country.

Dave   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

This country will never grow up, or move forward. I am sick and tired of all these immigrants who don't understand English. I sat in Jury Duty, just the other day, as one after another, people of unknown ethnicity, could not understand what the judge was asking them and were let go on that fact. These non-English speaking immigrants should not be allowed to live here.

Gaby   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Rick, I have to say CNN has never made me want to cry, but your comments about your mom made me hold back tears. I had to share this with you. I know you were talking about your mom, but you may as well have talking about mine and many other people's moms who come to this country and sacrifice for their children. I am one year from earning a Ph.D. and my mom struggles with English. She brought me to the U.S. when I was nine. She tried to enroll in night school but dropped out when she would call home during her break and my sisters did not know where I was. So she worked during the day, then came home to take care of her children, to then work at night. Now, her 4 daughters graduated from college and I am about to get a Ph.D.
So when you said
"My mom can’t express herself in English, because I can.
She isn’t accomplished or wealthy, because I am.
My mom missed meals when I was growing up so that I could eat.
You see, my mom didn’t bring me to America so she could become successful or educated. She brought me to America so I could become successful and educated."

I almost broke down in tears, and now I finally have....I am crying. Because my mom, the house cleaner, deserves a little more respect than the viewers who are angry because she does not speak English. If anything they should be admired for their love and sacrifice. Just because they did not have the opportunity to learn that language does not mean they don't love this country, I mean, look at the opportunities this country gave their children.
Thank you so much for speaking out from your heart.

A girl raise by a wise Latina

miguel torres   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

I am an imigrant to for 23 years i have 3 kids and like your mother my wife an i work to many hours for my kid to have a good education and all this time we never ask for eny goverment aid welfare foodstamps medicade or unemployment and we paid our taxes to .god bles your mother for all she did for you

virginia barron   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Hi RIck,

I want to say you did an excellent job in not only the "wise latina" topic but also in explaining about your mom not speaking English. I have worked with low-income families that don't speak English for over 25 years. I often try to explain to folks that these families are busy trying to survive day to day just so that their children will have a better life. There are never enough English classes that are accessible to families that work long hours or need child care and transportation. Folks don't get it.

You've done an awesome job. I am sure your Mom is very proud.

Virginia Barron

sergio   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Hey Rick,

As the son of wise latina who sacrificed her self so i could go to college and have better life, I completely understand you. When you gave your response to why your mother doesnt speak english, i just lost it and started crying. Why I dont know, I havent done so since I was little kid. Im still trying to compose my self. Never has some one put that life life experience so well and it just brought back something from my childhood. Keep up the good work.

Sergio

RUTH LYONS   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Rick:
I am happy for your mother and understand her situation. She came to America to make it better for you. My great-grandmother, grandmother and mother spoke English, were born in the USA, not immigrants, and had that same difficult time. Maybe it would have been better if they were immigrants.

Reba Hallmark   July 16th, 2009 3:57 pm ET

Mr. Sanchez,
Shame, shame, shame on you. After the snide remarks you made about members of congress from the South and the way they talk, I will no longer be watching CNN. I do not understand why someone that is Hispanic would ridicule the way someone else talks, I would think you would be above that, especially since CNN is world wide & has an audience that is diverse & speaks many languages. That was petty & imature on your part.

Erica Rose Motamed   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick – Don't waste your time explaining your mother's linguistic skills to those ignorant people. Your mother is an example of the highest maternal qualities and is of my heroes!

Melissa   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

OMG!!! Thank you Rick!! I myself am a 2nd generation immigrant but from an English-speaking country and I still face stereotype bc of muy accent. I am SO glad u expressed an immigrants way of thinking bc so many Americans that r not Native forgot that they to r products of immigration and their ancestors did what they had to do to make the lives of their families better. Instaed of Americans worrying about immigrants speaking English..maybe we should focus on educating our future generations to be multi-lingual. Its ashame that Americans travel abroad and do not know how to speak French, Spanish, Italian, Japanese, Arabic, etc. And expect to find people who speak English. Let's focus on Eduation, Tolerance, and Remembering we all came from and where we all began. Good job Rick (as usual).

Dee   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick, No explanation needed. Your mother did what she had to do as any loving mother would. I wasn't threatened nor intimitated by your mother not speaking English. I saw her beautiful soul. Why are we as a society so judgemental. I also think that its beautiful that you still speak the language. Don't mess with Moms. Keep doing your thing . Keep your head up Adela. Your part of what makes this country GREAT!!!

Paula Silva   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Hey Rick;
Thank you for sharing your family..regardless if you Mom speaks English or not..She did a marvelous job bringing you up!

KellyJ   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick...Don't let this get to you. We are not so very far removed from many of our Grandparents speaking German, Italian, Polish, and any other European language in this country. These same people criticizing your mother would probably tell you proudly of their ancestory, but would have no clue about the culture, the traditions or the language of where they came from. That's the sad part..... P.S. I thought your Mom looked beautiful and vibrant.

isiah jennings   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Listening to your show and the comments about latino people it sound like when black migrated from the south and took menial jobs to provide for their families. Ultimately we've all gone down the same road.

Cassandra Martinez   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick,Ignorance is the worst fault.If the persons that critisized that your mamà does not speak English went anywhere in the world,they would expect everyone to speak Eng. to them because they can not communicate in any other language but English. This stupid arrogance is why North Americans are laughed at and despised whereever they travel. Your parents are #1 in my book. With love from Fajardo,Puerto Rico!

jeff   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Your mother scarificied for you so that you could be the person you are now why don't you help her learn english so she can express herself in this country in english

Alex   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

I guess some people keep forgetting that our country is a melting pot. Its sad but understood after many generations one forgets where their roots came from. Rick, you hit the nail right on the head . If only we could really know how and why our ancestor came to the US we might appreciate immigrates persistence.

Elena H.   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick,

I have to say that I loved your statement regarding why your Mother does not speak English, it actually brought tears to my eyes. Your Mother must be soo proud!!!

Great Response!

Elena H.

Heidi Coretz   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Thank you for this beautiful personal reflection. It was very appropriate and we could feel that it was from the heart. I know that you are very proud of your hard working parents, as they are of you.

Armando Solis   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick,

I just watched your story and it honestly brought me to tears. My parents came from Mexico in the same way, worked in the fields and broke their backs so my brother and I could go to college, and we both ended up graduated, me recently from Stanford, and yet to this day, they only care about our future and being well off. Their unselfishness, much like you said is like many parents in our country is what this world needs to know about, not those stereotypes and ignorant views. Your story is one that really touched me, and I wish that everyone could see it. Thanks so much for it.

Armando

Linda Foss   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

I too am among the many who saw your interview with your mom yesterday and I too wondered why she doesn't speak English. After hearing your story just now I completely understand, it makes perfect sense and I was actually moved to tears. I've always enjoyed your reporting. You are so down to earth, so genuine, it's a pleasure to watch your show. Now I understand why you are so special, so real, look at your back ground and your hard working parents. They did a great job reaising you! Thank you so much for sharing your story with your viewers!

Michael   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick
What you just said about your mother was eye opening and brilliantly explained. I am an immigrant whose parents speak english and always felt that if immigrants wanted to ease the stigma they feel, learn english. Thank you for reminding me what this was all about and forgetting that my education and success came as a sacrifice for others. I dont pay attention to CNN, for some reason i was watching today and will watch once i figure out when you are on.
Thank you.

Ingrid   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick, I am with you 200%. My parents are from Ecuador and went through the same life path. They migrated to the U.S. and brought, not only my immediate family, but also extended family as residents. As a result, I own my own home. My sisters own their own home. We are all educated and went to college with successful careers. In addition, my extended family received and took advantage of the opportunities the U.S. has to offer that other underdeveloped countries may not have offered. For those who criticized your mom, I ask them who is the stronger here?: the one who left their home land and had the courage to move to a completely foreign land and actually make it work for their family OR the person who was born here where opportunities are made far easier for them?

Congratulations to your mom and yourself for both your successes.

Cheers,
Ingrid

Richard de Olivas y Cordova   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

I am a 12th generation Hispanic-American whose ancestors came to what is now the United States in 1598; who was taught both English and Spanish at home by parents who not only believed in working hard to give us the opportunity to become great Americans but also to never lose contact with our magnificent Hispanic culture. I am still told to "go back to Mexico" when people hear me speaking my other native language. The confirmation of Judge Sotomayor as a Supreme Court Justice is great for all Americans but a pride and honor for all Latinos.

gloria trylko   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick, that was a very significant comment on your mom, her achievements and this whole Latina women controversey. . She is lovely. God bless

Anastasia   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

The exact same reason why your mom doesn't speak English is the same reason why my parents don't either. I'm a child of immigrant parents who came from Greece over 40 years ago. They, too, struggled the way yours did. They sacrificed their betterment and the quality of their lives for me and my siblings. They didn't come to Canada for them, but, for us. They couldn't go to school; they were too busy trying to get us through it.

Unless you're from the same backround, not too many people can understand – truly understand – that. You are the only television personality I know that has tapped into this and has brought this to the public's attention. Thank you for that! It really means a lot!

I love you Rick Sanchez! You speak from the heart! Keep up the excellent work! We need more people like you.

Anastasia, Toronto, CANADA

Morocco MisterBoy   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick,
African Americans or Black People have done the same thing your Mother has done, not so much for herself ( I am sure she reflected/projected on her actions; ie. working her ass-off and thinking of what you could/would do with the results/proceeds thereof ) but for the freedom her work would afford you to take the next step forward.
Muy Bien Mrs. Fernandez,
Gracias

Evelyn Kaye   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Rick ,
Did you live at home as a child ? Did you speak English ? Did your mother have the opportunity to learn from English from her children ? Why not admit it . Like all those inmigrants whose children spoke English but none of the parents speak it , they didn't want to learn as bad as they wanted the children to learn and be American . They only wanted enough of America to make a living , nothing more .
Evelyn Kaye

Lily   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

Your mother is beautiful! It does not matter what lang she speaks it is clear she speaks with love for her family.

Leslie Campos   July 16th, 2009 3:58 pm ET

First I would like to say THANK YOU Rick, I'm so happy to see someone like you willing to give your perspective to help other people understand what the rest of us have to go through. Because that is something I find a lot of the time, its that people just don't understand. My story is similar to yours. I am a first generation Mexican immigrant. My parents brought my brother, sister and I here when I was just a baby and have been working hard to provide for us and give us better than what they had in Mexico since the moment we got here. My mom, like your mom, doesn't speak english and I don't believe that is something to be ashamed of. We all come from different backgrounds, different situations, different upbringings; and unfortunately a lot of us lack the understanding of these differences. So i truly appreciate you as a public figure sharing your story with everyone. Thank You.

Pat Harris   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Rick: I was moved to tears listening to your tribute to and honor for your mother. Would that all sons had such love and respect for their parents. It is totally insensitive for anyone to make such negative remarks about such a lovely woman.

Alan Neuschatz   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Rick:

Bravo for your touching and intelligent (although unnecessary) defense of your mother's
sacrifice. Anyone who doesn't "get" what she did-and why she did it-misses the
whole point of America. No one is born speaking English and anyone who has
struggled to learn a foreign language can only sympathize with the challenge she faced.
Many of us had parents or grandparents who could not speak English, but they learned
(or knew) something more important: the sacrifices that parents and grandparents
make to raise an American. You-and she-have a lot to be proud of.

chrismendonca23   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Thank you so much for both the roundtable at your mothers home and for defending your mother's Spanish. My father is a Brazilian doctor who came to the US in the 1970s for his residency and ended up staying here in the US. I am blessed to be a Latin woman and I am so incredibly proud Ms. Sotomayor. I am thankful for you for bringing a fresh perspective to both what we as Latin women are saying (cheering "YES WE CAN") and standing up for your mother.

That being said I am angry and concerned at how some members of the judiciary committee have treated Ms. Sotomayor, and cannot seem to move past the fact that she is an accomplished Latin woman. I have found myself wondering if it was a white Anglo-Saxon Protestant male with a similar professional and educational background, would there be any questions about the how his cultural make up defines his decision making and perspectives?

Thank you.

Adam   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

All people should be required to speak english here in the US. To me its just as important as being able to read. Its disrespectul to be in the US and try to work with, socialize, sell to, buy from or assist in your rights as a US citizen and not be able to communicate properly. Who cares were your from, how old you are, what boat you came here on, were you work or what you do. English is required so not only for you but so others around you can help you when you need help or explain basic things like directions, instructions or advice on something. What if your child was stolen and the only person who witnessed it was someone who couldn't speak english? every second counts and could be the difference in finding your child or not. We as a community should not have to wait on a translator to show up to get the info. Then flip it around, lets say you can't speak english & your child was stolen or was hurt? how could you explain what happened or help with saving your childs life with police, medics or fire fighters? If as a nation, we are required to go to school, try to work & better ourselves so we do not live off the government, help our neighbors when they are in need of help, etc... then you should be required to know how to do the most basic thing as person, communiate. No one expects everyone to be college grad's or be financially secure or have the nicest house on the block but we should all be required to speak english. By not speaking english, it is just another excuse to keep our country divided by race. So Rich Sanchez, you are lucky you are rich & famous & have everything your parents did not have but that doesn't mean your mother should not have to know how to speak english. If i move to Germany and want to have a job & have people treat me as one of them & have the same opportunities to have a good job and be a productive member or society, I would not expect everyone around me to just deal with the fact i only spoke english. It is a country that people speak German and if i wish to live there, i should know how to speak German. If we drive on the right side of the road were im from and they dont do it there, I should not expect everyone to allow me to drive on the right side of the road.

Constance Pajeski   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Hi Rick! I just caught your comments on your Mom's background on CNN. I just wanted you to know (from a 74 yr old Wasp) that I admire your Mom and Dad trememdously and argue in defense of all our recent immigrants, who like your parents and ALL our parents and grandparents, came to the USA to improve their chances for success and worked hard to improve their lot. Our country has been enriched by each and every one of them, no matter their race, color, religion, or ethnicity!
Best wishes for your continued success. I think you are great!
Connie Pajeski

Vicki   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Your statement on why your mother does not converse well in English was quite profound. I am sure she is extremely proud of you and we would do well as Americans to respect your parents’ sacrifices and disregard the socially acceptable view that you are not truly an American unless you speak English.

jjrka   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

hey rick i am a 1st generation canadian and i have to say if more peope had moms like yours in your country it would be a better place the fact she does not speak english is irrelavent the fact she helped you be the person you are is the thing that counts

RoseMarie Banuelos, Camp Pendleton, CA   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

VERY WELL SAID!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
My mother-in law does NOT speak ENGLISH as well, but she too came here to make a better life for their CHILDREN and I am proud to say that I married her SON who's in the NAVY for the past 20yrs and been to IRAQ 3 x's and still has managed to continue his education beyond what his parents had done. SO until you have WALKED in their SHOES you should NEVER judge!
Because I too FEEL all the HARD work of picking CHERRIES, TOMATOES, etc... she did it ALL to raise ALL 7 KIDS and now she can sit back and relax while her CHILDREN take care of them!!!!!!!!!!!!

Keith   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Thank you so much for your introspective on why some immigrants still do not speak English. So many times people do not think about the reasons many people choose to put themselves through the difficult task of integrating into a new culture and a new language. If more Americans stopped to truly think of how difficult it would be to move to a new country without any sense of the language they would realize that only the most significant of motives could get us to make that move, our children. I hope that your message will reach well beyond the viewers of your segment.

Antonella   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

That's right Rick, she can't because I can. She didn't so I could. God bless nuestras madres.

Kevin K. Owens   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Dear Rick
I was watching the wise Latina segment and then I saw the statement about your mom. I am so sorry for the arrogant presumption that exists in this country. I moved to Miami just to get closer to Latino culture (I’m African American) because I see the importance of building bridges. My job also requires it. I wanted my son to be raised with some sabor. Born in DC, lived in Chicago, St. Louis, and L.A. since moving to Miami, I now have Spanish as my second language. To me this is a gift not only to me but to my son from persons who have opened their homes and their hearts to us. Most Americans will soon discover that the rest of the world speaks at least 2 languages if not more. We should try to learn another language. We should stop being so lazy and intimidated in this country. That also includes those on Capital Hill. I thought you could have gone further in explaining how about the generations removed many people are. The Cuban Culture is one of the more recent contributions to this great country of ours that we need to learn more about. Once I had my first meal at Versailles I was hook on Miami. Again my sincere apology for narrow minds.

Celeste   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Rick,
I celebrate your pride in your heritage and your family. Isn't it wonderful to have a parent or parents that are unselfish and give unconditionally. The language common to us all should be the language of compassion and mutual respect.. Our individual dialects should be secondary.
Celeste

mike kemper   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Like your mother, my mother too came here from a foreign country. But unlike your mother, mine made sure she had a good grasp of the English language before coming to the States. Having the will to learn the English language and actually using it is essential in having all Americans have a commonality in our society. Remember, not all of us have that "100 year separation" you spoke about.

George DelyanisMD   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Adverse comments about your mother not speaking English are the product of ignorance and prejudice. My father came from Greece at age 18, worked long hard hours and never spoke English very well but put all 3 of his children through college and 2 of us through medical school and law school. Please apologize to no one.

Aila   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Hi Rick,

Rick, my mother is German, and she learned English, only because she had to find a job, after my American father walked out on her and us. Most Americans think that their ancestors came here speaking English. I wonder did their ancestors take the time to speak the language of the Native Americans who were here first. I doubt it!
Rick, your mom doesn't have to learn English, because when Americans were hanging out and buying proberty in Cuba before Castro, those Americans were not speaking Spanish. Double standards, the old American tradition.

Darren Elisaga   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Love is the universal language! Your mother speaks "Love" and that's all that matters!

Aloha, Darren

K.D.MacDonald   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Rick….personally its none of their business if mom doesnt speak english. Mom & dad are still together. You’ve been brought up in a loving home. It’s what’s handed down from generation to generation. FAMILY!!!!!!. My mother was a coal miners daughter. She rose above things to provide for my sibblings and I. Enjoy everyday that she is alive, because after they are gone you truly do miss them. God Bless

Babs   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

I know many families like yours. Ours is a bicultural family. My husband is Mexican and I'm American. Our five children were born overseas. We always thought that travel and languages added to our children's education. Their worldview has to be different than their peers.. "different good". But, that doesn't make them un-American. They are all married to Americans and have children of their own. We still speak Spanish and English. I hope the grandchildren will learn both languages, and more languages if possible. Hurray for multi- culturalism! Don't we all like spice in our lives?

Daniel Vasquez   July 16th, 2009 3:59 pm ET

Rick, I cannot believe people have the audacity to pull that tired "speak English" complaint against your mom. A large part of the people complaining are 4th generation immigrants who are oh so quick to forget that not long ago their great grandparents were being given new names in Ellis Island. What are they going to say next? "Go back to your country"? Come on! The only person that can say that to me is a native american!

C. Sousa   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Rick
I just saw you on TV saying how your mom was not "accomplished" because you are." As a mom, I am afraid that I feel compelled to correct you, if I may. In my eyes, and after hearing all that you said about your mom and your dad, I would have to say that you are so wrong about your mom. Where I come from, Rick, when children are loving and respectful of their parents, the parents are indeed, "accomplished" for having been successful in "the most important job" going: that of raising children. Your parents are both exceedingly "accomplished," Rick. Having degrees or wealth or other status symbols won't help them feel their accomplishment more than they must feel watching you, their son, on CNN!!!

Dr Lewis   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Mr Sanchez, I am sorry that your mom does not speak english only for the fact that she will not be able to understand the wonderful words that you just spoke of her and your father. It is truely refreshing to hear someone speak so highly of their family and I was moved. A tear was shed.
And for those who wrote those distrubing comments about why your mother does not speak english, I hope they are ashamed of themselves now! As someone who has made the effort to learn Spanish, I hope they will expend their knowlege and understanding to be able to communicate with a woman such as her and the many other "Wise LAtino Women".

Dacyl   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Hey Rick, I grew up in Hialeah too! You go brother! Thank you for sharing our "wise latina" perspective. How dare people criticize your adorable mother for not speaking English?!!! I'm so sick of that hateful, divisive attitude in this country! Your mom is just like mine and they are US citizens who work hard (never missed a day), pay taxes, obey the laws and vote in every election, no matter what. Whatever language they choose to speak, especially in their own home, is their own damn business!! What else does this country want from her? She certainly didn't get any health care or pension from the factory.

John Coy   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Rick;
As a fellow Cuban-American, I know how how you feel about your Mom not speaking english, although I'm a bit older than you, my Mom, my sister and I came here in 1962, and as you mentioned, she went straight to work. I now have my own business and I retired from the U S Marine Corps in 1990. As a matter of fact, I was serving my first tour in Vietnam when my Dad died in Cuba, he was never able to get out so my Mom went at it by herself. Unfortunately, not too many of our fellow citizens are aware of the hard times that our parents had to go through in order to make us what we are today, much more painful is the fac that there are some Cuban-Americans that have forgotten what some of their parents have had to endure in order for them to be successful. El Cubanito.

Kasey   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Sometimes as a Americans we forget that America is a country of immigrants. Only, some got here before others. Our constitution assures us that who is last shall be first and who was first shall be last. No matter when we arrived here we are all equal (none more than the other) regardless of how fast our ancestors learn English or Maths.

God bless CNN for allowing you Rick to make such POWERFUL statements to the world.

Thanks.

Marylin   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Rick,
While I applaud your sharing your heritage and honoring your family, many of us as well have families with similar stories......here's the difference. Even my grandmother/grandfather and parents all from Italy managed to learn to speak English once here in America. Not via fancy classes but out of necessity because their language was not available at Banks/ ATMs, Utility Companies, or at work. They learned by others that surrounded them to survive. These are the so called "White" men and women who the statement of Sotamayor disrespects. They too struggled and are no less "Wise". In fact if said in reverse there would be much to do about it. While I believe she is very qualified and deserves to be placed on the Supreme Court, this fact does not make her any less responsible for the words she speaks.

Thank-you.

Jenny   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Divino!!! it is very nice as a Latino woman feel the support of you been proud of your Mom and the sacrifice that she made for you.

As a single educated woman from Colombia, growing up over there, went to colleges over there, coming here to this great Country to learn and find my way to live, it is hard to fight every day trying to prove that you are smart enought to aspire at any position of your skills because they always see you as a Latino woman that still good for minor jobs, with out sound that the Latino people that work hard in this kind of jobs are not valuable, they are.

But is true that many of us are well educated, and deserve more opportunitys. Thanks for show to the world that We can be more than that.

Chrissy   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Rick,

I love the fact that more points of view are being seen and heard of American citizens then just the usual W.A.S.P. It is high time that this country's best and brightest be allowed to reflect the "Melting Pot" that is often quoted but rarely seen outside the negative. Being an American of African decent you fight the same battle every day, to be seen as an EQUAL.

Ayo   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Hey rick re; mom not speaking english, you couldn't have better put it to those who just find it too difficult to understand what "Immigrants" means. simply put; better livelihood for generations of mine.

Katherine   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Hey Rick,
I absolutely loved your answer to why your mom does not speak English. I am half Costa Rican and my mother who speaks English only learned from watching TV since she worked full time and could never have enough time to take classes or enough money to even pay for them. My grandmother still does not speak English but they did all of this for my two brothers and I. My oldest brother has his PhD and is a professor at the University of Georgia, my middle brother is a Pediatrician, and I am currently doing my undergrad at FSU and then plan on attending law school. They did this for us and fought through very difficult circumstaces for us. A lot of people cannot step outside of their own circumstances and have compassion for others that may be different than them, but thank you for looking out!

Mac   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

btw your show is great Rick

Gerardo Jose Masilotti   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Rick, Ricardo...
I understand 100%. We moved from Caracas, Venezuela to Miami, Florida in 1979 when I was 5 years old. My parents suffered and sacrificed everything for their children at any and every cost. Now in their late 50s & early 60s, they face many health problems caused by a life of poverty, stress and overwork. Their lack of fluency in English continues to be a source of shame for them though they try their best.
Americans, on average, speak less languages than most of the citizens of this world. Most Americans are openly outraged by the proposals to mandate foreign language education in public schools, though schools in many foreign countries teach English and other languages to their students from kindergarten on..
In an ever-growing world with rapidly shrinking barriers between cultures it is elitist and ignorant to criticize someone for not knowing your language.
Muchisimas gracias, suerte.

secundra beasley   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

I owe you and your mother and apology. When I first heard her speak I was taken aback that she did not speak English. As an African American woman, I take things like that for granted, since the biggest english issues we have to deal with are slang and ebonics. Then I heard your reply to the comments. I am glad you spoke up and, did not let it fester. Your mother has every right to select what language she chooses to communicate in. That is why she and your family came over from Cuba to America. To have that right. If anything, it will motivate my lazy butt to learn her language, so I can someday put my self in her shoes.

Again, thank you for showing your mother off and teaching us all what it truly means to be an American.

Steve Gilman   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Rick – Tell your mother that there are many of us out here that love her and are very proud of her and proud of what she did to turn out a son that we all respect. "The world wiil judge largely of mother by you".
Keep up the good work. (Your latino women were not only beautiful but obviously very intelligent – we loved them, too).

Jessica   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Rick

I just watched what you said on the show and I immediately felt like I had to congratulate you for what you said. It really was heartfelt. Our parents made sacrifices to come here for US. My mom doesn't speak English either but I can speak it for her. Your mother is wise just like all the other latina mothers that can't speak English. My siblings and I are successful thanks to our mother. Thank you for your comment. It was a slap in the face to everyone that thinks otherwise.

Breylon S.   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Rick,

I commend you for two reasons today. The first is for shedding light on the Sotomayor and the "Wise Latina Women" comment. It was taken completely out of context. Many who oppose her appointment as Supreme Court Justice took it and ran with it. She is very qualified. The scrutiny she has received in the last three days has been used for elections/re-elections in 2010.

The second reason I commend you is for defending the sacrifices your mother made for you to be as successful as you've become. Minorities get the short end of the stick so often, that we forget they too are human. They too are trying to live the American Dream.

I encourage you to continue to shed light on things that matter. The real issues that America is afraid to address. Latin American, African American, and Native Americans and their role in the political arena should all should be highlighted in some way. A Black President nor a female Latin Supreme Court Justice does not satisfy the due equity or justice in this country.

Thanks!

-Breylon S.

Regena Towles   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

GO RICK! Tell your Story!

Hallelelujah! Thank you for your story. I'm African American female and TOTALLY support the message you delivered. Tell your Mom to keep on keepin' on! She may not speak the language, but I'm proud of what she's done. She raised YOU to be a great angchorman. Also thanks for sharing your family's opinion on the "Wise Latino Woman". I'm an African American female who totally understood where Sotomayor was going with her message. The AUDACITY of those Senators daring to lecture on descrimination and the way of life makes me sick!

Tell you Mom she did a good job!

Miguel Arnot   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

I have to say that before today I hadn't really taken much note of the Ricky Sanchez news hour. Well, your rebuttal to why your mom doesn't speak English was possibly the one of the most brilliant things I have ever heard! Felicitaciones, Sr. Sanchez, tu mereces todo lo que tienes en la vida!

Ruth   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Thank you for sharing.

Toni Perry   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

I used to teach ESL through an adult evening program offered at a local community college. Almost all of my students were men and women who worked all day at fairly low paying jobs (often more than one) so their children could have an education and a better life. The program my students attended was in California, but I would guess that similar programs exist near where your Mom lives. I would imagine that your Mom did not learn English because she lived in a Spanish speaking community and was able to have a full life within that community without becoming fluent in English. I can understand this and have met many people who have done the same. I can understand that you love your Mom and appreciate the sacrifices she made for you, but I think you should be honest and admit that if your Mom wanted to learn English she could have done so.

Brandon   July 16th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

So what that she cant speak english , spanish is a part of the usa to, you guys need to learn your history of usa not just the english history.

American in America   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

Rick Sanchez,

Let me get this correct, "She cannot speak English because you can?" For anyone who has family that came from overseas that statement alone makes no sense. My family came from abroad immagrant to this new continent called America. They spoke German, french and quite possibly some other languages before arriving on the shore but eventually learned the language of this country, English. Granted perhaps delayed by responsibilities in raising a family among the other distractions of life in general but sounds like an excuse. Some time during after she would have plently of time in learning even basic English. You must be considering political office or something than a common anchor job repeating the same news reports other stations are and aspiring for bigger and better things than a simple teleprompter repeating employee of CNN. Don't insult America, if you truely love this land halt in the path your going and correct in aiding your mother in learning English. It's the language of the land from which many countries have made a home, what if the creator of the statue of liberty just stopped short of putting those famous words on her tablet by saying 'Nah, i don't need to have English and put french instead' When a citizen legally comes into this country, puts aside their country swearing to uphold the laws of the land they will call HOME learning English is required in most, maybe not everywhere but it shows respect for American and what she stands for the global world.

Going abroad overseas sometimes the requirement of learning a country's language is not demanded but it's nice to learn customs.

Respectfully,

An American in America

Johnny St Louis   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

I don't usually watch your show, but today while channel surfing I caught your piece with the Latina women. Rick you don't have EXPLAIN to us why your MOM doesn't speak english. As you explained as 1st generation American such as myself, our parents believed in us and our future. My sister and I spoke English and Creole to our parents and our parents never had a problem understanding us and those outside of the family. Thank you for being you and thanks to your PARENTS for raising you to be the man that you are.

Laura Kay   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

BRAVO!!

Your words made me cry and think of my grandmother who immigrated to Canada in 1954 after the war and having been kidnapped from her country and brought to Germany – never to see her family again. Where she lived on a slave farm, fed only the outter leaves of cabbages, My other grandmother, and both grandfathers did not survive the war. The men were killed and the women starved to death. In fact her entire family was killed – save for my grandmother who not only survived the war – the torture – the starvation and abuse... but came to Canada with less than $100 in her pocket and two small children.

My grandmother had a very thick accent and my friends would always ask me to translate for them what she said. She was the most loving and selfless person I know. Judged no one. She lived a very humble life and worked her fingers to the bones in a Sears warehouse for over thirty years. She did this so our family would have a opportunity at life. A better life.

I am proud of my grandmother and I am proud of your words about your mother.

-Laura

Mig   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

Rick,

I am Cuban American from Miami, born and raised in one of the most dynamic communities in this country. I too am proud of the progress made by a single generation fleeing repression of our island.
However, let's keep the Sotomayor story focused on Sotomayor and not turn it into a soapbox for your personal story.
While your piece with these highly respected women, who should be applauded, provided great insight. Your self adoration makes the topic unwatchable....
"She isn’t accomplished or wealthy, because I am."... was this a necessary comment when thousands of your viewers might be struggling to figure out where their next meal will come from?
I completely understand the struggle our parents and grandparents overcame to give us a better life. But please this is not the forum or the place for this.

Cassandra Martinez   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

Racial prejudice will always be a part of the people. That is why the whole country is not going forward.

David Rivera   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

Very nicely said, Rick. What you said on TV (a longer version of what you posted) made some very important and necessary points in addressing people who criticize the English language ability of immigrants living in the U.S. I am especially relieved that you emphasized that many of those who criticize the language ability of immigrants are far removed from the immigration experience of their ancestors. I think if we were to back up hundred years or so, we would see that many immigrants from Europe had to deal with language issues as well. Comments that criticize the English language ability of people living in the U.S. also bring with them direct and indirect connotations, such as judgments on intellect, immigration status, and work ethic, among others. These messages can be damaging to the personal and collective experience of people who speak a language other than English (for whatever reason). I could go on and on about the types of messages a question such as "Why doesn't she speak English?" bring forth. I thank you for directly addressing this question and doing so in a way that will hopefully encourage people to consider the impact of their words.

Maureen Clemens   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

My parents were also immigrants and made huge sacrifices for me and my seven brothers and sisters. Like you, I saw how hard they worked and how they went without time after time so their children could have opportunities.

Now, as an elementary teacher in L.A. with many immigrant children in my class, I have a deep appreciation for what my parents did for me. I constantly remind my students how fortunate they are to have these opportunities and to be able to learn two languages. I use my Spanish when necessary when a student needs primary language support or to make them feel more comfortable in their new surroundings. I learned Spanish to be a better teacher to my students.

My parents had the benefit of knowing English. They were from Ireland. If they had to learn a second language, I doubt that they would have had the time to do it with the family and work obligations.

It's easy for people to judge when they have no idea what immigrant parents have to do to provide for their families. I applaud your Mom and Dad for what they did for you and your family!!

Rechard   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

She Can't Because I Can....
Heard you loud and clear Rick well done. I am happy Mother brought you to America, you're an awesome reporter. It's a beautiful thing for minority sisters in America. The Honorable Sonia Sotomayor "Supreme" !.

Peace & Blessings,
A Wise Black American Woman

Lee Silverton   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

Bravo Rick! Never felt better writing a congradulatory e:mail. My grandparents came from Poland before WWI. They lived in supportive Polish communities in PA and never spoke english well, if at all. Their sons went off to WWII. They have great grandchildren with doctorates and children who participated in building the industry of this country in the 50s and 60s. You said it right man.... and to those who criticized your mother. Lee

Mike   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

Rick,
America's greatness also came out of the hard work done by immigrants and their sons and daughters. I myself is an immigrant serving in the Army since my second month in US 10 years ago. Then I couldn't speak a word of english and yet they let me served and I succeeded to become an Army Officer. I am proud to say that I have fought for this Country for love and for a better future of my children.

Sarah   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

I loved what you have said about your mom. It made me reflect on my mom and where she came from. It doesn't matter if your parents don't speak English. They make who you are. My father is an American whom he met my mother from Thailand. She came here to the U.S. when she was only 17 and married my father. She learned to read and write English and even took a few adult classes. She cannot pronounce every English word perfectly, but she tries her best. I am so grateful for my mother for how hard she works to give us (my brothers and I) a life she has always wanted. Thank you for this article! Your mom is special.

vince wright jr.   July 16th, 2009 4:01 pm ET

hello rick,i am a part time participent to your show when i have time.I am an 23 yr old african american soldier serving in Alaska.I usually dont blog,but i had to commend u for making that staement about why ur mother does'nt speak english,even though u owed no one an explanation.She is a beautiful mother .I feel the same about mine."she will be taken care of regardless".

Donald H   July 16th, 2009 4:02 pm ET

So, Rick, after going though all that your mother and father sacrificed for you, your thinking is that now you are better than any other immigrants or persons born in this country? That somehow, you are entitled to lord over any one who is not of your background/ethnic group? If so, you did not learn anything about this country while you were growing up in the U.S.A.

Jason Largever   July 16th, 2009 4:02 pm ET

P.S. – IF A GREAT MOM IS WORTH HER WEIGHT IN GOLD THEN IT SOUNDS LIKE FORT KNOX NEEDS TO BORROW GOLD FROM YOU!

shontae walden   July 16th, 2009 4:02 pm ET

That was so eloquently put. Your feelings were so palpable and your pride was so visible. Maybe people will think before they focus on something as MINUTE as language, instead of focusing on the importance of the meeting.

John Palacio   July 16th, 2009 4:02 pm ET

As a Latino from California, I want to thank you for putting a human face on the challenges, sacrifices and opportunities that immigrants face in improving the lives of Americans and subsequently their own families. Unless someone has experienced this, it is very difficult to understand what immigrants go through. If anything, it is the success stories of the children of immigrant families like Supreme Court nominee Sonia Sotomayor and even yourself, as a nationally renowned news commentator, that makes us appreciate the contributions of immigrants to the betterment of this country. Thank you for sharing your family experience. Thank you for making a difference. Thank you for educating the American public.

Chloe   July 16th, 2009 4:02 pm ET

Thank you for sharing the sacrifices that your parents made for your family. I am sure that there are many that share your parent's story of creating the "American Dream"...may the Most High continue to bless you and yours.

nanie   July 16th, 2009 4:02 pm ET

r u married? just curious..

Terry   July 16th, 2009 4:02 pm ET

Your mom and mom's like her are, and have been, the infrastructure holding this nation together. My family only spoke French when they came over before the American Civil War. They stayed out of that war because they said it wasn't their fight. I married into a family of Yugoslavian ancestry. What culture and experiences I have been exposed to because of other people in other nations sharing their ideas with me. Now, I am a ham radio operator with a wealth of Germans trying to help me with my pronunciation of their language from the years I studied it in college. Your mom's a bright and shining star in this nation and you tell her I told you so!

Gayle   July 16th, 2009 4:02 pm ET

I'm so ashamed of those people who commented on your mother not speaking English. She's just like all loving parents who want the best for their children,and are willing to sacrifice everything to make sure that they get it. Your parents are true Heros. I love to see the pride that is in your face.

Connie   July 16th, 2009 4:02 pm ET

Congratulations Rick!
You spoke what many of us should have reponded, when we were asked that same question.
Many of our parents, born in the 1900's, Worked hard so that we could get an educaiton and improve our lives.
Keep in the good work.
I am proud of you!
Connie

Lee Ann   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Well said! Sometimes people don't realize the sacrafices parents make for their children. I see this as the case here.

DeeDee in Phoenix   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Your Mother is clearly a very bright and classy lady in any language, and you are right to be proud of her.
The only apologies necessary today should be from the GOP Senators who revealed their deep-rooted racism with every question to Judge Sotomayor. And no, I'm not Latina; just a privileged White woman who is ashamed of the Republican Party.

RENA MORRISON   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

RICK I AM SURE YOUR MOTHER IS A LOVELY LADY. BUT, YOUR EXCUSE FOR HER NOT LEARNING ENGLISH IS A COP OUT. WHEN MY GRANDPARENTS CAME HERE FROM GERMANY, THEY LEARNED ENGLISH. THEY KNEW BY DOING SO THEY WOULD NOT HAVE TO DEPEND ON OTHERS TO SPEAK FOR THEM. MY GRANDMOTHER WORKED AS A SEAMTRESS AND MY GRANDFATHER DELIVERED MILK IN NEW YORK CITY. THEY MOVED THE FAMILY TO VERMONT. GROWING UP I NEVER REMEMBER EVER HEARING GERMAN SPOKEN AND BOTH HAD BEAUTIFUL PENMANSHIP. THEY NEVER USED THEIR BACK GROUND AS AN EXCUSE.

FROM THE OTHER SIDE,

RENA MORRISON

Christa Middler   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Rick, you are so refreshing as a reporter! Thank you for sharing your story and I would bet your parents are proud of you and what you have accomplished. To your critics, ask them if they ever have lived and moved to a different country and worked endless hours including raising children and found time to go to classes to learn another language... just amazing to me... that poeple all the time, do not have empathy. Oh, here is the word... Empathy...:>)
In reference to Judge Sotomayor, can you invistigate further please,
was the New Haven original lawsuit different then the suit that was decided by the Supreme Court. I was following her answers today,
and it seems to me, that is what she was indicating, but nobody wishes to "hear" it perhaps?, because it is being asked by Republicans?? Sometimes, the devil is in the details....

Thank you,

Christa

Fernando Comulada   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Just watched your piece about your Mom and let me tell you, the only difference between you and I is that I was borned in Puerto Rico. Although my Mom did not have to inmigrate to the mainland, she lived a complete life, just like your Mom, because she fulffiled all of her dreams....by giving me and my sibbligs a better life and a good education. My respects and admiration to your Mom.

This supports what I wrote back in 1979...."Solo existe un buena Madre en el Mundo; y todo el Mundo la tiene"

Sheila   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Rick, thanks for the touching story about your mother. My grandparents came here from Norway. Neither had more than an 8th grade graduation and they spoke very little English. They were both smart as a whip and worked hard to provide for my father and his six siblings. I'm so proud of them and the heritage they passed on to their grandchildren. There is so much value in what they did, so much hard work and sacrifice, yet they did not meet society's definition of success. I wish they were here so I could tell them that the example they provided was was priceless.

Daniela   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

I was deeply moved by your beautiful response to the comment about your Mother not speaking English. That she does not speak English is not important-what is important is that she raised a wonderful,caring, intelligent son. Please give her a hug from me.

Sean   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Good way to make excuses for your mom. Many thousands if not millions have come to this country and assimilated to this country, some by watching TV and simply trying. How many years has your family been here? Our country is strong because of people who came here and immersed themselves in America and fought for it, not stood with half a foot in their home country. Are we as a country expected to translate everything into every language on earth? What if you guys came from Iran, speaking nothing but Farsi? How do they do it? They learn the language spoken and written most commonly..English

BJC   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Rick,
I was so touched by your defense of your mother. I have no problem with her "not" speaking English. If I could speak Spanish, I would speak it all the time. I don't understand why some people think that everyone has to lose their identify just because they live in the United States. Keep up the good work!!!!!!!

Michelle   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Rick, I cannot believe that some people would comment on your mother's ability to express herself in English.

Aren't we the "Melting Pot" that everyone comes to? If we truly are, then shouldn't we take pride in the fact that when you walk down the streets you can hear languages from every corner of the earth? Shouldn't we take pride in the face that we freely accept people no matter their color, religious background, or political beliefs?

I say this as a woman whose great-grandparents came from Mexico. My grandmother, my mother & I were all born here in the United States.

As a way to respect our culture we talk Spanish, listen to Spanish tv & radio. We do this not because we can't speak English or have difficulty with the language. It's a way to remember where part of our family comes from and honor that.

My husbands parents who were born & raised in Puerto Rico, but have lived 50 years in Chicago, will revert back to Spanish just because translating a Spanish expression into English is too difficult at times. It's not because they don't speak English.

Excuse me for rambling, but what you said about your parents struck home for me because my husbands parents did the same things for their children.

Gracias par todo Senor Sanchez.

Laszlo Balint   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

I just heard the simple, elegant comments you made about your mother's poor English. Personally I would have been less polite to narrowminded,and bigoted people.
It is quite common for first generation immigrants to speak poor English because the older you are the harder it is to learn languages, and,as you pointed out, they often work their fingers to the bone making sure their children can enjoy all that this country can offer.
Buena suerte to you and your family. I do watch and enjoy your show regularly. Laszlo Balint

China   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Ok Rick Sanchez,

I love your show and the interview you did at your mom's home about Wise Latina Women. HOWEVER, I was STUNNED to know that your mom doesn't speak English. I was even MORE STUNNED with the excuse you gave about her not learning or knowing how to speak English NOW.

I teach ADULT EDUCATION....ESL as a matter of fact. As your mom was speaking I said to myself "She should to be in my class learning to speak English". I have and had students in my ESL class from various countries from as young as 18 yrs. old to 70 yrs. old. or older. So, your excuse (or reason) for your mom not knowing how to speak English NOW (not back then when she was raising you and your siblings) does not sit well with me.

You see on the news being a reporter how senior citizens are going back to school to get their high school diploma or college degree in their old age. So, your mom not taking ESL classes NOW to learn how to speak English UPSETS ME as an ESL instructor.

Continue the good work you do reporting the news, I will continue watching your show and hope your mom will consider taking ESL classes.

China ESL Instructor
Houston, Tx.

Lydia Zilka   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

I always wondered why Spanish speaking immigrants were here for years without learning English, and often took offense to the fact that they didn't even try to learn the language. Your explanation was so eloquently put, even I can understand it.

Victor Ochoa   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

English language bigotry is just like any other bigotry, whether racial, gender based, or whatever. We as a society need to reject the idea that it is OK to look down on someone merely becuse they look different, act different, or speak different from yourself. My grandmother did not speak hardly a word of English so I know how Rick feels. We do not have to put up with this hateful bigotry from small-minded people. We need to put it in its place.

Nidia Ruiz   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Hi Rick:

I like the message about why your mom doesn't speak English. You made me cry because I felt the respect and grattitude that you have for your mom and her sacrifice. When you say that this is the story of millions of inmigrants I realize that my story is similar. I am improving my English every day but I know it's really hard because I have to work to survive. I am happy when I see my 3 children speak English very well having a better life. Congratulations for appreciating her love and sacrifices. Fantastic message!

West Coast girl   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Rick,
I understand your explanation and admire your respect for your mother, but I'm left unsatisfied. My mother immigrated from Mexico as and adult and she learned English despite working long, hard days in the fields, because she was determined to succeed in the U.S. and create a good life for her children. She tells me she learned by watching TV shows and reading newspapers. When me and my brother grew up, she insisted we speak English at home because it gave us an advantage in school. Her parents and my father's parents, all immigrants, all learned English. My ex-husband and my current husband, also immigrants who did not have time to go to language classes, also taught themselves English. Working long hours and raising children are not excuses. It's hard to learn English if you only follow Spanish-language media. It takes determination. But it's worth the effort. I am bilingual and I'm raising my children to be bilingual. None of us should live with just one language.

Dr. Robbin Nicoloff   July 16th, 2009 4:03 pm ET

Rick,
Your mom is gracious and beautiful. Your parents have raised a wonderful son who is a gentleman, and much more patient with some of these listners than I would be.

My father grew up in the Jewish Ghettos of Chicago and was beaten up, because he could read Hebrew. He sold newspapers on the streets and joined the military when he was a young kid. He later became a successful businessman in California.

Both my parents gave up a great deal so my sister and I could attend USC, join sororities,and go to graduate school.

I can never thank my parents enough for their caring support. Most of my relatives spoke Yiddish and I loved hearing them, even though I couldn't understand them.

The other half of the family spoke Spanish, (de Barre Valdes).

I thank God for my rich heritage.

We are so lucky to have the wonderful parents we have.

Your mom and dad are the best !!!!

Pretty B   July 16th, 2009 4:04 pm ET

Hi Rick, I was truly touched when you spoke.As an immigrant, I identify with you on that and that you for shedding some light to those who are ignorant.They themselves forget that their ancestors probably went thru the same thing to make them who they are today.People shouls learn to accept people for who they are
I was truly toched. Felicitation Monsieu!Bon courage!

Anthony E   July 16th, 2009 4:04 pm ET

Rick,

I am a 35 year old 2nd generation Mexican-American in San Diego, I just came home for my lunch break and caught your piece on Wise Latin Women and you addressing why your Mom doesn’t speak English. While viewing your story on CNN I was surrounded my kids and my Mom who watches our three kids so I and my wife can both work with the piece of mind our kids are safe. I could not help to feel the same sentiments you do for your mother on her sacrifices she has done for you to be able not just to have more but experience more and learn more then any of the opportunities she was given.
It was the best information I heard on News TV in a long time.
So THANK YOU and please thank the Exec’s on my behalf to allow you to do that piece.

Kind Regards,
Anthony

mrdean n Seattle   July 16th, 2009 4:04 pm ET

rick you certinally know the the WISEST Latina woman.We are the fortunate ones to see her results. you unspire everyone that watches you every day.

lil   July 16th, 2009 4:04 pm ET

You are very bless, I wish that my mother and father could speak
any african language or even tell me where in african we came from.
They are both dead now and were sharecroppers by trade had 9 children. We all worked hard, picked and chopped cotten. I miss my parent and wish I could ask them question about my greatgrandparents so that I might be able to know where I came from.
My parent spoke bad southern english but made sure that we spoke correctly. I must admit I still have a very good southern accent.
I am proud of where I came from (sunflower county, Mississippi Ruleville) Because without my parents and my past I could not have such a good future.

Paulette   July 16th, 2009 4:04 pm ET

Amen, Rick, amen! If your mother spoke fluent English, some people would have something to say, simply because of the title of your piece.
An older African American woman, whose ancestors came to America on slave ships, I found myself, in the pivacy of my home, saying, "Preach! Tell it! Amen! " in reaction to your reply. I don't twitter, rarely use the computer and have never written to any media personality, but without voices like yours, mindsets like the person(s) who made the comment about your mom will continue. Thank you for speaking up as a proud Latino.

A proud African American,
Paulette

Baja Boyz   July 16th, 2009 4:04 pm ET

Our mother's share some very common areas in upbringing, sacrifice, and importance of family. My mother is from Mexico and brought with her the culture and language of her native land. She is now an AMERICAN CITIZEN, and loves the U.S.A., and her children speak English and Spanish, and accomplished in their own right. It saddens me that there are people that still feel that English is the only language to be spoken in the U.S.A. Citizens of other countries speak more than one language either complimentary or out of need. I think you brought a lot of awareness, and hopefully people will realize that CHANGE is happening in our country!

Rudy   July 16th, 2009 4:04 pm ET

Rick,

As a brother not that it really matters, I'm feeling you Rick Concerning your Mother and Family and the direction of America. Stay who you are Brother! You, your family, and Lindset Graham make me proud to be living during this period and I'm not a Republican. How about that?

Rudy........

Paulette   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

I understand that our parents sacrifice a lot to give us a better life but what is wrong with your mother learning English now. I am African American and my parents gave up a lot to give me a better life and education but my father always wanted to be a locksmith. When I was grown and he retired he went back to school and did just that and was very successful at it. I am sure that your mother, being wise because of many of her life experiences could be of great value and help to others if she did speak English. Speaking only Spanish she is limited to just one culture but we have to learn to pull others along with us also. If African American people had not fought so hard for everyone in the 60's Civil Rights movement many minority people would still be struggling. We need wise women and men like your mother to help all and not just one group. I was a part of that movement and I did it for all not just for my own future children.

Melissa Tirado   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

Bravo, well put.
You made the Latin blood in me Proud to hear you stand up for your Mother and others like her.

-Melissa
(a Puerto Rican in California)

Paul Théard   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

Your response to the inquiry about your mom is a truly superb illustration of just how successful she and your father really are.

While thousands of people come to the U.S. in search of their own dreams, some prefer to focus solely on facilitating a chance of success for their children. A pretty simple concept, but one that may not be so obvious to an someone whose stateside experience goes back a few more generations than yours.

My heritage is Creole (family is from New Orleans) and it takes only 3 generations to find someone who only spoke french.

Your mother is a beautiful and wise lady, and I can only imagine that as proud as she and your father are of you and your success, you must be even more proud of them for how they shaped you and helped get you there. Your success is theirs as well.

Bravo!
Paul Théard
Los Angeles

nanie   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

I do undertsand. being an immigrant too.. in a foreign country its not easy.. some of us have got to work and send money to our families back home. there is no time to learn english especially if you moved to the states as an adult..

Latina wise woman from PR   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

Rick,

Seems that the CNN Comment Policy makers suffer from the same illness as those congressmen driling Sotomayor....I posted the following comment IN SPANISH so that you could read it to your mother, but it wasn't approved. Here is the english version: "Your answer about why your mom does not speak english was very emotional".

Brian   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

Rick,

Your mother is a beautiful and gracious woman. You have every reason to be proud of her. There are member of my family who are mature citizens and do not speak english. It's a shame that America can not handle anyone who does not have blonde hair and blue eyes. The Brazillian President had it right. The problem with the world is white men. I'm amazed at the arragence of these old white men to wear their racism on their sleeves for all America to see and hear. I could go on forever about the ills of america, but it is apparent that those inside the beltway are afraid of intelligent women and minorities.

Robert Mansfield   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

I appreciated the piece "Wise Latina Women" and defend your mother's choice of language. You have no need to defend this choice. The beauty of America is that it is eclectic at so many levels much to the chagrin of some! Viva la differencia! (I don't speak Spanish so this is a guess)

Dianna   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

Having just watched the "Wise Latina Women" piece for the first time, and having immediately seen the response by Rick Sanchez, I am shocked at what must have been callous and needlessly cruel remarks about his mother. Her thoughts, while not presented in English, are just as important and valid to the conversation at hand. It is obviously an uneducated mind who chooses to focus on such trivial and mean spirited notions. Thank you Mr. Sanchez for your editorial.

Ruth Gonzalez   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

Rick Sanches;I am very proud of Sonia Sotomayor;as a woman,and as a puertorican.But I was very proud of you , to hear you speak so proudly about your mom,you touch my heart. att.Ruth

Larry   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

Rick, Those who try to disparage your wonderful mother for not speaking English are (acting like) deluded, arrogant, birthers who just can't bring themselves to realize what's important in life and other people who appear to be different from themselves. I'm sure you know that being exposed to that kind of ridicule comes with the territory. I enjoy your show and am sorry that the 24% of Americans who are predisposed to hate and ridicule...do what they do. Keep up the good work. I enjoyed hearing about your mother and all the sacrifices she endured so that you could get where you are. Keep up the good work!

Rae Watanabe   July 16th, 2009 4:05 pm ET

Hi Rick,

I've always found listening to you a bit difficult because you seem to be a bit of a, well, blowhard. But this is the story that makes me think I was wrong.

You're simply proud to be where you are, and your tribute to your mother is beautiful and touching! Perhaps, you should feel free to tell anyone who has an unkind word about your mother's Spanish to go (blank) themselves.

Hug your mom while you can! She and women like her deserve that and so much more.

GRACE ORTEGA PENA   July 16th, 2009 4:06 pm ET

I am so proud you are on CNN. I am a Hispanic. I was born and raised in NM. My relatives are from here for centuries. I could speak spanish as a child. I went to public schools. At that time we were hit with rulers on our knuckles if we spoke spanish. English became my primary language. I took Spanish in college to reconnect with my language. I still use English as primary language. My thought process is auomatically in English. I am very proud to be Hispanic. I now try to use spanish as often as I can. I am a very successful Hispanic women with a AAN, BSN, MSN. You do an outstanding job. I try to watch you program daily. Grace in Santa Fe

Mary Ann Naranjo Goshert   July 16th, 2009 4:06 pm ET

Rick,
Your comments about your parents' sacrifices in order to ensure you had more opportunities brought tears to my eyes and a lump in my throat. I can truly relate. Although my Latino ancestors have been in southern Colorado and northern New Mexico for several centuries, they were isolated and maintained their language and culture while also making efforts to assimilate. They knew English, but could express themselves better in their native Spanish. To my parents, their family was everything in this world and their bountiful gifts, material things being the least of these, have made me and my sisters "wise, loving, and compassionate Latina women" who love their country and want the best for it. This includes having someone of Sonia Sotomayor's caliber as our next Supreme Court Justice. Thank you so very much for your special segment on wise Latina women and for sharing your own heartfelt thoughts about your mother. I definitely understand your pride in her!

Malikah Gregory   July 16th, 2009 4:06 pm ET

Rick,
I can't believe the audacity of people to criticize someone for not knowing English. It is exactly the ignorance that perpectuates the idea that people from other countries are supposed to come here and deny a part of themselves to fit in to what they believe is the "standard" for America. However, you can't even call English the standard because the language was FORCEFULLY brought to this land and wasn't the native language!

I admire your mother for the sacrifice she made for you and I apologize for the ignorance of other people. You sould not have to deal with these kinds of insults, especially about your family.

Helen Santek   July 16th, 2009 4:06 pm ET

Bravo, Mr.Sanchez. Your Mom sounds like a very lovely lady. My own Mom emigrated to Canada,along with my Dad early in the last century and I and my sisters was born in Canada. I would judge the social progress of the US much as it developed in Canada. Proud Canadians, but very cosmopolitan in outlook.
We spoke a Slavic language in my house and I grew up in a swirl of two cultures, two languages and I am the richer for it.
The US is reputed to be a melting pot of ethnic identities and cultures and English may be the working language of a society, but the culture, and particularly the language and, in Canada, many languages from many cultures. Third and fourth generations speak both fluently and I would not change that for the world.
I consider Canada to be an exquisate mosaic rather than a melting pot.

Jason Jackson   July 16th, 2009 4:06 pm ET

Rick, your story is the American story. We are and should always be a country of immigrants. That diversity is what makes our country strong. Remind your viewers that everyone here, unless your Native American, came from somewhere. WE ARE ALL DECENDENTS OF IMMIGRANTS IN THE USA!

Touching story.

Francine Conae   July 16th, 2009 4:06 pm ET

Hi Rick,
I just saw the clip of you and your mother. I enjoy the way you express yourself both in Spanish and English. You spoke with such pride about your parents I found to be endearing. I am a speech pathologist in CA, The bilingual issue is huge here. Your explaination was just perfect. I like to add that the native language is one of emotions and feelings. Some children have precious little of that. Keep up the good work. I enjoy your perspective on things.
Francine Conae

Bob   July 16th, 2009 4:06 pm ET

Dear Rick,

I find it very sad that someone would try to make any kind of an issue concerning your mother not speaking english. I have never posted a comment before but I just want you to know how wonderful it is that you are so proud of your mom and dad, and I am too!

Bob
Tallahassee, FL

Laurie   July 16th, 2009 4:06 pm ET

I am a second generation American. One grandfather only spoke Slovak until he went to school. When the teacher asked what his name was , another child said his name was "Charlie". It was actually "Vasili". His parents never learned to speak English, because, as you pointed out, He and his brother could. They came for a better life for their children.
My grandmother came over after World War I, lying about her age so she could travel alone. In her case she did learn English once she was married and had children, but she could only speak it, not read or write it. I am very proud of the sacrifices my great grandparents and grandparents made so their descendants could have a better life in America.

Karen   July 16th, 2009 4:06 pm ET

Rick
Thanks for the story on wise Latino women and your Mom. Your explanation on her speaking Spanish was great.
In terms of Judge Sotomayor, she has shown herself as very capable to be on the Supreme Court. The coverage of these hearing is good to show not only her strengths but gives insight into how judges look at cases.
Karen

Kris Cerone   July 16th, 2009 4:06 pm ET

Tears ran down my face as I listened to Rick Sanchez tell why his mother does not speak English and the life his parents lived so he could have a better life. This is the story of three sets of my great-grandparents, and in a sense this was the mind set of their children, and their children, make better lives for your children. God bless, Adela Fernandez., she did her job.

Anne   July 16th, 2009 4:08 pm ET

You got my attention. Bless your mom. When I started elementary school in the late 1940's, my father held me by the shoulders and said, "Don't ever tell ANYONE that you are a German!" I didn't understand until years later when I started doing family history. My mother was so proud when I received a college degree.

Rgray   July 16th, 2009 4:08 pm ET

You Go Sonia! I congratulate you and confirm from watching your confirmation hearing that YES, you are a very wise woman I know exactly what the 1st Lady meant, I am a very proud American now. The world has spoken, we should always be represented by ALL of our people. Great ideas come from great people and together, as a people, we can do great things for our country. Great job Rick!

Kristin   July 16th, 2009 4:08 pm ET

RIck, God Bless you and your family. Great Job!!!

Al Onmarco   July 16th, 2009 4:09 pm ET

Oh, please. My grandparents came to the US from Italy. There were no bilingual signs. No advocates to help them. No welfare. No free healthcare. No entitlements. They wanted a better life for their children too. They came here legally, with many disadvantages. But they learned English. And they worked within the system of the US to get that better life. My grandfather, a laborer, stood in line for jobs and was often turned away because he was Italian. But he took what he could and raised his family with my grandmother. He didn't bail out and he didn't whine.

One of their five children, my mother, worked all her life too, and she and our father sacrificed for me and my brother so that we could achieve success.

You're not the only one. Keep your whining to yourself.

Only Hispanics think that the people of the US need to learn their language. Only Hispanics think that they alone are entitled to a better life. Most at the expense of the American taxpayer.

I am sick of this double standard. Any European-American who would have made such a stupid statement about a "wise _______ woman" would have been crucified.

Your mother should have learned English. Period. And you need to become and American, not a Latino. This country is going to Hell because of a lack of cohesion of American purpose and spirit.

Where will the immigrants of the world go when America is gone and there are no more Americans to take care of them?

Daniel Gonzalez   July 16th, 2009 4:09 pm ET

Your mother's story is inspiring and resonates profoundly to me. My mother and father came here as immigrants with a thrid grade education. There was no future for them in Jalsico, Mexico so they made the difficult journey to California. They gave their lives to our family, working 7 days a week, alone in a country without immediate family, and dealing with language and culture barriers, . Despite barely completing a third grade education, my parents had fundamental goals for us. I am proud to say all of my brother's and sisters have graduated from the top private universities here in California. Speaking spanish should not outweigh self sacrifice, promoting good values and morals, instilling hard work ethic, and promoting social justice. Even though my mother cannot articulate herself in english today, her actions and life lessons will always be my number one concern. My respect to your mother and your family, people should realize that your story is the true american story.

leonard taylor   July 16th, 2009 4:09 pm ET

Rick I heard your explanation,on the reason why your beautiful mom,
don't speak english.I am a sixty two year old black male and the way you explained it not (splaine) it brought
tears to my eyes.I am a self taught spanish speaking person. Maybe
some of our senators should learn how to speak english after all it's his first words.

Sylvia Armijo   July 16th, 2009 4:09 pm ET

Hi Rick,

I truly admire your mother for everything she sacrficed for you so
you could be educated and given so much so you could succeed.
And succeed you did. You are to be admired also for everything
you have accomplised in your career. I love your show on CNN.

Maybe your Mom would want to learn English now. She is not
too old to learn. Maybe she would feel more comfortable if
you could have a teacher come to the house for lessons.
I bet she would like to do that and feel really good about herself
learning. But if she doesn't want to, she has earned the right to
choose.

You are a terrific son and great person.

Regards, Sylvia Armijo

Keith   July 16th, 2009 4:09 pm ET

Rick you are awesome. Your words expressing your mother and how she came to Amercia to give you a better life is exactly why I wish I was a latino. I am a gay, white American man that was born and raised in Texas. I have tried to learn to speak Spanish so I could speak to so many friends mother's and father's. I see the same thing with most of them, which is a desire to have a better life for their kids. I have never been able to master the Spanish language, even after several high school and college classes. But I still love the Latin culture and am very proud of you for your success and your wisdom. I wish more men appreciated the sacrafices of their families. We need to all realize that we are all imigrants here in the US and not being able to speak a certain language does not mean you love that country or that family or that person any less. God bless you mother and father for raising such a thoughtful son! Best Wishes mi amigo!

JaMina   July 16th, 2009 4:10 pm ET

I love you Rick. When I first saw you on TV I didn't know you were Latina – I thought you were a white American.

I am so glad that you are proud of your heritage and have let the world know that you are Latina. I know so many Latina people who don't, It seems as though they are hiding it on purpose and are passing as white Americans,

I love the fact that you can speak your language – many people who come to America lose that ability to speak their own language. I feel it's a very important connection to their heritage and home land and something that should be passed down to their children.

As an African American women who has no language of her own, I always admire those that don't loss the ability to speak their own language.

Thanks for showing us those Latina women – they made me smile with pride. As a women of color, I love seeing successful women of color,

And I love the way you explained why your mother doesn't speak English, The sacrifices your parents made is the sacrifice so many parents have made so their children could have better.

Keep it up Rick.

Christina   July 16th, 2009 4:10 pm ET

Dear Rick, Your mother is an amazing heroine and a superb inspiration and example to all those who seek a better and free life in this great country....back in the late 60's, I, as a young professional woman, moved to Miami and was instantly enthralled and curious of the Cuban population at that time..I totally had nothing but respect and admiration for those who fled tyranny and gave up everything to seek a better life..I married a Cuban fellow, who's parents got him out of Cuba in the early 60's and he spoke little English at that time..it took about 5 years for him to finally bring his parents to Miami..they never spoke English, and at that time, I did not speak Spanish, but the LOVE and care we had for each other was not stymied by a language barrier..I can totally relate to your comments that your parents were only concerned with providing opportunities for their children and a real chance to live YOUR dreams...She truly is a "wise Latina" having put her family first and she is not only a beautiful lady but a woman of honor and substance..your pride in her has no boundries>>I commend her wholeheartedly!!!!!

Charles Smith   July 16th, 2009 4:10 pm ET

Rick, what impressed me the most is that with out a dissertation laced with anger or animosity you eloquently illustrated the lives of so many immigrants who migrated here for the the promise America holds, but more importantly the promise it holds for their children.

Arturo Sanchez Valadez   July 16th, 2009 4:10 pm ET

Rick I really admire you and the example you represent to millions of inmigrants, Latinos or otherwise I am a Mexican inmigrant & I also have the privilige to seat down, talk, listen, work with some wonderful Latinas young & older. There is a lot of people that choose not to get involved, befriend and as I said before talk & listen to others due to as they perceived to be a line dividing us due to language, Race , Color &/or traditions.
You are a lucky man to have a "MOTHER" like her. We all need to be more open to others and the incredible wealth they will add to our lives.

EDWARD T. hENRY   July 16th, 2009 4:11 pm ET

rick

deeply appreciate your approach and comments on matters of topical interest,I respect the sacrifices made by your parents to enable you to be successful. I have no apologies for the comments made by Sotomayor re wise Latina women. Have the WASP APOLOGISED FOR TAKING THE LANDS OF THE NORTH AMERICAN iNDIANS!!,

Roy B.   July 16th, 2009 4:11 pm ET

Rick,

Great response!!! You met ignorance head on and defeated it in a very admirable fashion. Keep up the good work!

richard   July 16th, 2009 4:11 pm ET

I understand your perspective – it says alot about you. After all, your parents were not subjected to rules forbidding speech in their native language or denied opportunities to work for wages.

mary aguirre hedrick   July 16th, 2009 4:11 pm ET

I know that you are very proud of both your parents as I'am proud of mine. My father left Spain at 13 years of age (alone) and went to Cuba to work and earn money to be able to enter the USA. He spoke broken english and of course living in WV as a coal miner that was not pleasant. To my shame I refused to speak Spanish after entering school; I was made fun of at school because I was different. Different because of language. Now I cannot speak Spanish and I'm so ashamed of myself. Both of my parents lived a very difficult life to make mine and my brother's life better and I wish I could tell them how proud I am of them. You are so lucky that you have the opportuny to let your parent(s) know how proud you are for the sacrifices they made. My brother and I were both born is the US.

marie flynn   July 16th, 2009 4:11 pm ET

Rick,
I cannot believe that some of your viewers would question your mother's ability 2 speak English. As a 5th generation American,I can tell you that this kind of attitude still shocks me when I encounter it. It is a shame that Americans find the time 2 email questions like this, when they should be asking "Why do so many citizens find it hard to relate to Sotomayer?" Or, how is it that the talking heads on FOX ( who share my views on many issues) do not care HOW many white women, as well as other "political minorities" they are offending & turning off. Your comments today,re: your mother & her sacrifices brought tears to my eyes & I consider myself pretty tough. Well done!

nunziata   July 16th, 2009 4:12 pm ET

Rick-Your mom can be very proud of you! She reminds me of my own mom , who came to NYC from Italy in 1949. I would not trade her for anything in the world, even though she couldn't speak a word of English. ( I now speak three languages because of her).

Your mom is a "cutie" (as was my mom!) They don't make them like her anymore ;-) ))

DJ   July 16th, 2009 4:12 pm ET

Rick,

That was a nice commentary. Your parents obviously worked very hard to help you to succeed. MOST parents would do the same thing for their children. But tell me something... you are very successful and speak quite well, why don't YOU do something nice for your mom and teach her to speak english yourself! Its the least you could do after all the sacrifices she made for you.

Muchas gracias!

Bailee N.   July 16th, 2009 4:12 pm ET

With respect to your comments, I am grateful that both my grandparents insisted that my Mom (and her siblings) teach them English everyday, when they got home from school! My grandparents were poor and uneducated refugees, but it did not stop them from wanting to learn about and participate in the everyday life of their newly adopted country! Our culture, religion, and mother tongue were kept alive socially, so, to this day, all 3 generations share the best of both worlds!

IMO, Immigrants are not helping themselves, or their families, to a better life by not learning the language of commerce in their adopted country (which ever one it may be). Rather, they are segregating themselves into a lower (dependent) socio-economic level, with fewer economic opportunities due to lack of communication skills.

Liz Zamorano   July 16th, 2009 4:12 pm ET

Rick,

Some critics of monlingual immigrants are more than just 100 years removed from the language of their ancesters. They are also separated by a rather large ocean and even larger intervals between them and speakers of the language of their ancesters. Conversely, your saintly mother speaks the second most prevalent language in the western hemisphere - rather useful I'd say. And this immigrant mom managed to raise highly educated and accomplished children who are now productive and outstanding citizens of her adopted country. Quite impressive for someone with "limited" language skills.

Robert Palacioz   July 16th, 2009 4:12 pm ET

Rick,
The question is not why your mother can't speak english. The real question is why americans don't speak more than one language. People with an 8th grade education in other countries speak 4 and 5 languages. Americans are either too stupid, too racist, or just too arrogant.
I am a 3rd generation Hispanic American with a Masters Degree, I have 3 Purple Hearts, and an extensive Business Background. I still can't believe people who are non-combatant, barely educated, and racist still try to use the english speaking criticism. Their original ancestors who came to America from non-english speaking european countries did not speak english, did not learn english, and passed on the second language to their children.
We forget true americans come in all colors, languages, and sexes. My parents sacrificed the same for me & my brothers & one sister. I salute your parents for they are true americans.

Robert Palacioz

Brandon   July 16th, 2009 4:12 pm ET

the usa has no official language and no one can tell you that you have to speak a language, viva latinos.

fini   July 16th, 2009 4:12 pm ET

no excuse mr. R.S ...my mom brought us here from germany, worked hard , long hours , had no time to go to eve school , but had great interest on her own by reading and speeking , still at 90 years young speeks english and german and a little italian

Irv Alloy   July 16th, 2009 4:12 pm ET

Your comments about your mother, and her inability to speak English is to be admired. Both my parents and in-laws came to this country as teenagers or younger. They did learn the language but their efforts were to have their children live better lives than they did. They came to this country after leaving their native land, friends and relatives to a new country. They were all basically all alone with no safety new. They were successful in their efforts. No one should be critical of immigrants. Immigrants formed the backbone of this country. All of us should thank those immigrants, especially those who feel they are special because they come from "original Americans"...You did a good job today,

Leslie Fletcher   July 16th, 2009 4:12 pm ET

Thank you Rick Sanchez for " Wise Latina Women" .

I was especially touched by your comments regarding your mother's inability to speak English. I am an English as a Second Language teacher in a community adult learning center.

I have such great respect for people who have immigrated to the United States. Life is not easy for them, yet they come. These people left all that is famimiar and loved knowing full well that they themselves will not reap the benefits. They do this for their children and grandchildren.

You are blessed to have such wonderful loving parents.

Kindest regards,

leslie Fletcher

Sara Gonzalez   July 16th, 2009 4:12 pm ET

Very well said Rick! Our parents and grandparents left their country for the betterment of their children and grandchildren. Here in Florida we are very proud of you and your success.

Cathy Martinez   July 16th, 2009 4:13 pm ET

OK....just caught your comment about your mom after watching the end of the 4th day of Judge Sotomayor's confirmation, and I have to tell you Rick, I'm in tears.

As a want-to-be Children's Book writer and also as person of Latin decedent (Puerto Rican, married to Cuban) I would like to tell you, the wonderful, strong, smart Latin women you interviewed in Miami and everyone alike how 'orgullosa" I feel about our culture. We are the Majority Minority, baby, and growing! I welcome the American people to open their hearts and minds and experience our rich, warm, fun-loving culture and take a good look at us. No doubt, they'll fall in love. ;)
C Martinez

Pd   July 16th, 2009 4:13 pm ET

I totally understand how your mom doesn't speak English, my parents don't either. My father has two full time jobs and a part time job. He barely sleeps 3 hours a day so that me and my brother could go to college. They are times when we can't afford food.. but somehow we make it by. You and your family are an inspiration to people like us. =)

Debbie   July 16th, 2009 4:13 pm ET

Rick:

I am 55 years old and I want to Thank You for reminding me that when my ancestors came to the United States, they did not speak English. I live in an area where my neighbors feel "you live in America–you speak English"!!! And I'll admit at times I would get caught up in that....BUT today after watching your segment with your beloved Mother...it suddenly reminded me that my much loved Grandfather (who passed when I was 7) could only speak German and I as a young girl didn't have any trouble communicating with him - sign language & facial expressions worked great. I commend all families as yours who worked hard not so much for themselves but for their children so that they may have excellent opportunities in the United States.

Felipe   July 16th, 2009 4:13 pm ET

Rick the statement about your mother not being able to speak english, makes me incensed that someone could project or convey such a ill will statement. Your mother not being able to speak english does not signify that ahe is not intelliegent. nor does it reflect any negative pertaining to her character. In my opinion the statement regarding your mother's language barrier is beyond an ignorant assertion. Rick your mother's choice was a valuable and rewardable investment and no other choice can be better when relating to your childrens' future. Moreover, the opportunity cost was a very beneficial and triumph one for your family. You are not a man with just a degree but a man whom has gain wisdom, intelligence, and pure good values. The good qualities that the world see in you, outweigh any ounce of bad quality that the world would have trouble finding. Nevertheles, you are a reflection of your mother cultivation. Oh, by the way Rick! If the statement stung you. It made me feel like I was being devour by a team of sharks.

Carlos Viafara   July 16th, 2009 4:13 pm ET

I could not have said it better myself, nice job!

Carlos Viafara
Hialeah, FL

Leslie Bellanca Craig   July 16th, 2009 4:13 pm ET

Your response to the comments about your mom not speaking English touched my heart. It is sadly true that those of us born in American, raised in America, surrounded by the good fortune of American society, often fail to understand or appreciate the immigrant experience. And so, when coming in contact with our newest residents, who have come to America for its hope and promise, we have a tendency to rush to judgement and to overestimate the ease of making the kind of life-changing adjustments needed to make a new home in a "new" world. Immigrants aren't just changing WHERE they live– they are profoundly shaking up their lives in every way at every level! And, like your mom and dad, they are doing it to insure that their families will grow and flourish in freedom in their new homeland– what we commonly call the American dream.
I am the proud granddaughter of immigrants from Sicily, Ireland, and Germany– your comments brought back to me an appreciation of what my ancestors experienced and what they sacrificed. My grandmother spoke only Italian, although she could understand English in relation to family conversations and daily living, groceries, that sort of thing. Even if we did not always speak the same language, the love was always communicated.
I wonder how many folks understand that brain research has shown that the parts of the brain that learn and process language are far more receptive in children, especially young children, than in the adult brain. This makes learning English as an adult (or any other language as a second language) much more difficult – and for some, nearly impossible. I wonder how many Americans who so piously judge immigrants for "failing" to adapt would be successful if the situation were reversed and they had to adapt to living in a new country and culture!

carol kolakowski   July 16th, 2009 4:13 pm ET

I normally don't want Rick's program but put on the TV while I was making a phone call for service and I heard the comments about Rick's mother not speaking English. I thought Rick's remark about those persons who criticized it being more than 100 years removed from their ancestors coming here being a very wise counterpoint.

You can observe the ethnicity in my last name. My mother-in-law didn't speak English either. She understood it but didn't have the command of the language to express herself in it. She is gone now but probably came to the States around 1910. All of her nine children almost always responded to her in English. I always found this really amuzing – a bilingual conversation with each participant using their own language and no interpreter needed.

As we get further removed from the countries of our ancestors, we start to lose some of the cultural accoutrements that are part of our makeup. I do believe that the children of immigrants should speak the language of their adopted country, but I also believe the children of immigrants should not deny nor turn away from their ancestral heritage or culture.

HOPE CARLSON   July 16th, 2009 4:13 pm ET

You had a great blessing in life, your mother is beautiful. I am not a person of color ' just brand X white milk... mother of 4 - I too, gave up a lot for my grown children. Would my sons care if I could not speak English? NOT one TWITTER OR TWEET! Truth be known – they probably wish I did not understand English at times!! They can converse in Spanish, I cannot. I understand that in Canada, the public school system in British Columbia teach French from elementary level. Is everybody of French descent in Canada? Hardly.

Mina   July 16th, 2009 4:13 pm ET

I admire Rick's mom. She did something that puts a true mother apart from the rest — she sacrificed and contributed to the society by making sure her children grow up as productive members.
There are mothers in this country who are not immigrants to US and can not properly speak or write or have children that are high school dropouts.
I was educated (in languages as well) prior to entering the US.
Not everyone's path is the same..
Rick's mom actually has a son who is proud of her, and I am sure sees her more than once in 10 years during "lame family reunions".

Jessica Mao   July 16th, 2009 4:13 pm ET

I just wanted to say that you, Rick, are a very outstanding man...To show that kind of appreciation for your Mother is hard for alot of people to do! Much less on Live television! I think it is great that she gave so much of herself for you! My husband and his family came from Cambodia....not all of them speak our language either. And I have much respect for them and Anyone who can overcome so many predjudices, to give a better life to their children!! Thanks so much for speaking up!!!

Chester   July 16th, 2009 4:14 pm ET

Rick,

I think your answer regarding your Mom’s English skills were spot on point!!! I admire your courage to try and show a different perspective on the “Wise Latina Women” comments which were totally blow out of proportions.
May God bless you and your Mom… Keep up the good work!!!!

Rose-Anne Lemke   July 16th, 2009 4:14 pm ET

Rick, Thanks for expressing what many "wise latinas" throughout the U.S. think and feel. I raised two very successful young latinas (a doctor,MD and an engineer-lawyer). As a professional latina, today I am proud of Sonia Sotamayor, of her mother, your mother, and all the mothers of color who do whatever it takes to help their daughters make it. Keep on keeping on.
A Wise Latina

Pamela Asobo-Anchang   July 16th, 2009 4:14 pm ET

Dear Rick,

I just watched with great admiration your conversation with the “wise Latina Women” and wish to express how proud I am of my fellow sisters. As a woman of color myself from West Africa, seeing these intelligent women speak about their daily challenges in their professions of prejudice and the stereotypes that permeate our American culture made me really happy. I have to thank you for seeking out these wise women because I was beginning to wonder if no-one would stand up for Judge Sonia Sotomayor nominee to the U.S. Supreme Court.It is amazing how we seem to live in a culture of ‘build and destroy.’ Why are we so eager to bring out the worst in people? In a country that prides itself in the American dream it seems to me that Judge Sotamayor is a story of hope and the dreams for many hardworking minorities.
Now my other reason for writing to you is to tell you how moved I was when you came to your mother’s defense. Mainstream America is obviously clueless about the stories of immigrants. While many don’t care there are those who are very ignorant about the immigrant experience. As editor of The Immigrant Magazine dedicated to giving a voice to immigrants and putting faces to the immigrant success stories s of this nation your family’s story is one of millions but you have been given a platform to make us proud. The manner in which you embrace your immigrant heritage is a testimony to your parents that they did not sacrifice in vain. Yes Rick all what your parents did not accomplish you have. They can be proud to have you for a son and the rest of us immigrants are equally proud of you for making us feel just as proud of our heritage as immigrants. We all are here for the same reasons the forefathers of the mainstream Americans came here. Someday we hope and pray that our children’s children will show more compassion for the new immigrants, as we would have paid the price already.

Joy   July 16th, 2009 4:14 pm ET

I am just curious here, in order to become a legal immigrant don't you have to speak enough English to pass the paperwork to become legal? And is your mom now legal resident?

wandai   July 16th, 2009 4:15 pm ET

Rick,
Awesome commentary and keep up the good work :-)
-WM-

William J. Murray   July 16th, 2009 4:15 pm ET

Dear Rick.
God bless your Mother.So many Immigrants came to this country sothat their children could have a better life.
Bigotry Is still showing It's ugly head In this country.I am an Irish Catholic 87 yr's old and i am thankful to have lived to see history made.
Our first African American President.I thought this was the ending of bigotry.My grand Parents came here in the 1800 and my Grandmother told us stories about how they had to pretend they were Scottish.
We enjoy your show each day.Keep up the good work and take care of you Parents.
We wish you the best
Helen and Bill Murray

Letha McWey   July 16th, 2009 4:15 pm ET

Hi Rick,

Your defense of your mother brought tears to my eyes - I am a white american woman whose family has been in the US since the 1700's however, they were farm workers (white farm workers) I was the first in many generations to graduate high school - my mother had an 8th grade education - I chose to stay home take care of my children and teach them to focus on their education and that education is the key to success. I have four children three have gone onto college, one to law school - I as many mothers (and fathers) to not pursue for myself so my children could do more– I am sure your family is proud of you and your siblings, but I was truly moved by your heartfelt understanding of the choices your parents made on your behalf and that you truly understand the sacrifices your parents made to ensure the success of their children.

I have watched the hearings each day and wish that RICH WHITE MEN could begin to understand what Sotomayor understands about our country that race and gender will always matter and will always be an issue.

Shirley   July 16th, 2009 4:15 pm ET

Ahh Rick, this Is Shirley from West Palm Beach again, you know I just was listening to Senator Lindsay Graham's comments to Sonia Sotomator, regarding her comment on a "Wise Latina Women", Whew!!!!!! Give It A rest, for heavens Sake!! He has beat up on her for a few days now. She was humble and oh soooo very humble In saying how she regrets If she offended someone. Look, I understand completely the nasty beatings that she has been getting during her hearings, because I am a black sixty-five year old woman who was born & raised In South Carolina. Rick, I caught pure-D Hell growing up from some of the whites there In South Carolina, & you know what ? Prejudices are STILL real today, very REAL. But you know the same God that made them, made us all, & he sits high, & looks low. Lordy, do I have a lot to tell my Lord & Savior, when I get home up yonder. Okey dokey, take care & may God bless you real good :-) .

Bonnie   July 16th, 2009 4:16 pm ET

There is no reason non acceptable excuse why any body that comes to this country to take advantage of it can't learn English.

If immegrants would take the time to learn to speak to us there would not be so many negative feelings towards them. There is less and less tolerance for excuses as time goes by and we Americans feel used.

Bonnie

mario petrini md phd   July 16th, 2009 4:16 pm ET

dear rick, i am an 82 yr old retired medical school professor. my parents, italian immigrants, lived almost 100 productive years. both worked long hard hours so that their children would have an education and thus a good life. their english was atrocious and all of their children learned english in grade school. their labors were rewarded with 3 phd's and an md. inveterate readers, they opened our minds to critical thinking, love of reading and a strong moral and work ethic. most importantly, they provided us with acceptance and love that was the envy of our friends.
keep up the good work and continue to say it like it is.

Natalia Trejos   July 16th, 2009 4:16 pm ET

WOW Rick i watched your report "why she can't...because I can" it stuck me back to my childhood I too was once an inmigrant in Miami I arrived there at age 6 and lived in Hialeah till I was 16 I went to Miami Springs Middle School which you may be familiar with...well anyway Im a Latina woman I was born PROUDLY in Costa Rica and raised all my teenege years in USA as one of the women in your story said Latina is a synonym of maid or waitress so people do stereotype us as lower lower class people, so I am VERY PROUD of Mrs.Sotomayor to be in such a prestigious place for a judge and for her to be Latina is a WONDERFUL INFLUENCE among the young Latinos now in North America. I no longer live in the US but I keep memories of how hard it was to be Latino and growing up in The United States even in Hialeah your report brought chills to my skin and tears to my eyes THANK YOU and also thank you for keeping your Latino roots ALIVE speaking ESPAÑOL

Margaret   July 16th, 2009 4:16 pm ET

Rick,

I so admire your love and loyalty for your mother. I hope that my four children feel as strongly toward me. My husband abondoned me and I raised the four of them on my own, without benefit of family, as I too was an immigrant, but from Ireland to Canada. At least I did not have the language problem to contend with.
Your mother looks beautiful and kind.

Thank you for this story.
Margaret

Lily   July 16th, 2009 4:17 pm ET

Rick your mother is Beautiful!!!! I do not care what language she speaks. What I see is that she speaks with a great love of her family.

LW   July 16th, 2009 4:17 pm ET

THERE ARE ALOT OF BORN AND RAISED AMERICANS LIVING IN AMERICA THAT DO NOT SPEAK ENGLISH AT ALL. WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO SAY NOW? I'VE BEEN TO SOME PARTS OF THE USA WHERE I AM SHOCKED OF THERE ENGLISH GRAMMAR. STOP POINTING FINGERS AT OTHERS, WHEN THERE ARE ALOT OF LANGUAGE BARRIERS EXISTING HERE. I AM A AFRICAN-AMERICAN CITIZEN. IT'S NOT A SIN TO LIVE IN THIS COUNTRY AND DO NOT SPEAK ENGLISH.

Shelly Benson   July 16th, 2009 4:17 pm ET

Hey Rick,

I think it is very inspiring to hear of stories of strength and hope, but I also think it is very important to remember that these stories and life experiences do not only apply to one gender or race. My mother is of Native American decent, and my father is european. Myself and my children are fair skined. My parents overcame poverty just as many others have in this country. I remember my father working 2 and 3 jobs just to put food on the table. I am the oldest of four children, but still wore "hand me downs" and once in a while (when I was lucky) clothes my mother would make. I never realized how poor we were when I was little because my family tought me to be grateful for what we had.

Well I'm grown up now, and have a family of my own. I went to college (community college) but I have my degree and work now as an RN. The point is that I have a respectable job that I love and a greater ability to have a positive impact on society.

I think that in times like these, the most important thing for us to remember is that we are all threads in the same cloth. All of us different colors from different origins....but when we blend together, we make the most beautiful color there is!

Jenny Lindsay   July 16th, 2009 4:17 pm ET

HI Rick

I am visiting from Australia and watched your response to why your mother doesn't speak English. You are so right in saying that your story is the same for most immigrants to have come, not only to the USA, but also Australia. Most mother's parents arrived in Australia in 1930 from Croatia. They were the only Slavs living in the south western town of Busselton (in Western Australia) so learning English was essential – but happened easily due to the kindness of the residents.

As a Communication teacher I am so often mystified and disappointed that for the most part, the people who criticise those immigrants who are not able to speak English, inevitably have ancestors who have arrived from the English speaking countries. They therefore do not understand the challenge and have not been faced with it. Sad. – let's hope the attitude changes.

I enjoyed watching your show. Thank you.

beverlysolomon   July 16th, 2009 4:17 pm ET

No disrespect is intended for anyone that can not speak the language of their host country. No disrespect is intended for anyone that can not speak more then their Mother Tounge.

It is respectful if you try to learn the language of your host country, it is also a sign of wanting to belong, especially if you are a resident.

As an fourth generation American not educated enough to learn a second language, and living in India, I was a working Mom who could not afford myself the time to learn Hindu in a school.

But after living there for 26 years I did learn to speak the language.

I did teach myself because I wanted to be more a part of my host country and not feel left out because i could not understand.

It took a long time but In trying to learn the language i became closer to the culture, the country and its people. They were very happy that i could speak their language. I mean no disrespect but do encourage people to learn the language of their host country so they can have a richer experience and truly feel a part.

Pamela-Texas   July 16th, 2009 4:18 pm ET

I loved what you said about your Mom. Your pride is well deserved. Being a Latina & 6th generation Texan, whose first language was Spanish, & earned 2 degrees, language & culture is very important. We must never forget we are country of immigrants who enrich our American quilt with it's diversity & should never take away or replace but add.

We must also remember half of this country was colonized by Spain and its culture &language is embedded in our country's history, there should be no shame in that but pride.

Geoffrey "jof" Weeks   July 16th, 2009 4:18 pm ET

I lived for many years in San Luis Valley in CO and NM. The parents of many of my friends did not speak English – only Spanish. Their families and many others have been living here for 400 years.Some of their property deeds are from the king of Spain. These people have a long American pedigree. Hispanics are not new to America, they are an integral part of this nation. Look at the names of the cities, towns, mountains, rivers and deserts all across the southern half of our country. It is time we acknowledge our dual foundation. Latinos immigrating is, in truth no different than English or Aussies immigrating and by all rights we are and should be educating and legislating as a bilingual nation. Only fear, ignorance and greed keep people from accepting this.

Muhssin PLano, TX   July 16th, 2009 4:18 pm ET

Rick,
You stood up for so many of us.. You are a man enough to share your immigrant story. You see, we normally push for easy immigration rules til we become a US citizen (Not immigrant any more!). Then we join the ban wagon of pushing away immigrant. But, talking to a first immigrant generation, normally make me the immigrant and they are not. Specially, if they have a light skin color. I always remember, the Native American speech in DC, where he address our US leaders by saying 'Welcome to my country' :)

Sincerely,
1st generation immigrant

Eliane Moran Consalvo   July 16th, 2009 4:18 pm ET

Hi Rick,

I agree with you about your mother not speaking English. In reality, it is no ones business anyway.

The fact that she worked hard to give the family a good living and the kids a good education is an example of her fortiitude and pride in herself. Besides, like my parents-who were Cuban (both died in 1995), it is probably easier for your mother to fully express herself in Spanish, her native language, than in English.

Like your mother, my parents worked hard so that I could get a good education and career. For that, I am very thankful and proud of them, just as I am very grateful to this country for letting me have the freedom and opportunity to advance and be free to take my liife in whatever direction I choose.

Thank you for sharing your mom with us and tell her to keep up her spirit. She sounds like a great lady.

M. Perez   July 16th, 2009 4:18 pm ET

I could't have said it any better Rick, you spoke for all of us Latinos. May God bless you and your family.

Raquel Mejia   July 16th, 2009 4:19 pm ET

Rick,

Thank you so much for sharing that with us. The timing was excellent. I just finished reading a comment on Facebook about how if one can’t learn the English language they should leave this country, and it definitely hurt my feelings. I don’t think I could have explained it as beautifully and honestly as you just did.

My mother came from Peru twenty-one years ago, so that I can have a better life and a better education. Although she does speak English, it’s not perfect. Believe me she tries, but as most of us immigrants know, it is not an easy task to learn as an adult. There is not a day that goes by that I’m not thankful for the sacrifices she has made for me. I recently graduated from college, and plan to enroll in law school. I owe all of my accomplishments to my beautiful, strong, and WISE mother. I am inspired by women like our mothers, and by women like Sonia Sotomayor.

Sean   July 16th, 2009 4:19 pm ET

Nice house...bet she hasn't been making leather shoes for some time now, probably has time on her hands to learn English. Before i am edited out or accused of bias, racism or blah blah. First generation born in America from Spain. Family came here doing the same thing, working bad jobs for a living and learned to speak English. What you speak in your house is your business, but if you cant understand to be on the lookout for an Amber Alert or something without a translator...you are in trouble.

Bob Cohen   July 16th, 2009 4:20 pm ET

Rick, your comments on your Mom not speaking English ( & I would be surprised if she didn't speak enough to be understood if necessary) was a beautiful acknowledgement of what your Mom did when she came over here from Cuba. My Mom too was a child of immigrants My grandparents arrived here speaking only Yiddish & Russian. They lived in a Yiddish ghetto in Strawberry Mansion in Philadelphia just as yours live in a heavily Latino area, Hialeah. My Mom spoke no English until she went to school in Philly.

The difference, as I see it, is that at that time there was no broad tolerance of people who came here to live & who did not speak English so, if my Grandparents wanted to be able to do for my mother what your folks did for you, they were forced to speak, although with a heavy yiddish accent, English. Frankly, I'm not sure that was better.

I live in Miami. I hear a few of my friends complaining about the immigrants who live here but refuse to learn English. Sure, it would be great if everyone who came here learned English, however, we are in different times & I am glad of that. There is still intoerance but, hopefully far less intolerance today than there was then. Is that not a good thing?

So Rick, I join you in celebrating what your Mom has done for you & what my Grandparents did for my Mom, in whatever language it was done. It is much more important than being fluent in English!

Rosalinda Manuela   July 16th, 2009 4:20 pm ET

Lisa, What she meant was people tend to assume that Latina women and some Black women, when people approach them, they think that they must be a maid or work on the garment industry. Those jobs have merit I agree, but if one has completed college, and worked hard to become a CEO, or entrepenuer, is is a slap in the face to assume that a person of color, could not be working in those positions. People are always surprised when I tell them I work in the Circuit Clerks office. The response is always "Oh really"?, and the look on their face tells it all. Unless you have had this happen time and time again, it is hard for another person to understand. The next comment that usually follows is "How did You get that job?", or "Who'd you have to sleep with to get that job"? It is always said in a joking manner, but there is truth in jest. That educated lady put it succintly and honestly.

C.D. Wood - Louisville, KY   July 16th, 2009 4:20 pm ET

Wonderful! You’ve brought a personal, necessary and overlooked perspective to the ongoing language debate!!! Each of our family histories are an immigrant story (generally speaking). Each of these stories are based on necessity and sacrifice. People do not leave their homelands for one where they do not know the language or have a definite source of income without a seriously compelling reason. Importantly, these stories, which greatly enrich our country, are uniquely American as our nation is the ultimate “melting pot.” Nevertheless, from time to time, we need to be reminded of the narrative our non-English-speaking citizens bring. Thank you!!!

Armando Barnhart   July 16th, 2009 4:21 pm ET

I liked your comments on where your family came from and the reason your family did what they did. Hispanics have just got here compared to people that have roots here for over a hundred years. But I say that it is like standing in line, the people that got here first, get served first, but the line is moving and eventually the end becomes the start. I think that we are the begining of the future. I live in Immokalee, Florida, just west of Hialeah

Jita   July 16th, 2009 4:21 pm ET

the USA is a nation of immigrants– who have struggled to make a place for themselves and their children in this great land and you were blessed to have such supportive parents who have sacrificed so much so you could prosper.....it's devoted families like yours that 'make' this nation rich in so many ways.
I'm here on a short visit -my daughter married & moved here last year and as I watch her work hard day&night in a famous consultancy group to make a place for herself in this beautiful country I pray that she too will get support from her husband and inlaws so she too may one day enrich this nation as you have by your journalistic talent.
may God Bless you and your dear ones (esp your Mom&Dad)and may you ever continue to so inspire thru' your good work.-love &light-Jita

Marlene   July 16th, 2009 4:21 pm ET

Rick you said...."Their story is the story of millions of immigrants who came to America, maybe even the story of your ancestors. They struggled, went without and even sacrificed their own betterment, so that we could thrive."
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Rick, my ancestors happen to be Native Americans, I cannot share your view that the story of millions of 'immigrants' have come to America so their generations could thrive. What about Native Americans who were invaded by terrorists from England, slaughtered, placed on reservations, tribes wiped out? Why cannot the governments of the countries from where those who flee, try and attempt to provide the same opportunities and improve a way of life for their own peoples, just as Americans have done and fought so hard for?... For their country, for their citizens. America would not be so over-whelmed with the illegal immigration problem it now faces. On the other hand, our government has tangled itself into many foreign wars so many times, our prime young men & women have fought & died fighting for others' freedoms – war-torn countries' refugees are then re-located to start a new life to live here...Sort of like 're-stocking' the breeding stock. This is a huge problem and must be dealt with through the governments of the masses (Mexico & others) who flock into OUR country illegally, every minute of every hour, of every day.

SharkGoddess   July 16th, 2009 4:21 pm ET

I understand what you've said. But I believe we should all learn how to communicate together with one language. The problem with people coming from different countries is that we can't communicate with 1 universal language to understand each other. So instead of biding us together as being from 1 country, it separates us. LEt's embrace the countries people come from. But let's also embrace the country they've come to, to be part of which includes its people. I believe it'd also go a long ways towards easing racial tensions because we'd be able to communicate in an effective manner to better understand each other.

Thanks for reading this.

Alexey   July 16th, 2009 4:22 pm ET

I've never commented you here on the blog, but your words about your mom were absolutely heart touching and sincere. I came to the US 5 years ago from Russia(at the age of 22) and this kind of words give me the inspiration and encorage me to go forward and achive my goals. My dream is to break into Hollywood oneday, probably not to become as famous as you are, but at least to work on the stage. But first I have to study English... I won't give up! Thank you Rick!

Fernan   July 16th, 2009 4:22 pm ET

Hey rick, i really liked "wise women". I agree with your mom, i also feel very proud to have a Latina/Latina at the top as a federal judge. I really felt the connection with the comments the ladies made in "wise women".

I really agree with how you responded to the comments and questions on why your mom doesn't speak English.

and for those who still criticize your mother for not speaking english should SERIOUSLY consider putting themselves in your moms shoes

and Why does she have to speak English anyways?

Kiro   July 16th, 2009 4:23 pm ET

Hey Rick, I just wanted to say it is horrible that people would criticize your mother for not speaking English. I myself am a Hispanic male who knows English quite well, yet doesn't understand Spanish nearly as well as I'd like to. I have more of a desire to learn Japanese & yet had I never learned English, I would be criticized in this country for what I didn't know rather than praised for what I sought to achieve. All by people who often have no admirable aspirations of their own.

There are powerfully ignorant people in this world, who are frankly so simple minded that other languages sound like annoying gibberish to them, so they lash out because they can't understand. I hear other languages & I see the beautiful complexity of the human species that we all take for granted every day. The same complexity that drove your parents to sacrifice their immediate gain so that you could have a better life. It would be wonderful if we could all understand each others speech at all times, however many of us can't even understand each others perspectives & common struggles as human beings. Perhaps that is what we should be striving for.

Carmen BdG   July 16th, 2009 4:23 pm ET

OMG!! Does the ignorance and bigotry ever stop?! I'm pretty sure that the 99% of the individuals who complained about your mother not speaking Spanish has an ancestor that has some "fresh of the boat" accent. Half of my bloodline is from this continent, the other half is from Cuba.

I am an AMERICAN of Mexican, Jicarilla Apache and Cuban descent.

I am not Hispanic. None of my relatives are from Hispanic. No one speaks Hispanic. Hispanic is a word to lump the people with Spanish surnames together, since we're all alike.. The word infers that I am Spanish. I do not have European blood. I am not of the Caucasian (white) race. My Mexican bloodline is Mexican Indian,no Spanish blood.

I was raised to embrace my heritage and cultures so that I may share the beauty, depth and wealth of our family's lineage. My grandmother who is full-blood Apache was stolen as a child. Yes, she was once free, then came the pilgrims and their calvery; then orphanages where they tried to beat the "Indian savage" out of her. I am two generations from that ugliness in American history.

For some indigenous people in the Southwest, they had to hide who they were and claim to be Mexicans because you would be shot on sight if you were Apache or looked indigenous (since we all look alike). I'm 2 generations from that ugliness.

And then the news shows the children turned away from a swimming pool...the condescending tones of the confirmation hearing...and people spewing their bigotry because your mother doesn't speak English?? I guess the ugliness will always rear its head...

Stay strong hermanito...don't sweat the small people who show they're ignorance...Your life is blessed from the wise Latina woman who sacrificed so much for you to succeed.

Many blessings to you and your family.

Mama Shrek   July 16th, 2009 4:23 pm ET

Rick, I'm proud of you for speaking up for your mother. People are so cruel. I am an African American who's parents were not immigrants but less fortunate, just like your mom and who did the best with what they had. The truth is your mother and father had the heart that all parents should have;to want more for their kids than they had. I actually thought her presence made the piece more grand. Just like our president walked throught the door of no return this week as an African American whose father was from Africa and is now President of a country that practiced slavery. Your mom's presence in the clip was an excellent example of a "Wise Latina Woman" and of Sonia Sotomayor's statement that the Good Ole Boys refuse to grasp. Her son, who she sacrificed for, now speaks the language as his profession for the country she migrated to and we all are witnessing a Latina woman be confirmed for the highest court of the land. Whoever made the comment is still choked with the stench of the "Tunnel of no return". People should never criticize a person unless they have walked a mile in their shoes, which is usually not the case. Love to Mom and Good job on raising you!!

Diana Garcia Gafford   July 16th, 2009 4:24 pm ET

Dear Rick,
I, too, am a product of a Cuban family who came to this country. My comments, however, are as a result of the career I have chosen. I graduated from college and hold 2 masters degrees. I am a Federal/State court interpreter and thank mother on a daily basis that she forced me to speak Spanish at home. I live in the state of GA and I deal mostly with Mexican and C.Amer. people. Regardless of nationality, I often hear the same comment you do regarding your mother's inability to speak English.
The Latinos who have come to our country as of late are no different from the scores of other people who came from other nations during other eras. The older people of those differing nations also didn't learn the language. It was left to the next generation to do that in their place. We warmly smile at ads depicting an Italian Mama fixing a delicious lasagna, or thrill at the opportunity to go to an authentic Chinatown where so many of the older citizens speak Mandarin and the signs in the windows are a wonderful mix of intersecting lines.
I believe the reason for the " English Only" comments we hear now, unlike (perhaps) other generations, is because of the sheer volume of Latino people who have come to our shores. The truth of the matter is that it is unlikely that the first generation of people of any nation coming here will learn the language, just like the Poles, Germans, and Vietnamese.
Firstly, rarely do smaller communities have public transportation to take someone to classes, nor is there time nor energy after a hard-day's work.
Secondly, many families have just one vehicle and thus the mothers have no way to get to classes nor can they drive.
Thirdly, my experience has been that the Latinos who work (the vast majority) learn the language of their craft. The men in construction all know "sheetrock," "plywood," cement bloques and the like. The women working in hotels all know the vocabulary necessary to clean rooms.
So let's cut these folks a little slack. They deserve far more than that, but I'll settle for that and some compassion and care right now. The truth of the matter is that by the time the next generation gets to be 18 and has been through the educational system, they will be speaking English.
Thanks for listening. I liked your segment.
Diana Garcia Gafford

Angelica Padilla   July 16th, 2009 4:25 pm ET

Rick,
i have to say i never really watched your show but my mother does whenever she can. today having past your show i was shocked that someone had FINALLY told the story about us as Latinos. myself being 1st generation in the USA i have seen 1st hand all the struggles that my family has had to go through just to give my brothers and sisters a chance in the world. my father works almost every day as a mover, still lifting heavy objects at the age of 50 and will not stop till he sees all his children in a better life than he was given and a mother that works every single day as a server, having to deal with being looked down at and treated like she is second class. it has touched me deeply that you are so close to the struggle and have the strength to tell the rest of the country what it really is to have this life. both me and my mother thank you from the bottom of our hearts. as you said, our parents give their lives so that we the childern can carry them on as we move to great hights in our lives. i cant tell you how happy you and your mother made me and my mother. keep going and always speak the truth no matter what. thank you again.

johnnylee   July 16th, 2009 4:25 pm ET

Hi Rick. Watched your show today and was really moved at the way you explained your moms success. She is a huge success because she sacrificed herself to make sure that she did what was necessary to make you the person you are today. It was very moving the way you explained it because a lot of young people today really dont appreciate the sacrifices made for them by their parents.

John

thomas amburn   July 16th, 2009 4:26 pm ET

what makes your family story any differnt than millions of other american. My swedish grandfather was proud to be an american and he refused to speak his native language only speaking broken american english, not swedish. He lived and worked in a scandanivan community in astoria, oregon. The people that he worked with, swedes, norweigens and fins all spoke american english. No one in my family can speak swedish with the exception of me and I had to take swedish language course in college.
The problem with this country today, is that the spanish speaking illegels in this country do not want to dissiminate into becoming americans speaking american english. Unlike europe and their many cultural differences and languages, we american have a united language and that language is american english. It is the glue that holds us together. I am highly offended when I hear spanish being promoted as a offical second language of this country. Why should my children and grand children have to learn spanish when this is an american engish speaking country?
Should we just divide this country up again like the civil war with those states speaking american english and the other states just spanish speakers? Take a look at Finland, the home of my grandfather. In Finland, Swedish is an official second language of Finland. There are towns in Finland where the majority of speakers are Swedish and the name of the town is listed first in swedish and secondly in Finnish. Where the population of a town is more Finnish than Swedish the town is listed with a Finnish name then a Swedish town name. There has been resentment from both the Swedish speakers and the Finnish Speakers about this official langage issue. As an example the island of Autland of the coast of Finland and between Finland and Sweden in the Baltic sea. The offical language is Swedish and you can move there as a Finnish speaker but you must speak Swedish. Autland is considered part of Finland.
It is all crazy stuff.
My resentment of illegal foreigners run quite deep. I am a Euro D (european decedent) I do not consider myself WHITE. It is my understanding that 60 to 70 per cent of the population of American is Euro D's and why should we tolerate spanish as a second langauge in this country. We have been invaded by illegels from the southern boarders of this country for over thirty years, who wants to displace american english and keep their spanish speaking culture at the expense of the Euro D's.
Only Italy, the Roman Empire, suffered this same type of take over by the hoards from the germanic north. We have the same problem in this country with our ungarded boaders being invaded by illegal foreigners. I believe that if you are here illegelly anything that you do here is illegal including giving birth to illegal children. Those children of illegal foreigners are not american citizens but citizens of the country from which the illegal foreginers have came from. It is my contention that these people should be deported along with their illegal children.

TAA

Mark McField   July 16th, 2009 4:26 pm ET

Hey Rico, ain't no big fan of you or whinny Wolf Blitzer but watch you every day cause CNN my favorite place to get the news. Maybe its part of the shtick of being a CNN journalist or your Latino heritage, but sometimes you push the envelope a bit to far in your "over emotive, sensationalistic "reporting. Today though, in defending why your mom couldn't speak English, saw a very honest and dignified human being who brought tears to my eyes(your image on the screen got a bit blurry for a few moments) by your statements. As for that "wise, old Latina woman", sorry to say that none of those august and learned senators sitting in front of her, can even come close to matching her superior & proud intellect. With all her formal education, experience and life's work, can even see her one day becoming the Chief Justice of the USA.

Cicca   July 16th, 2009 4:27 pm ET

Rick, I watch your show every day... sometimes on dvr but I never miss it!
Your heritage is something to be proud of and your parents raised one hell of a man!
I myself remember my great grandmother, she spoke german and barely any english, some people tick me off when they say unkind things.
Here is how I see it.
If they want her to speak English they should take the time toTeach it to her!
If she wants to learn she can now that she has the time...
If she loves you enough to give up options that would have made her life easier so you could advance then you have the right to be offended when someone speaks without thinking.
besides it's not like she does not understand English I seen her respond to your question (that you asked in English).... she can understand it just can't speak it. Like my gr8 grammy did...
My husbands family gave up everything so he could come to America to 'Find the American Dream' and would in turn give everything he has to any children we have... your mom is a saint, and to have raised you so well she was inded a "wise women" a very wise one indeed!
god bless you always.
Cicca and Siva

JB Jones   July 16th, 2009 4:27 pm ET

The world would be better off with more mothers like your's... Too bad everyone is more concerned with trivial matters instead of raising a decent generation. It's really sad – now people are using language as a reason to fight. Sometimes, I think Americans just can't be content.

I'm proud of you, Sir... and even more proud of your mother.

Barbara Botts   July 16th, 2009 4:28 pm ET

Rick, This country focus way too much on race. That said, as a Black American, I am feeling left out. My life experience, and that of many other Blacks, is exactly like yours. My Mother, who is 95 years old with a third grade education, worked for $25.00 a week so I could get an education. When the schools closed in Prince Edward County to avoid integration, she allowed the American Friends Service Committee to send me to New Jersey from Virginia so I could go to school. She and I rode the Greyhound bus, eating sandwiches on the way. We passed through Cumberland, VA where there was a sign on the door of the restaurant at the bus station, "Whites Only. I cry now as I write this. The kind of discrimination and subsequent hurt that I and many others have received continues to hurt. This country has treated so many so wrong and continues to do so as evidenced by the white male senators who are giving Sotomayor such a hard time. White folk in this country are arrogant, biased, prejudiced and think they have inalienable rights. They are disdainful of the president and shows it daily. Even when they are in the majority, they think they are in charge. We, Latinos and Blacks, must work together to put those arrogant persons out of business. This is our country too. We have more in common than we have different.

Anna Amato   July 16th, 2009 4:28 pm ET

You actually made me cry with this story. My mother was the first daughter in her family born in America. My aunt was born in Italy and my uncle on the boat coming to America. English was not her first language and she welcomed it when I corrected her (Privately) English so people wouldn't make fun of her. You are right; they didn't come to America to be successes. They came for us; she walked from work as a seemstress so she could save the bus fare.
My mother had auburn hair and freckles and some American told her that all Italians were greasy guineas and she never fogot how that made her feel. I am so sorry for those people out there who still don't get it.

Diane   July 16th, 2009 4:28 pm ET

Wow, loved your closing statement regarding the matter. I'd be lying if I said it didn't bring me to tears. It couldn't have been expressed any better. America needs to realize that because of those many "non-english speaking" individuals we, (America), NOW have many many more goal-driven, ambitious, and hard-working individuals continuously striving to better not only themselves but America as a whole.
When I'm currently asked to describe my life challenges and accomplishments, I don't flatter myself by highly stressing that I have two college degrees; but rather on the fact that I am a first-born Mexican American.

Allen Edwards   July 16th, 2009 4:29 pm ET

Rick when I saw that piece with your mom, tears came to my eyes and this is why. I'm a black man back in 1957 seven years old and the only black kid in my class and had to fight every day and avoid being hung by some of my class mates and there father. This country has still so much positive growing up to do. We need to have more kitchen table talks like you had with your mom and your special guest. Latina Smart Women. Rick you mom reminds me of my Grandmother whom raised me, I never called her grand mom, it was always mom. She sacrificed so much like your mom so we Rick could have opportunities. Just like our next Supreme Court Justice (Latina Smart Lady). She has earned it the hard way. Allen Edwards 240-888-5421. Rick just keep on keeping it real

Andrea Rojas   July 16th, 2009 4:31 pm ET

I just hope someone translated what you just said about your mom to her. She must be a proud mama!! We should not be surprised about the comments people made about what language your mom speaks. Just look around the senators asking the same questions to Judge Sotomayor over a speech about "Wise Latina Women". The fact is this country and the people in office need to learn more about ethnic groups and customs. They push the topic so many times as if Sotomayor had to say she was ashamed she had said that in a speech. We need to be proud of who we are and pass it on to our children. Everyone is different and the backgrounds, customs, food, language sets us apart but at the same time it is what makes us rich in this "salad bar" of the U.S. Arriba tu Mama. Saludos. :)

jack white   July 16th, 2009 4:31 pm ET

I thought you were smarter than this. Millions did come to this country and did not speak English. Guess what-they worked hard, sacrificed everything for their children and also learned English. It wasn't either or !! Why didn't you teach and help your Mother learn English ??? Nice cop out and sound bite. It doesn't fly.

Debbie   July 16th, 2009 4:31 pm ET

Thank you for putting this into perspective for everyone. I have been following you since I was 12 years old, when you were in the local Fox 7 news in Miami, and then when you had your own show (yes I remember that!). I recorded this segment and played it over for my boyfriend. He can't understand why my mother doesn't speak English and I could never explain it....but you did a great job at explaining it for me. My mother is a Cuban immigrant who came to this country when she was 18 years old and was told she had to work in the factory, where she worked for about 3 years. At 19 she got married, got pregnant with me, and at 21 became a single mother working 2 jobs. She did this so that I can have a better life and a better future. I am 25 yrs old working towards my master degree, and all of this was thanks to my mother. It is unfortunate that some people can be so narrow-minded and think that learning a language is as easy as 1,2,3. I don't think many people realize that in Miami you need to learn how to speak Spanish, if not you are the outcast. In a city where English is the second language and sometimes not used in many places, many immigrants find it unnecessary to learn English. Thank you, Thank you, thank you. You did a great job at explaining it.

helen   July 16th, 2009 4:31 pm ET

Your words made me cry because of their great truth. Your parents deserve honor and respect for what they chose to do with their lives and the sacrifices they made to make a dream come true – yours. We can all learn from their example.

Miriam   July 16th, 2009 4:31 pm ET

Thank you Rick!
I am glad someone spoke up about this as this was the case with my parents as well. They came here so I could have a better life and opportunities that they did not have back in Cuba. They gave what they had to me and my siblings and they went without. My mom worked in a factory or took home factory work for extra money staying up all night. My dad worked out in the fields in Florida. There's not much English nor words that are needed in those industries for you to do your job. I thank GOD everyday for my parents for showing me what hard work is and for me to be able to appreciate the success I have achieved because of them.

betty j cole   July 16th, 2009 4:32 pm ET

hi rick
today you became not just a reporter,but human to me.i finally saw
the person that you are and where you came from.the piece i saw today
showed who you are and who made you.your mom is great like
good moms are.its never about us its about our child,whats good
for them.and that makes it ok for us.even though i sometimes disagree with you,i like that you never stay in a box,so i have found
you are fair.so this entiltles you to (my cnn i love you list)congrations
you made the list.
thanks
betty

Antoinette L. Dooley   July 16th, 2009 4:33 pm ET

Rick, I am so proud of your Mom and Dad. I care that she and your dad worked hard to support you, educated you and your siblings. My grandmother was an emigrant at the turn of the century and worked long, hard hours as a maid – finally in the 1920's was working at a factory as a janitor........all this to provide for her two children – my father and his sister. She bought a home on the south side of Minneapolis, saw my father through the University of Minnesota as an engineer and his sister educated as a secretary. I was four the last time I saw her, but I remember this little, old lady. Now I am so proud of all that she did for her family and I don't care if her English was not perfect. Nor do I feel this way about any "New" American. How many of the current Americans complaining because your Mom spoke to you in Spanish, could have the stamina to do what it takes to live in a foreign country and raise, feed and educate their children for a better life? Sincerely, Antoinette Larson Dooley

Elaine   July 16th, 2009 4:34 pm ET

Rick, I can sympathize with you about your mother and be proud of her but as an American and having spent so many years in the US, she and any other immigrant should know how to speak enough English to express themselves, even if it is not the best grammar.
Your logic is understandable but prejudiced. Many immigrants do not wish to speak English and they are often the ones who talk about someone behind their backs in another language. If you can learn about money transactions – there is no excuse not to learn some English. Perhaps, you should not have interviewed her b/c it was just a wee illogical.

John Coughlin   July 16th, 2009 4:35 pm ET

Rick,
Learning to speak English while living in America does not cost a lot of money or take a lot of time. It does take a desire and a commitment, but not a lot of money. If a person is employed in an English speaking enviroment they will quickly begin to pick up the language. After years of such employment and association with English speaking people, one cannot help but pick up the language.
However, if a person immigrates to the US and stays in a neighborhood with other immigrants that choose not to assimilate into the American culture, then it is easy to rely on the language, customs and cultural ways of the old country. These people are making a concious choice NOT to become Americans.
The trouble with that choice and your Moms story is that what she and many others like her are choosing to do is move "their" family and "their" culture to America so they can take advantage of what all the previous immigrants have built for them without paying the price of getting out of their "comfort zone." These earlier immigrants assimilated into the American culture and actually helped determine the shape and future of the culture. People like your Mom and your family are part of the groups that are ultimately splitting Ameican into "Latin Americans", "African Americans", "Asian Americans" and so on.
What is happening to our country is that there are a shrinking number of just plain old "Americans." When times are good and things are going great, that is not such a big problem, but when things get tough, and America, as a country, needs citizens that are fully integrated, committed "Americans" to stand up for the founding priniciples of this country, there won't be any. There will be millions of "something Americans" that kinda care, but people that kinda care will be no match for fully integrated, committed, passionate citizens of other contries that theaten our own.
I know you are very smart, well connected liberal biased "something American" and will take offense to my comments and think I am some kind of paranoid white racist, but you know what, that is just a label that you and other liberals like you place on people that want to preserve the priciples that founded this country. I am totally confident that I understand the situation fully and have no respect for any people that come to this country "to stay" that are unwilling to become fully integrated into the American culture. This country is a melting pot and has among the most liberal immigration standards of any country on earth. The culture we have today is a result of the mixture of cultures and beliefs of all the fully integrated citizens. All of these small groups of "something Americans" that want to enjoy the fruits of the society, without becoming fully intergrated will ultimately be the down fall of our country.

Brenda Sanchez   July 16th, 2009 4:35 pm ET

"Gracias" Rick for your coverage on why your mom does not speak english.. It was by far the best news coverage on Latina woman. Especially since lately all you hear is about death..
your commets truely inspired me and motiviated me to continue to better my life after all the sacrficice my parents had to overcome so we could be strong, smart, wealthy Latinos just like you Rick! look forward to seeing and hearing more of your great news coverage!

Young wise latina..

Carol Kolcz   July 16th, 2009 4:36 pm ET

Hats off to you Rick! Almost every citizen of this wonderful country has a 1st-generation immigrant in their ancestry. If immigrants choose not to learn English, that is their choice. If they can get along in society via the aid of English speaking friends or relatives, then good for them!
When your mother came here, she didn't expect this country to start speaking her language, but she made sure her children learned English so they could take advantage of the great opportunities in this country. English should remain the language of our country. It is your choice to learn it. THAT'S what this country is all about!

Dave   July 16th, 2009 4:36 pm ET

Rick,

Who cares. We all have our issues but now we know your wealthy and successful. CNN should stop the political agenda and stick with the news.

Gina   July 16th, 2009 4:37 pm ET

Your response was not only eloquent, but necessary.... Rick, you were spot-on with your comment! I understood your mother from the interactions between both of you... a mother's love trancends over any- and everything!

Richard Goldstein   July 16th, 2009 4:38 pm ET

Rick,
Viewed your show for first time today. Great coverage of days events. I am fortunate to be a second generation American, but part of a minority group as are you. You say that your success is a direct result of your parents hard work and sacrifice. Your piece at Mother's house with other successful Latina women in Miami proves one very important point. Success in America by minorities is primarily due to their ability to communicate within the 'system' that is a melting pot of many minorities. The language of our land is English despite what some minorities would prefer. It would be easier for them to continue speaking their native tongue rather than learn another. American born people are forced to learn other languages in our public schools for our own betterment. Why should that not apply to immigrant Americans? Would they not be better off being able to speak and understand English? You bet they would. Perhaps your Mom would not have had to labor quite as hard if some of her sweat was put into learning the language. Just imagine how difficult it would be for her if she was forced for whatever reason to live in a non-Spanish speaking community. I am near the same age as your Mother and soon may have to relocate to South Florida. There is no way I will be able to survive in the business world without a reasonable command of Spanish. I must put forth the effort to learn as much as possible or become a laboring immigrant in a foreign community. Do the right thing Rick. Help your Mom learn to speak English. You owe that to her. She will love you even more for returning the favor.

ps. Please do not judge my thought by my own imperfect command of grammar and spelling. I am a product of a less than perfect educational system, but I believe the best in the world.

dale   July 16th, 2009 4:40 pm ET

i loved rick's response to the comments about his mother. i'm a fourth generation white american male. but my parents did the same for me. they didn't have college educations or high salaries, they sacrificed so my sisters and i could have the things they didn't.

i know it must have hurt to hear those remarks, but i think ricks response was well considered and very mature. thanks, rick

dale

Dr. Robert A. Reid   July 16th, 2009 4:41 pm ET

Thank you for your kind words about your mother. They came from your heart. You are right that many Americans share similar stories of parents, whether immigrants or not, who sacrifieced to provide opportunity for their children. Your explanation for why your mother did not (has not) learned to speak English was reasonable, although lingual assimilation in Miami was likely not as significant an issue for her as it is in other places of the country. Hispanic immigrants continuing to speak Spanish (and seemingly refusing to learn English) is an issue among some Americans, though, primarily because of 1) unabating illegal immigration and 2) economics exaccerbated by illegal immigration. If you will, it is a "knee jerk" reaction by segments of our society who feel disempowered by what they perceive to be a rising "brown" tide, unchecked and pervasive. Irrational fear may well be a factor in this perception but, on the flip side, it is a perception that could be allayed by a good-faith effort on the part of legal immigrants to assimilate in language, as well ... just as you and many in your generation have done.

Agatha Lorenzo   July 16th, 2009 4:41 pm ET

Rick,
WOW. Your comments about your mother had me shedding tears a minute after you starting talking about her. It is very similar to my mother's story who came here from Spain and she too was never able to learn English because she was too busy trying to give me the best life possible by making a niche for herself in the Spanish-speaking world where she knew she could excel. I always felt so embarrassed that she could not speak English and she always used to say, " you know Spanish as well as you do because I don't know English– it's more important that you are bilingual than me - that will open many future doors given your education." She on the other hand had only gone to grammar school before she was forced to work in Spain. Yet she was able to send me to New York's Julliard School of Music and have me graduate from NYU with a degree in journalism. I admire you so much for sharing your story with your viewers and I hope that those that are more narrow-minded are closer to understanding the immigrant experiences that have made this country great. Thank you CNN for having Rick on board!!!

Charlayne   July 16th, 2009 4:42 pm ET

I love what you said about the rude and terrible comments about your mother. It is a shame how hateful people are. Your mother is a sweet heart I'm sure. I'm a black American and One things for sure, Don't talk about my mother . Have a nice day.

Sergio   July 16th, 2009 4:42 pm ET

I just saw your response on CNN about your mom not speaking English. I have to tell you that it hit home. I came here from Cuba at the age of 10 in 1979. My mother, like yours never "learned" english in the 30 years that we've lived here. I am often asked why she never learned it, and although I felt the same things as you, I could never explain it outside of the standard, "she never had to learn it, because she didn't have to".
I only wish that I could have put into words what you gallantly expressed in regards to your parents and their struggle.
Great job and a great angle on a trivial subject. To think that one statement, whether meant or not could have an affect on Sotomayor's nomination would be a disservice to this country. After all, the last minority managed to get nominated after his sexual harassment troubles. That said, if Sotomayor does not make the cut one cannot help but think discrimination.
Sadly, part of the problem with this country is that the majority have forgotten where they came from.
Great job!

Mary Morvari   July 16th, 2009 4:42 pm ET

Dear Mr. Sanchez,
I was watching your broadcast when you were speaking about your mother, how you are fluent in English and why she was not able to learn English because she was taking care of you and giving you the best life possible.
I really liked the way you spoke about your mom and it brought tears to my eyes. I completely understand. I moved to this country with my two kids and worked 14 hours a day to raise my children and provide for them with the best life possible. Now, both of my children are adults and I am sixty years old. Last year I lost my business and have had a bad turn of luck. I have been looking for a position as a nanny but find that I am not being considered because of my age and my foreign accent. Even though I am over qualified and have a certificate of appreciation from Hennepin County, MN for outstanding service in child care, I am being overlooked for jobs because I too was unable to take the time to gain a formal education in this country while working to provide for my family. Although I have a degree from my country and held an honorable position there, I am unable to use my education in the United States due to my lack of English and computer skills. I work on both every day and am able to fulfill duties better than those half my age, yet continue to be critisized for my age and my accent.
I wanted to tell you that I enjoyed your comments and appreciate what you said about your mother. I continue to look for the solution to my situation daily.
Thank you,
Mary Morvari
mmorvari@yahoo.com

Maria Eugenia   July 16th, 2009 4:43 pm ET

Hola Rick,

Your response about your Mom not speaking English was outstanding!! As a Cuban-American like yourself I understand "la lucha" and the pride in our parents and the tremendous sacrifice they endured so that we could be educated and triumph here in America. Don't let the ignorant deter you from your good work. Favor de enviarle mis saludos a su Madre.

God Bless!
Maria:)

Janie Mora   July 16th, 2009 4:43 pm ET

Rick, it doesn't matter if your mother doesn't speak English it was more important that she was there for you and your family and raised you all with values. Thanks for sharing.

Diana   July 16th, 2009 4:44 pm ET

What you have written echoes the story of not only Latinos but all people who make sacrifices for their families. Peopls don't realize that assimilation for immigrants today, is very different than for immigrants in the past. It is difficult to assimilate when you need to learn the language, but it is far harder when you don't exactly "look the part" and have a completely different culture than the mainstream.

Jaime Garcia   July 16th, 2009 4:46 pm ET

This is the first time I've ever participated in something like this but I had to today after your comments about your mother not speaking english. How proud she must be and well deserved. I was moved to tears at your words and this is exactly what our culture teaches be proud of who you are and never forget your roots.

Wendy   July 16th, 2009 4:47 pm ET

Listening to your reasons as to why your mother doesn't speak English seems like a lame excuse to me.
My Italian Great-Grandparents came to this country with a dream for a better life for their children. They and their children came here without a command of the English language. As their children learned English in school, they taught it to their parents who were eager to learn. My Great-Grandparents also worked many hours in a brickyard besides taking care of the family so it's not like they had leisure time to learn.
My Great-Greandparents believed that learning English was a great way to show their children that they were proud of the Country they adopted for their own. They didn't insulate themselves to just a small community of Italian speaking people but expanded their horizons and their childrens' horizons by learning English.
Learning English helped them give back to society instead of just taking from it.
When you move to any new country it shouldn't be just to take advantage of what it as to offer you or your family, you need to give back as well. You should intergrate yourself into the population and become a productive member of that society, not just take advantage of it. Too many people take without giving back.

Maria Bergheim   July 16th, 2009 4:48 pm ET

Rick,
Thank you for sharing your personal story with the rest of us...something we, as viewers, rarely get to see. Your mother represents the true American Spirit of what it means to work hard for her family. I applaud her for never giving up so that you can!

I love your show ! Thank you for bringing a fresh perspective to the news!
Maria

Steve Vicens   July 16th, 2009 4:49 pm ET

Rick, I was really touched by your perspective on why your mother does not speak English. As a Cuban American I also struggle with the fact that my mother and father could not sprees themselves in English. My parent also worked in a factory and when without, just so my brother, sister and I could have and go to school. So thank you for your perspective you made me very proud to be a Cuban American, as we are also so proud for what this country has given us. I lost my mother 3 years ago, and to the bitter end she wanted us to do better and for us to sacrifice so our children could do better that us, this is the character of a Latina woman.

robert van wart   July 16th, 2009 4:50 pm ET

this is my first time 'blogging' to anyone. I am very touched by your comments about your mother not only because I like you as a broadcaster/reporter but now as a man/son/american – God Bless

Janie   July 16th, 2009 4:51 pm ET

Rick, thanks for sharing your story

Alexia Fernandez   July 16th, 2009 4:54 pm ET

I'm 15 years old, and I don't usually watch CNN. But when I saw "Wise Latina Women" I had to stop flipping channels and listen.

I heard you explain about how negative comments made about your parents offended you, and I couldn't have wished for a better response. I'm 15, I was born in Miami and moved to a town (not even a city) populated by a majority of white Americans. I have faced discrimnation for being Mexican/Colombian, but I can say that my mom has pushed me as hard and far as yours.

Your response to negative comments made about your mothers inability to speak English made me cry, because first of all, I understand WHY she never learned.

Miami is Miami, and in Miami, NO ONE speaks English. I should know. My mother took night classes, but did she EVER need to use them in Miami? NO. Not until we moved to Bradenton, Florida, that is.
It was like total culture shock. I didn't know America could be so different from salsa music and cuban bread.

But the fact is, I only have my mother, and I KNOW, I UNDERSTAND, exactly where you're coming from. I know how it feels to have parents who sacrifice many things in order for their children to survive and be MORE than they are in America.

I couldn't be more proud of hearing Rick Sanchez say something about his time growing up in Miami and then moving somewhere else where Spanish wasn't the #1 language.

It's hard, it's very tough, but as future wise latina woman, I admire those who come from nothing and make a name for themselves in this country, were we are all free.

George and Inmaculada Behr   July 16th, 2009 4:55 pm ET

Thank you and Gracias. Bien dicho. Every "American" should be made to read what you wrote and sign off on it. GB

Rosalinda Teetor   July 16th, 2009 4:56 pm ET

The explanation was never necessary but you could not have chosen better or more heartfelt words to explain why your Mom doesn't speak English. As a mother of three grown sons I can say you've made her truly proud.
We can't fight fear and perhaps diversity may never be fully embraced but Wise Latinas raised us so we know how to move forward. Adelante!

sandyvdz   July 16th, 2009 4:57 pm ET

I come from folks on both sides who came to this country between 350-400 years ago (mayflower and hudson valley dutch) The dutch side probably had to leard english at some point, but that's not the point. I have more reason than most to be a snob about such things, but my parents raised me in NYC, the great meling pot. What a great way to grow up around different cultures and languages. My Mother always reminded me that FDR when addressing a group of ladies from the DAR (Daughter's of the American Revolution) began by saying "Hello my fellow immigrants!" Much to their dismay -he he. The point is, we're all immigrants unless you happen to be Native American. So to anyone who has anything to say about your Mom, I say Blank You. I'm a lady, but you get the idea. My best to you y Su Madre and I love your show. Sandy in NYC

chuck   July 16th, 2009 5:01 pm ET

I completely agree. My parents were Asian and they sacrificed much so I could have a better life than them. I don't know what kind of world Jeff Sessions and LIndsay Graham and the rest of those creepy Republicans live in but they need to realize that America just ain't for white folks anymore.

Electra Demosthenes Wise   July 16th, 2009 5:02 pm ET

Mr.Sanchez, Your comments on the remarks anyone said about your mother not speaking English I thought was right for the imagrants that came over here many years ago. She is a very gracious women and you should be very proud of her. My Grandfather also came over here from Greece many years ago and although he could speak some english he was very hard to understand. He was a merchant marine, one of the cooks on a Greek ship.
I do feel with so many young people coming over from other countries they should learn to speak english but for our older ancestors, that was a different time. People should understand that . I really felt sad that anyone would make you feel bad. Your mother is a beautiful person. Have a good day.

David   July 16th, 2009 5:05 pm ET

Rick,
A wonderful statement on your family. We all love our Mothers and Fathers and are proud of them. This cannot change the fact of the constant babble about being Latino, Mexican, living in GTMO and all the rest. Why not stand up and claim yourself as a American. What was was and is no more. If you feel this country is only a place to better yourself and then run it down to familys that have been here for hundreds of years there is something wrong with your views. If you are a legal resident and a American you are not Latino, Aftrican, Mexican or any other dreamed up thing to state. Try being a American I do assume that is why you and your family came here, or am I wrong?

Margaret Smith   July 16th, 2009 5:07 pm ET

Hey Rick -
The only complaint I have about your Wise Latina Women piece is that it was way too short. I loved hearing the part about Maria the maid. I never knew this but it makes so much sense. I also loved your comments about your mother. My people are from Texas and I often wonder why they don't speak English but it's not for the same reason as your mom..they have their own language there. I wish there were more pieces like this on the news. I'd rather see this than the same story and footage over and over again. Good job!

Tadashi Davis   July 16th, 2009 5:07 pm ET

Rick ,
I will not disrepect your mother in no way; however I am angry that Mother Adela cannot speak english. I am very angry! I am angry that I cannot speak spanish to get some knoweledge from her. I am angry that she cannot speak english to teach me traditional Cuban dishes. I am angry you took so long to introduce the world to your mom! Rick, I am Black, my wife and mother-in-law are from Uruguay. My mother cannot speak english to save her life... however I have understood EVERY word she said to me in 15+ years I have had the pleasure of knowing her! You see Rick folks don't understand, mothers need not speak at all because love is universal . Mother Adela needs not speak a lick of english. When she wants to say something, she will. ALL will understand what she is saying. Lastly, Rick I am 6'7" 340 lbs...and very athletic... let me hear someone say something about your mom or my mom (my mother-in-law) not speaking english....Enough said....Rick keep doing you; don't let these people get to you.

Steve   July 16th, 2009 5:07 pm ET

You helped me realize that 'wise Latina' is redundant

selene   July 16th, 2009 5:08 pm ET

I see so many negative comments regarding your commentary and your interview with your Mom. First of all...how disrespectful can you get?? They've almost attacked your Mom for not speaking English! (I don't know how you remained so gracious in your 'after' comments.) I feel the need to remind all of us that English IS a foreign language. The first immigrants to this great country spoke their native language all their lives...and made it the language of their new home in the colonies. Notice that we don't speak some native-American language. Should the colonists have learned it? Yet, here they are, talking down about those that have absolutely no reason to speak our language. Your Mom depended on your interpretation to learn the American ways of life. She worked hard to see that you became not only a good American – but a good human being. So many other immigrants lived the same life as her...in a strange land hoping to make her childrens' lives better and easier than hers. She succeeded greatly! My parents and grandparents were born in the US – but THEY'RE parents were born in other countries. My grandmother became a teacher in a era when women didn't work outside the home (early 1900's). My grandfather was an accountant and they lived a fairly decent life. They couldn't have done either without the greatest sacrifices of their parents!
I'd like to know if those naysayers would say the same if your Mom spoke Yiddish...or Gaelic...or even French? No, I doubt it. It's a bias against Spanish-speaking people. No, I'm not Hispanic. I'm as Jewish as you get-right from New York. I speak only English (yes, a 'foreign' language) and I'm proud enough of being an American that my eyes tear when the Star Spangled Banner is sung. Some of those negative souls make me ashamed to admit they are also Americans.

Enrique S. Pumar   July 16th, 2009 5:11 pm ET

Bravo! Very moving commentary.

Isabel   July 16th, 2009 5:12 pm ET

Oh, I feel very sorry for the very few bad apples (ignorant people) out there. You can see how far America has come by reading people’s comments.
I am a proud immigrant (granddaughter of an American veteran) who is still working on her English. Language acquisition is something that happens trough the years with the help of a formal education but if you are sewing shoes 10 hours a day how do you acquire a new language? If for “Americans” took 10-20 years of being in a classroom to acquire their “perfect” English, what makes people think that an immigrant can be at their level in 1, 2, or even 5 years? If one has a full time job (in which they only use a few words a day because talking is not part of the job) and no money for a formal education how do you expect them to learn the language? That is why in this great country we have people who speak both languages.
Rick, your mother did what any good mother would do, put her self second so you could rise. You are her work, you are her English, you are everything she couldn’t do. Keep her proud and fight for her always!
We live in a globalized world and English is not the only language out there. In Europe everyone speaks more that one language, so if you dare to criticize Rick’s mom you should take a good look to yourself first. YOU were blessed with a formal education (for who knows how many years) so how come YOU speak only one language?
I love America!

Dan   July 16th, 2009 5:21 pm ET

Unfortunately, your explanation is no excuse or reason for that matter. Is your mother a US citizen? It's just plain wrong to be a citizen and not speak the language. It's also very wrong to live here that long and not speak the language. I'm married to an immigrant and she speaks perfect English as all immigrants should. We should have much stricter laws that would prevent something like this happening. I'm a liberal, but part ways when it comes to immigration policy. It should be tough and demanding. I live in Florida and I'm sick and tired of seeing two languages on everything-period.

Mike Millner   July 16th, 2009 5:21 pm ET

Rick your argument of your mother dosen't make any sense. She may not have been able to learn english then, but what about now? She has all the time to learn english now, yet she feels the need to continue to speak her own language. Typically really. Your kind needs to stop leaching off of our own society and start fixing your own..

Rgray   July 16th, 2009 5:23 pm ET

I agree with Sergio @ 3:57 pm. I'm still reading the post and can't control my tears regarding your, and others, comment about your mom! but yeah I'm like a faucet right now.

This subject was my first time ever responding to anything on TV. Although I watch CNN every waking morning and my timer turns it off whenever I fall asleep (thanks to Obama), My boyfriend says "i'm hooked on CNN". I just gotta know.

You gotta do a follow up or something Rick, do a Latino in America series like Soledad is doing or something. We all have our stories, some more succesful than others, but IF YOUR MOM/POPS NEVER TAUGHT YOU RESPECT then you're lost. If someone never taught you RESPECT, then you're lost. This is something that has been lost through the generations.

Growing up in the projects and not speaking slang, I was picked on saying I was trying to act white, and commended from those who knew better. I know how my mom felt about me, she was proud. Especially not having more than an 8th grade eduation, she stressed the importance of education and speaking well. Her teachings paid off.

I understand some may wonder "why" Mrs. Sanchez didn'tt speak english on TV. But Mrs. Sanchez obviously knew how to communicate well enough to work and raise her child Rick to become the person he is today.

RESPECT our differences, don't criticize us for them!

Who would like to volunteer to spend some time with her, by any means necessary, to help her? WHO

JOE   July 16th, 2009 5:24 pm ET

Rick, I was watching your program as usual, and I was really touch at the end when you talk about your mom, that your mom cannot speak english, but that mother got you were you are today. I shear your experience, because My Mom is from Africa and she speaks broken english, BUT, she put aside her own schooling to educate 8 of us, she used to begged around for food just for us to eat and survive, and work hard to support us, so your words of what your mom when thru to get you were you are, almost brought tears to my eyes, because it brought my own experience right in front of my face. Thank you Rick.

Louise Jackson   July 16th, 2009 5:25 pm ET

I have no problem with your mother not speaking english; I don't speak spanish... but I take issue with you saying she is not accomplished because if she raised you, she did a marvelous job. She is an accomplished mother, and that is the hardest job in the world. Don't underestimate the homemaker.

Kevin James   July 16th, 2009 5:29 pm ET

Thanks Rick for your comments on your mom. God bless her and all the moms who sacrificed for us to further ourselves.

Judith   July 16th, 2009 5:31 pm ET

Well said, Rick. With my 19th century immigrant ancestors, the languages were German and Swedish as well as Scottish. They came here as young adults escaping deplorable conditions, worked hard, raised children, and died decidedly un-wealthy, some still unable to speak much English. Some of their children were denied entry to public school until they could speak English, and that limited the schooling they could get. Some of their children fought in World War I, and all struggled to raise their own children through the Great Depression. And their children and grandchildren, to the current generation, were the beneficiaries of all those years of struggle.

All of us, (with a bow of respect to those of American Indian background) are here as descendants of comparatively recent immigrants, many of whom spoke languages other than English. And it amazes me, in this day, in a country where people like to claim they hold high ideals, how ready many are to forget where they themselves came from. Life is very hard and people often are very heroic. This nation was built by vast numbers of people who spoke languages other than English and who came from a wide variety of cultures. It's always been that way.

I suggest a whole lot more respect is in order.

Melissa Gattuso   July 16th, 2009 5:37 pm ET

Your comment about your mom was beautifully said about a beautiful person. Words we all can benefit from.

Cecelia   July 16th, 2009 5:42 pm ET

Surprise...as he did with the "old" Republicans who had the temerity to question a wise Latin on her self-ballyhooed background, Rick Sanchez has already impugned the veracity of any critics of his mother’s inability to speak English, by suggesting that they are several generations too far removed from the southern border or Ellis Island to understand about such things..

Rich Sanchez MADE his mother and his family background a CNN story.

The least he can do is to spare us any angst when the dynamics of that background are then scrutinized and questioned by ANY viewer.

ENZO FILIPPI   July 16th, 2009 5:58 pm ET

DEAR RICK,
YOUR STORY IS MY STORY OF 60 YEARS AGO.
MY PARENTS CAME FROM ITALY, I WAS BORN IN THE USA.
WE WERE PREJUDICED BECAUSE SOME OF THE ITALIAN IMMIGRANTS DID NOT SPEAK ENGLISH. I HATED THAT PREJUDICE EVEN THOUGH MY PARENTS WENT TO NIGHT SCHOOL TO LEARN ENGLISH.
I AM PROUD OF YOUR MOTHER.

Jane   July 16th, 2009 6:03 pm ET

As to the comments made by John Coughlin, I agree. I am not conservative, I am liberal. But the comments that so many Americans are now being called "something Americans" fits to a tee. I think the distinction was made because of civil rights and that's okay. But, please let's just all be "Americans" and stand up for this country in a way that we don't have the English language translated into every other language so they can be assimilated. It's to easy now for everyone to learn the basics of English, and the language of this country. Can't we all just be "Americans". I am Irish and English, but does anyone call me an Irish or English American, I think not.

Deliris   July 16th, 2009 6:06 pm ET

My mother and father came to the united states with 6 children to give us a better opportunity than the one they had, your words made me cry because just like your mother she has been here for 20 years and she doesnt speak english but the six of us Can and our children Can so it doesnt matter because when we are with her and we say Bendicion and she replies Dios te bendiga mi nina(o) those r the sweetest words we all have heard. And we Are and we Can, and we dont need to hear her say anything in english to know that she has acomplished what she and papi came here to do. Thanks Rick

Cecelia   July 16th, 2009 6:07 pm ET

After making his family background part of the story in his coverage of Judge Sotomayor's confirmation, you'd think Mr. Sanchez could show some ability to move pass his own narrative, by addressing the larger issues of cultural assimilation and community vs grieved aggregates, that is so obviously on the minds of his viewers.

Instead Mr. Sanchez impugns the perceptions of those critical of his mother's transition into the larger culture, and again launches into a patented narrative of boot-strap advancement, designed to squelch any larger considerations.

Much as he's done with the Sotomayor confirmation.

Jack Kerr   July 16th, 2009 6:07 pm ET

My grandfather also worked 10-12 hr days. (And Saturday) He went to night school to learn English. When he caught my grandmother reading a German newspaper he ripped it out of her hands and told her: We are in America and should read English!
The problem that most people have is that immigrants from Spanish speaking countries refuse to learn English. Now you can get a drivers license, vote, work etc... without knowing a word of English. My grandparents learned English because they had to and wanted to. Now if you ask someone from a Spanish speaking country to learn English you are called a bigot.

Oh, another thing. Don't hand me that racism garbage. My grandfather came here right before WW2. He didn't have an easy time. My uncle was called a Nazi at school and got in fights almost everyday. They also had a brick thrown through their window.

Would I call my grandmother a wise German woman? NO! I would call her a wise AMERICAN WOMAN.

Teri   July 16th, 2009 6:16 pm ET

Thank you for telling the story of so many of our parents and grandparents. I have to say that the fact that someone even commented on the fact that your mom doesn't speak English took me aback. I was proud to listen to your response–eloquent and restrained given a negative comment re: your dear mother.

Ted   July 16th, 2009 6:17 pm ET

Rick

You don't get it. Your mother and people like your mother are "selective citizens". No matter how you present, sugar coat or spin this you have disrespected those who sacrificed more than your family did. Folks slaved for this country, lost their culture, freedom and was denied the very dream that you now live. The least you can do is speak english; the least you can do is not glorify that breaking the law and disregarding common American tradition (the english language) should be ignored because you are a hard worker. That goes against the core values of the US when it comes to obeying the law. To glorfy that your family memeber cannot speak english is terrible. The excuse you write above is unbecoming and you know it.. I have read the above post, I am tired that folks are scared to tell the truth; in America the dominant language is ENGLISH. For far too long tax payer dollars have been going to accomodating people who cannot or will not learn english. This compromise has weakened potential US citizens and therefore weakens us as existing US citizens. We have become more tolerant of breaking the law, and settling for less. This is a cop out. You mother chose to not speak english at her OWN free will. That fact alone is telling. She did not think the US was worthy of her time. I feel is is a shame that my above statement will be seen as right winged and racist. That is not true, I am a free thinking liberal. Lastly I am black. We do have the freedom of choice. IF you choose NOT speak english that is your choice; however don't glorify not speaking english in the US as if it is a good thing. That is NOT responsible commentary.

maria   July 16th, 2009 6:18 pm ET

Thank you, Mr. Sanchez! You said what I have felt for years. As your parents, my parents are immigrants, who came to this country not for themselves, but for their children.My parents worked in the fields for 10-14 hours a day. Getting up at 3:00 and not getting home until late. My mom came home at 5:30 and she would take care of us , make dinner, and get ready for the next day of work. They got home tired, but we never knew we were poor. Working and taking care of a family did not leave much time for them to go to school.My parents were never on any public assistance, because in those times it was an embarassment to be on welfare.We would work hard during the summer along side them in the fields.We learn to appreciate hard work and everything we had. My parents never went to school, but all six of us have graduated from college,THANKS TO MY PARENTS ESTEBAN AND IGNACIA1

JB   July 16th, 2009 6:18 pm ET

Rick, it ‘s time we keep it real. I am a Black man From Birmingham Alabama, it’s still very Jim Crowish down here, all my Family members were apart of the Civil Rights Movement, I even lost family in the Movement. How can you honestly justify your mom and the other hundreds of thousands of Hispanic Americans that act as if it’s ok not to learn to speak English. That’s not OK, if this is your country then act like it, have enough respect for were you live ( that goes for all races) to learn English.

Ramon U. Gutierrez Jr.   July 16th, 2009 6:19 pm ET

Rick:
Reading your note regarding the fact that your mom doesnt speak English brought tears to my eyes and a certain amount of rage. Those who are blessed to be born in this country or are so far removed from the knowledge of coming as an immigrant to this country don't understand what our parents have gone through in order to put us through school, have a meal on our tables, and manage to have enought time to raise us to become positive hard-wroking contributing individuals of this society.

Our mothers may not speak English, and they may not be as successful as others' might be but they have worked long arduous hours and sacrificed an innumerable amount of things in order to make something out of us, and one can ever be thankful enough for what they have given us.

It is an inspiration, a refreshing one at that, to see a public figure, from a Hispanic background stand up for what he really believes and express himself like that, with such passion. I commend you for not turning your back on your roots and your background, which makes you who you are, like so many do when they become successful.

Thank you. =)

Ernest Karhu   July 16th, 2009 6:22 pm ET

I'm with you Rick, 100%. Loved your story. My grandparents, maternal and paternal, came from Finland. Maternal GPs spoke no English. All their children did well in America and shared in the American Dream. Our hometown church recruits their pastors from Finland to maintain our Finnish culture and traditions. I love my county's (USadiversity and rich traditions.

Ernie Karhu / BearMarketNews

Fred   July 16th, 2009 6:25 pm ET

Rick up until today I watched your show as a way to "escape" the seriousness of the other cable news station.But after your twisted commentary about the "3 grey headed old men" I think what you really wanted to say was the 3 grey headed old white guys and after what this judges' "wise Latino woman" remarks I guess us old white guys are fair game and will have to endure racist remarks such as hers as it doesn't seem to matter as long as we "Whites" are the subject of the racist remarks.Rick your remarks on your show today made me realize that You sir are the racist and bigot.Thanks for ruining my day I was hoping that we could all just be Americans looks like you just proved me wrong.

Danielle Brown   July 16th, 2009 6:26 pm ET

Rick,

I must say reading your explanation made me think of how fortunate my life has been. I didn't come from humble beginnings or immigrants, but you have open up my eyes more then before. Thank you for that piece.

The good thing about it is, all of the accolades you have gotten from all nationalities. Because of this peice we are starting to realize that we are all one in the same.

Amen to you and may God continue to bless you and your family.

A. Barry   July 16th, 2009 6:32 pm ET

This issue has absolutely nothing to do with racial or ethnic prejudice. And this is really not about Rick's mother either. If you immigrate to this country LEARN ENGLISH.

And people like Rick, as eloquent as he may have been, need to stop making excuses for their CHOICE (cause that's exactly what it is) not to learn the National Language.

SueEllenMoss   July 16th, 2009 6:33 pm ET

Your words concerning your mother brought almost instant tears to my eyes.

I lived in the South Pacific from the age of 14 until I was 17 at which time we returned to the south. The racism of the south was a cultural shock !! When will we ever learn to accept one another and our differences ??

Give your mother a big hug and kiss from me and tell her I thank her for giving you the best she could therefore givng you to the world !!

Yes, we're all americans but most of us are several generations removed from the language barriers of our great grandparents who arrived to a strange land with no money and gave their offspring a new beginning !!

Yes, your mother is indeed a wise Latina woman, for she gave you every thing she could so you would be successful !!

A. Barry   July 16th, 2009 6:40 pm ET

Rick can you HONESTLY look into the cameras there at CNN and tell us that your mother has not had the oppurtunity to learn English since she's come to the U.S.?

Jerald Lipsch   July 16th, 2009 6:45 pm ET

The person who complained that your mother didn't speak English in that piece was an idiot! Typically, first generation immigrants from non-English-speaking countries - including Italians, Germans, etc. - had difficulty learning English well enough to readily express complicated ideas in English; and certainly what your mother was talking about , i.e., her pride about the nomination of Sonia Sotomayor - was a fairly sophisticated subject-matter. The reality is, the second generation - the kids raised here - almost always are fluently bi-lingual, like you. That should satisfy all but the xenophobic idiots who make comments like that one! I was moved, also, by your explanation of your mother's sacrifices to enable you to become successful in the United States. Clearly, she is an awesome lady!

PAUL TERRAULT   July 16th, 2009 6:50 pm ET

I watch your show everyday!
You hit the nail on the head talking about your mom. My mom and dad took us five kids from Canada to Chicago so we could have a better chance at life. They made the sacrifice of leaving their very close knit family for us. None immigrants may not have ever thought of these sacrifices unless you so eloquently showed it to them.
Thank You!

Linda   July 16th, 2009 6:57 pm ET

Why can't we appreciate Rick and his mother without dragging GODCRAP into it? God is imaginary and superstitious and has nothing to do with anything. We need to drop the baloney when we praise and appreciate the good things in life.

Mike   July 16th, 2009 7:00 pm ET

I like Ricks excuses, keep making more excuses why your mommy doesn't have the cranial capacity to learn how to speak English .

Gene   July 16th, 2009 7:42 pm ET

Pretty interesting, Rick.
Sounds like a lot of excuses for not being willing to learn to speak English to me !
For every person who refuses to learn to speak the language, there are millions of stories like mine...( although I doubt that you will every use it, much less admit that most people who have been in this country for many years and still won't speak English..just refuse to
learn!).
My parents,along with me and 4 uncles and aunts came to this country from Hungary legally as refugees during the Communist invasion of Hungary in 1956 ( other relatives were murdered there in one way or another).
My Dad worked as a Janitor on the graveyard shift for 30 years to provide for our family.My mother cleaned other peoples homes for that many years. The other relatives all worked average paying jobs.
Guess what Rick, everyone of them made the effort and learned to speak and read and write English within a few years of arriving.
Why?? Because they wanted to assimilate into this country.
Of course they could have made excuses for not learning the Language,but they made the difficult effort all became citizens.
Of course" that's just my opinion", Rick .

Carol   July 16th, 2009 7:46 pm ET

Rick,
THANK YOU for your commentary in defense of your mom. Reading these comments I can see the continued hateful remarks of people who think they have the right to judge what is and is not a "proper" American. Everyone's experience is different. No one has the right to say "this is the way you have to be." I am hoping one day everyone will accept everyone else's differences. Of course, I am not holding my breath. Meanwhile, I want to thank you, Rick, for having the courage to express what should be a simple matter of common compassion and decency.

y.menchaca   July 16th, 2009 7:51 pm ET

Thank you as the mother of 3 grown sons, you have made many, many moms very proud, nothing, worth while is done without those that love us willing to scarfice. It has been said before but not enough, in today's times and the youth culture of today. This is the first time I watch your report, it won't be the last. Thank, you, thank you!

Lia V. Denson   July 16th, 2009 8:01 pm ET

I saw the kitchen table discussion with some "Wise Latina Women". I also saw the comments which mentioned that a number of people had criticized your mother for not speaking english. I agree with those people. My family came to this country in 1957, my parents, both 52 at the time, and six of their seven children. My parents did not speak any english. Within about four weeks of their arrival, they both had signed up for english lessons. They took the bus, one evening a week, to get to the lessons. They read english language newspapers. They watched the evening news. They listened to english language music. While they continued to also do all these things in their mother tongue, they learned enough english to be able to communicate with any english speaking American. They, and the country, were better off for it. I am sorry your mother did not enrich her life in this way.

Luisa Ardila   July 16th, 2009 8:11 pm ET

Rick, your show always makes me enjoy the news and I even laugh along with you as you make your funny comments sometimes; but I never thought I would cry watching it or listening to you. Well, I didn’t cry as I watched because I was at work… but when I got home and saw my mom- well I just hugged her as I sobbed. My mom is a single mother, she has had a permanent disability since she was 23 years old yet she brought me and my brother to this country with her own might. I’ve always taken it for granted and despised the moments when she decided to give a whole speech about how “I came to this country for you guys, not for me. I would rather live humbly back in Colombia, but I thought of your education… bla bla bla”. I often blamed her for not learning English and since my brother and I assimilated so easily I just thought she was lazy. Like most Americans say “If you’re new to this country you have to learn the language; if you love America…” But you gave me perspective. She did do it for me. Yeah, maybe she could have gone to night school, but how, when she had two college-bound children to feed? It made me feel… like crap I guess, that I had been so selfish about it. So thanks to you I was able to give her a hug and tell her that I regretted that; that I see how everything that I am today is because of her. How would I have been if she had not been selfless enough to put our education before hers? Thank you. As a journalism student I could only hope to be able to give someone the kind of perspective you just gave me on a random day, for some random reason. Keep up the good work!

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Pamela-Texas   July 16th, 2009 8:30 pm ET

For all of you who commented that their parents, grandparents, etc. learned English when they immmigrated to this country and Spanish speaking people should have to do the same, let me remind you again half of this country was Spain before it was part of the US. Many Spanish speaking people like myself, were born here and my family has been in Texas since it was part of Spain. We didn't immigrate to Texas, we lived through 3 wars (Mexican Revolution, Texas Revolution and Civil War). Oh and by the way my family faught along side Sam Houston and was paid back for their Texas loyality by having their land taken away from them. Unlike other immigrants, our mother country is either here or next door, thus making is easier to maintain our native language. That can not be said by any other immigrant to this country, because your mother country is an ocean away. Harder to keep those cultural ties.

And as far as assimulation is concerned, their is no such thing. People don't assimulate and shouldn't. That word means to replace one culture with another, thus taking away their native one. For centuries if you didn't assimulate in this country by choice you were forced to (Civil Rights didn't apply). People acculturate not assimulate. Acculturate means to add to ones existing native culture. If you eat food from other cultures other than your own you have acculturated yourself.

That's what makes this country so great we can visit the cultures from all around the world in one country, in one city. The reason so many Americans have a hyphe (Mexican, Native, African, Cuban etc.) is because for so many years of discrimination in this country we were not considered part of or included in American society, therefore we created our own American identity for ourselves. Not until racism and bigotry is completely eliminated from society and we no longer have any firsts of any kind in the top government positions in this country will everyone feel just American. We're not there yet-not even close.

Mary   July 16th, 2009 8:31 pm ET

You said you welcomed comments, so here you are! CNN should NEVER have allowed you to air such a ONE-SIDED "testament" to the "Wise Latina Women." Did you think that the rest of us would allow you to get away with this without comments! I am asking for equal time here. CNN should now have you do a segment on "Wise Italian Women, or Wise Black Women, or Wise Chinese Women, or even Wise Irish Women." You get the message, don't you? If your mother was treated badly that is YOUR FAULT, not the fault of those who responded with less than favorable comments. You are a son first, and you should never have put your mother "out there." You should have anticipated negativity. You are a reporter. You should be neutral. So, now, BE A MAN, BE A SON, and take FULL responsibility for your actions and apologize to your mother for bringing the wrath of the AMERICAN public upon her. Stop blaming others for your BLUNDER!

jill   July 16th, 2009 9:07 pm ET

Thank you for your immigrant story. There is so much ignorance in this country by prejudiced people. Never let them get to you. Your sotry was very moving.
jill

Kristine   July 16th, 2009 9:11 pm ET

Good Job!!!! Way to Go!

Keep up the good work I'm glad you said what you said and defended your family!!! That was awesome!

Donna   July 16th, 2009 9:12 pm ET

Rick,
I couldn't disagree with you more. I heard your argument, and I am sorry, but I still think YOU ARE WRONG. My parents came here around the same time and worked 10-12 hours also, but both learned to speak, read and write in English. This has nothing to do with ambition for themselves, this has to do with learning to assimilate properly in the new country in which you live. I live in Miami and I know for a fact that you do not need to speak english in order to do everything that you have to do. What you and every other person who thinks as you are doing is enabling and not empowering. You are not doing your parents a favor.

Barbara Hartog   July 16th, 2009 9:48 pm ET

"She can't because I can". You expressed your mother's situation with such love & respect.
AMAZING !!!

Barbara Hartog

Ruth   July 16th, 2009 10:03 pm ET

Rick,
I second Rgray's idea (@ 5:23 pm ) for you to do a Latino in America series.
A wonderful statement on your family.
Dios te bendiga.

Serge Morel   July 16th, 2009 10:10 pm ET

Hi Rick
Have you ever been told: TO SPEAK WHITE ???
Must have!!
I've been told that 50 years ago!!!
SPEAK WHITE is and old expression comming from the Brithish Empire!!
IF you don't speach English you are a sub-species!! You're not even an human being!!
So...THANKS.. for standing up for your mother....and in doing so for all those who are day by day trying to learn their childrens to speak and be proud of their parents language!
Speaking English might be a necessity!!! But Speaking Spanish or French is a JOY!!
From one who is living in french with only 7millions persons in north america!!!!

meezletoe   July 16th, 2009 10:27 pm ET

Hooray! :D
I'd tell my sorta similar and mostly parents and sort of my grandparents-ish story, but it's a bit more complicated to tell and I'm not a good storyteller. But thanks!

beatriz   July 16th, 2009 10:37 pm ET

Hi Rick,
I have never been more proud of you than today when you spoke about your mom. As an accomplished Latina woman who owes everything to the sacrifices of her parents, your words touched my heart. I commend you for what you stand for, and I know that your mom is so very proud of you!

douglas christy   July 16th, 2009 11:21 pm ET

You hit the nail on the head!!!! So many people forget or do not even know the struggles our partents went through to try and give us a better life. Your comments about your mother really moved me alot. I had to pick up the phone and call my own mother just to say thanks.Thank you !!! Keep up the great work you do.

DP   July 16th, 2009 11:54 pm ET

Thank you, thank you, thank you, for your response on why your mom doesn't speak English. I taught students from Mexico and El Salvador and I reminded my students everyday that they were brought to the US to become successful. Their education is very important to their parents. Many immigrants are here for that very reason, their children. Again, I thank you. I know your MOM is very proud of you just as you are of her. You are an inspiration to many.

Grady Hines   July 16th, 2009 11:58 pm ET

Thanks, Rick. The bigots and xenophobes in America need to be reminded of their small-mindedness. I've only admiration and praise for your Mom, and for you as well.

Steve Ruiz   July 17th, 2009 12:07 am ET

Hi Rick,

My name is Steve from the city of Monterey Park, Ca. I'm currently an assitant manager for a large home improvement company. I would like to take the time to commend you on your story of mom. Rick, I would like to share my thoughts with you about my mother. I can closely relate to your story and I was very moved by your sincere, genuine, heart felt story about mom. Rick, much love to you sir! Take care and I'll will continue to watch your program.

-Steve

Mary A.   July 17th, 2009 12:09 am ET

Sorry Rick, but I think you are wrong. If I moved to Mexico, I would have to learn to speak Spanish, Italy, Italian, France, French. Your Mother moved you and your family to this country for a better life and it has been good to you and her family. English is the language of this country and she should embrace it, just as she enjoys it's wonderful rewards. You have a beautiful Mother, but how limited she is. She has to deal with only those that speak Spainish and her handsome son can speak both English and Spanish and look where that has gotten him. There is nothing wrong with speaking the language of your birth place, but you should also speak the language of your adopted home. Enjoy your show very much, but this time I have to disagree with you.

Bob Mowrer   July 17th, 2009 12:09 am ET

Rick
A beautiful explaination of why your folks do not speak English. I already got that. What I don't get is how they managed to raise such an articulate, well spoken American. I hope you do a book or a story on your parents. How did the know/figure out what you needed to be a success in their new country.

Thanks to your parents for giving the USA Rich Sanchez.

Bob Mowrer

Lucy Z. Garcia   July 17th, 2009 12:47 am ET

Hi, Rick,
I hear you-your're right! lots of us in the same boat, our parents, too, were immigrants who worked hard so that their children could have an education and be successful. My parents came from Mexico in the 1920s; they met in Woodland, CA and remained there the rest of their lives. My mother stayed at home raising 9 children, and we (children) were her interpreters. My father did learn to speak English because he had to deal with the business world, but he insisted we speak only Spanish to them (parents). As a result, we (children who are first generation Americans) have been bilingual all our lives, which has been a real asset. I commend you for sharing that part of your life with us; I also thought including the Wise Latina Women was great! I thoroughly enjoy the special "twist" you put into ALL your stories – which makes for an enjoyable and interesting "news" time. Your enthusiasm is contagious! Love ya, lzg (and you're lovely to look at, too :) ) – - carinosament de una viejita, joven del corazon.

Robert   July 17th, 2009 1:23 am ET

Hi, Rick. A very powerful show. BE VERY PROUD . my Mother born in and lived in Honduras for 40 plus years , she was a true " CARACOLA" as her spanish fiends sametime called her. but she never learn spanish. and had no problem living there. Rick PLEASE STAY ON THIS HONDURAN SITUATION . GOD BLESSING.

Cecelia   July 17th, 2009 1:40 am ET

Rick Sanchez spent the whole of yesterday afternoon doing his darnest to foment ethnic antagonism against "old" Republicans (most of them not much older than Sotomayor...) who had the temerity to question the Judge about her background. A background that SHE has positioned as being a professional asset.

Similarly, "journalist" Sanchez, in an effort to bolster the notion that the court would benefit from Sotomayor's personal demographics, highlighted his own mama as being yet another latin Plato/saint.

NOW, of course, as with Sotomayor, Mr Sanchez suggests that any critics of mama are privileged sorts, so removed from the reality of their own ancestors that they are unable to focus on what they should be focusing upon– the Sanchez (and Sotomayor) narrative...

After having listened to Mr. Sanchez spend the afternoon cravenly implying the very worst about conservative interviewers of Judge Sotomayor, I feel badly for the criticism that has come to his mother (via his positioning of her), but certainly not for any criticism directed at him.

Darlene Tachick   July 17th, 2009 2:43 am ET

What a great tribute to your mother. We all need to look within ourselves and stop being so critical of others.

Sue Staggs   July 17th, 2009 3:50 am ET

You revealed more of who you are, and your outstanding character in this commentary about your Mother than you could have in one hundred hours on air as anchor. I became a fan of yours when I watched this. What a wonderful mom you have. The things you described, the sacrifices made by your mom for you to succeed, are not exclusive qualities of immigrants. My parents made similar sacrifices for my sister and I to graduate from college. Your story reminded me of my Mother and how her goal in life was for us. She wanted a better life for us, and she succeeded. I applaud your Mother and respect you for sticking up for her. Thank you for shining a light on the petty small thoughts of too many in today's world. Frankly, I never thought a melting pot was what America needs... I prefer a salad bowl with distinct flavors adding to the overall flavorful mix we need in society.

David Ogunfile   July 17th, 2009 3:51 am ET

Hey Rick,
I was watching today when u said alot about your moms sacrifice and i totally agreed and understood. My parents moved from Nigeria for many reasons but mostly to give us kids a better life and Im in a similar position because they go through daily sacrifices for the betterment of us. I just graduated highschool and im working hard to make sure that their sacrifices are not in vain. I guess i kinda feel glad that someone who was just like me was able to also struggle and achieve alot...

Louise   July 17th, 2009 7:18 am ET

Thank you so much for your comments. I liken many women to "the wind beneath the wings" of both husbands and children. And...because I think wind is stronger than the I'm a "wise" WASP female and really don't think some of these "wise" white congressmen can possibly understand the problem. I think the main problem for them is the word "better." Underneath the surface they know that women are now serious competition in many ways. They know many of us don't consider them better just because they are men, and that is frightening to them. Part of this is because our society in general (and the religious right in particular) has suggested that men should be superior... Not only is this not true, but it also puts undue pressure on men.

mertz   July 17th, 2009 7:22 am ET

hi rick. your mom sounds like a truly inspirational woman. although i am not latina nor american, my parents suffered a great deal to provide a safe life and oppertunity to live life without civil wars, and army coups, and tyranny, extreeme poverty, corruption, etc...my mother worked two jobs and my father worked 24 hours every day while we live in a 1 bedroom apartment with no where to sleep except for the floor, and not enough food, but definately more food than what we had back home. my siblings and i never had the money to do anything, never had the proper clothes. we always went to the slavation army to get clothes. we would always depend on luck and hardwork to get by.

anyways here's something that happened yesterday that is very much anger inducing. pat buchanen on the rachel maddow show regarding sotomayor confirmation and obama's naacp speech. "white people built america." twitter is blazing with this story and so is the huffo post.

Cathy   July 17th, 2009 8:28 am ET

Rick, you have made us Hispanics proud! Congratulations on having such an amazing family who sacrificed so much in order for you to become who you are. Ignorance and envy are horrible traits and those who attack you are fueld by them. Thank you, on behalf of my parents who have a similar story, for standing up to your attackers!

Brian   July 17th, 2009 8:33 am ET

When I went over to Germany to live for 8 months, I made the effort to learn some German before I went. And then while there made the effort to learn as much German as I could, ultimately becoming reasonably fluent. I can now get by almost exclusively in German.

My experience there would have been nowhere near as rewarding had I not done that. And I can tell you it was most appreciated by the locals. It was not easy, and it involved a lot of frustration on my part and patience on the part of those who suffered my bad German. Sometimes they would give up and just switch to English.

Knowing what is involved in learning another language, I appreciate the difficulty. But I don't think that is an excuse for not attempting to learn the primary language of the country where one chooses to live.

I also don't think there is any excuse for Americans to be so monolingual. All it takes is a little effort and some persistence to learn another language, and rewards are worth the trouble.

Fay Ann Lee   July 17th, 2009 9:00 am ET

I'm Asian American and when I heard your speech about your mom, tears began to roll down my eyes. Thank you for speaking for so many immigrants whose parents have sacrificed everything so that we can go for the American Dream. Your mom needs no defense but thank you for putting it out there so that all Americans may begin to understand. I also believe Sonia Sotomayor is incredibly impressive, intelligent, articulate and having her on the Supreme Court will bring a truly unbiased view in the interpretation of the law. Talk about breaking barriers! Not only Hispanics should be proud, but all women/men should strive to be the best that they can be. Sotomayor certainly proves that anything can happen when you do your best in life. No more excuses!

Fay Ann Lee   July 17th, 2009 9:01 am ET

I'm Asian American and when I heard your speech about your mom, tears began to roll down my eyes. Thank you for speaking for so many immigrants whose parents have sacrificed everything so that we can go for the American Dream. Your mom needs no defense but thank you for putting it out there so that all Americans may begin to understand. I also believe Sonia Sotomayor is incredibly impressive, intelligent, articulate and having her on the Supreme Court will bring a truly unbiased view in the interpretation of the law. Talk about breaking barriers! Not only Latinas should be proud, but all women/men should strive to be the best that they can be. Sotomayor certainly proves that anything can happen when you do your best in life. No more excuses!

Gusner Garcia   July 17th, 2009 9:08 am ET

Unfortunately, there are many ignorant people out there. They talk about things without know what struggles our parents went through to get us where weare today. My mother's English "is not very good looking" like Celia Cruz used to say. So like you said Rick, that diest matter because I speak English and I'm successful. Twenty-nine years my mother decided to put her family on a shrimp boat during the Mariel Boatlift and traveled 90 miles to Key West. My mother also worked many long nights sewing articles of clothing for pennies a piece. So before anyone talks about anyother person get to know their story and then you can talk.

Luisa Alonso Rice a Wise Latina Woman   July 17th, 2009 9:42 am ET

I wrote this comment in Spanish (for Rick's mom to read) and English but it wasn't approved. Let's see if my Enlgish Only version makes it:

Rick Sanchez, I applaud you and salute you for defending your mother the way you did in public. YOU are the PRODUCT of what a GREAT WISE LATINA WOMAN can accomplish in a foreign country when confronted with a different culture and a language barrier. As a mother myself, I have always said that my kids are my credentials. As far as I am concerned, YOUR MOM is a very accomplished LATINA WOMAN!! QUE VIVA LA RAZA!!! SI SEÑOR!!!

LATINO is a person who speaks a language that comes from Latin such as French, Italian, Spanish, Portuguese,and Romanian.
HISPANIC is a person who speaks Spanish only. Hispania was the name given by the Romans to the Iberian Peninsula.
:-)

bruce friedman   July 17th, 2009 9:56 am ET

I appreciate you defending your mother however your reason for her not learning English is not accpeted. The real reason she did not learn English is because she did not have to. She was, and is, able to function within a Spanish speaking community and does not have to learn English. My grandparents were immigrants, a tailor and shoemaker who struggled financially and against religions discrimination to give their children a better life here in the U.S. They worked 12 hours days 6 – 7 days a week. They all managed to learn to speak English. They only spoke to my parents and me in English and all their friends, who had foreign accents, spoke English. They had to learn English to communicate outside of their own Gernam or Russion speaking community.

Barb   July 17th, 2009 10:21 am ET

Rick, there is nothing like a bond between a son and his mothers and nothing like the things we do without to make our childrens life stonger and better then we had it, but I have to say that I also came from parents that immigrated from Hungry, doing and giving us the life as your parents did,however they took the time to learn the American language, not only to make their life a little easier here but for us. They were proud of who they were, their culture and praticed it daily in our home but coming to America for a better life they also needed for us as well for them to learn and live the best they can the culture/language to be the best Anerican they can without leaving part of who they are behind. I am not posting to bash, because I have great respect for you, your parents for wanting more for the family , just not understanding to the reason, my parents took the time when we were in our beds, took them sometime, but the desire to be an American was stronger enough, not to give up. I bless your parents for wanting and making a better life for the family...It shows in you.

charles r young   July 17th, 2009 10:25 am ET

Three cheers for both you and your Mother. She reminds me of my Grandmother, who arrived here from Poland shortly before WW 1. They both worked hard, put family first, and were not concerned about their own welfare. for those who complain your Mother did not learn English, how many of them speak a foreign language? This is an American weakspot.

Your Mother and my Grandmother did not have a common language, but they would have understood each other perfectly. their lanquage was love.

Charlie Young

Jah   July 17th, 2009 10:38 am ET

Greetings from Thailand

Your mother is a great woman.. a very smart one indeed.. I was just talking about the never ending vicious cycle. People make their kids work to help support the family instead of going to school, and their kids do the same to the next generation and so on.. Bravo to your mom for ending the cycle. She's a heroine :) Thumbs down to all the criticism.

Off topic, I do not understand why some people seem to think that America belongs to them.. They seem to have forgotten that they beached the now-USA hundred of years ago as visitors/invaders. English was a foreign language to the natives. I always keep an open mind and remain humble because different people and cultures have so many things to offer and there's so much I can learn from them.

Eva Kaa   July 17th, 2009 10:51 am ET

My father was an immigrant, worked hard and learned English, like all other immigrant groups except the Cubans in Miami. Why don't you pay and send your mother to school to learn English – it is never too late to show respect to THIS country.

Georgia   July 17th, 2009 11:20 am ET

Rick, Hooray for your Mom and Dad! Living in California I think the main irritation is that So many of the Hispanic immigrants in this area are not working to be a part of this society.
You came, they worked hard you excelled, isn't that the American Dream? Good job Mr. and Mrs. Sanchez

Laura Thompson   July 17th, 2009 11:54 am ET

A little history, we live in the America's.... comprising of two continents North and South America. The USA population is mostly from European ancestry. And yes Spain had a large part to do with the evolution of this country. We can't hide this fact... we need to accept it and move on. Our roots and you might have to go deep extend from other countries or you're an American Indian. So, I would tell you to think twice about the criticism you're dishing out against others. We're all in this together .........The America's .......

Mary Sue Northcutt   July 17th, 2009 12:03 pm ET

Greetings Rick,

I am not a regular viewer and had, in fact, formed a negative impression of you during the election. I happened to catch a segment in which you said something glib, with which I disagreed, then used the expression "curiouser and curiouser" and attributed it to Yogi Berra, rather than Alice in Wonderland.

My image of you changed completely yesterday, when my husband and I happened to catch part of your show and heard your defense of your mother's speaking Spanish. I hope she is proud of you; it is justfied. Your family has achieved more in one generation than many of us have in 10. I hope your mother continues to speak Spanish, or pig Latin if she so chooses. I also hope she, and you, retain other aspects of your culture, rather than letting the vibrancy be assimiliated out of you.

I am sorry for the negative comments you've drawn. In my opinion, they derive from a generalized backlash against hispanics and immigrants. I should know, as I live in Southern California and can not believe how attitutdes have changed since we moved here 23 years ago. I'm half convinced this is a right wing plot to blame poor hispanics for all of California's problems, most of which were created by rich white men; a greedy, short-sighted citizenry governing by plebiscite; a smarty-pants, ineffectual governor; and a politicized and parlyzed legislature. God, yes, bring on more wise Latina women. Given their ability to survive in this mess, they've got to have more common sense than the rest of us put together.

All the best to you. We will try to catch your show more often.

Mo   July 17th, 2009 12:21 pm ET

With Obama's health care program, will all the federal employees including the congress switch over to the new program? if not why not? why have two federal health care programs one for federal workers and one for everybody else.

Roland Conde   July 17th, 2009 12:36 pm ET

You've provided this cuban-american with a glimpse into your family's american experience. I am a member of the Peter Pan Brigade, and still trying to write my own –and my family's– story.
I was proud and privileged to experience your "wise cubanas' " commentary on Sotomayor, but especially proud of your mamy and of your revelation of her ( and your father's) wise and loving sacrifice. Que Dios te los bendiga y los tengas por mucho tiempo.
Please continue to "represent". You are truly a most articulate and exemplary role model for this generation of latino youth.
Respectfully,
Roland Conde

A. V. Perez   July 17th, 2009 12:39 pm ET

First of all Rick, I must tell you I was very moved by your comments on your mother. I'm second generation American, but I still saw some similarities in our lives. Second, based on the three days of Sonia Sotomayor hearings, I can see that racism and bigotry are alive and well in the GOP Senate and other individuals who have nothing else to attack her on except the same old comment she made and even then the whole remark is not quoted completely leaving out the part that shows she is simply expressing a "hope." And they leave out the word "may," changing that idea into a philosophy she does not subscribes to. And it would have been useless for her to point out these discripencies to them because those Senators are blinded by their own prejudices. Judge Sotomayor did not try to correct them because she is such a dignified person with the highest personal integrity. I feel these supercilious hypoccrites showed the world how cruel they can be by brow beating the potential member of the highest court until they made her apologize to the country and by "beating a dead horse" (the wise Latino phrase) over and over again. Didn't they realize they were making fools out of themselves and showing the world their true colors...despicalble bigots?

james Cooper   July 17th, 2009 12:44 pm ET

There are other people in your same situation that don't have parents who do not speak english. This is America, the language is English, not Cuban, Italian, African, Mexican, Chinese, Russian,etc.
You seem to ignore the saying Wise Latina Women is referring to a race. Justice O'Conner did not say white, black, yellow or brown old men or old woman but old men or old women. Sotomoyer wants to let everyone know that she is Latina. All the Senators want us to know that she is Latina. One's race is not supposed to be the entry qualification. As long as you are not white ,your race should be a quarentee of your success, I quess. I quess we should refer to you as that CNN Cuban-American commentator? Is that how you got your job. Did you lobby the network that they needed a Latin man commentator?
PS- You must be the only entertainer that everyone agrees with. Am I the first one who watched you that disagrees with you? You sure didn't show us any.

Barbara Andrews   July 17th, 2009 12:50 pm ET

I'm so sorry that you were criticized for featuring your mother speaking Spanish. And I'm so glad that you spoke up for her. Too many Americans think our country should continue to be monolingual even though the current situation is hurting us economically and diplomatically in the world today. If we had more people who bothered to learn a language beyond the high school verb conjugations, we would not feel so isolated and defensive when confronted with non-English speakers.

You are an excellent role model for Hispanic youths. It is heartbreaking to see so many of my Hispanic students doing everything they can to deny their heritage, as if it were shameful to be able to speak two languages or to have an ethnic last name. Hopefully things will start to change soon, especially with a Hispanic Supreme Court justice and Hispanics in prominent places. There is just no room for such bigotry in this day and age.

Laura Thompson   July 17th, 2009 1:12 pm ET

For those people making their home and life in the USA and can not pick up the English language FOR WHAT EVER REASON... and as long as they pay tax's and obey the law I don't see a problem folks!!!! We're a nation of people from all over this planet so try and be more understandng of this issue!

Cassandra Martinez   July 17th, 2009 2:56 pm ET

Rick,do not let the ignorance of a few bother you. I would like to see those that criticized your mom when on vacation or living abroad speaking another language other than English. My experience has been that they always expect to be understood in their language and be spoken to in the same. Other than a few words,they use English . That happens here in P.R. and all over the world.

Margaret Tatum   July 17th, 2009 3:08 pm ET

Dear Mr. Sanchez

There are so many positive responses to your comment about your Mother that this is probably redundant. However, I will post it.
I seldom watch CNN, usually I am tuned to the c-span stations, Free Speech or Link TV. However, when I turned to CNN to see a little current news and saw your show, I decided I will watch you when I can.
People in this country ought to start realizing we live in a multi-cultural society. Why would products produced here have labels and instructions in a number of languages? I learnt to speak El Castellano for a number of reasons. It is a beautiful language, much more precise than English. I have also taught ESL classes. When I can afford to make a trip outside this country, I go to places such as Ecuador and Peru. I talk to people on buses, in restaurant etc. and I read the daily newspapers. In this way I can find out what is really going on in that particular country. I also know French and wish I had time to learn more languages. However, as a person of the "tercera edad" foreign languages become more difficult for me. Thanks again for the very nice and significant piece of reporting.

Maggie Tatum

Annie   July 17th, 2009 3:15 pm ET

Beautiful Mama.Thanks for letting us meet her!

M. Ramos   July 17th, 2009 3:16 pm ET

Rick – you sound like a good son. How nice to hear your appreciation and acknowledgment of your parents sacrifice.

Norma Rodriguez   July 17th, 2009 3:31 pm ET

Mr. Sanchez,
You made me cry. Your mom must be awfully proud. I too am a decendent from immigrants from Europe. I have had to defend my heritage by telling bigots that my anscesters came from across the ocean just like theirs. Mine just happened to land further South perhaps it was too cold and some came w/the French to settle in Mexico. Wherever our forefathers came f rom, they all had to cross the ocean. The word Latina is very offensive to me. It does not make any sense & I would greatly appreciate your research on it and the word Hispanic. My Spanish professor said it was wrong and slang.
I also resented the berating of Ms. Sotomayor for her "Latina" comment" I can relate to her because I suffered great discrimination from it and badgered by the likes of the cotton-head Republicans on the committee trying to discredit her. I love your program, I watch it everyday, now that I am unemployed.
English is a very hard language to learn, Spanish not so much. Most understand and read English but are embarrassed to speak it.

Norma Rodriguez

Laurette Barondess   July 17th, 2009 3:33 pm ET

Beautiful answer. So many forget the sacrifices their parents make.

abby0802   July 17th, 2009 3:34 pm ET

Rick, God bless your mother for all the sacrifices she made for you.

That is why many people come to America - to give of themselves so their children can have better lives than they.

My grandparents were all emigres. One of my grandmother's never really learned English well because she worked very, very long hours along side her husband starting with a grocery push-cart and then later a small mom-and-pop grocery. During the Great Depression these grateful immigrants fed countless "hobos" who came to their store - giving them a sandwich and milk. They ran a "tab" for those who could not always afford to pay for groceries. Not one person ever criticized or seemed to mind that her English was poor.

It is sad that people can be so mean spirited.

Linda   July 17th, 2009 3:37 pm ET

(((((((((((((((((((( smooch )))))))))))))))

Shirley   July 17th, 2009 3:44 pm ET

Yesterday I watched and heard your commentary on your Mom.
And while I am a Mother, and a Grandmother, I didn't merely listen to your words defined just by either of these roles.
I know only one language, English. My daughter speaks English and Spanish. Her daughter( my grand-daughter now 7 years old) is learning English, Spanish and French. We're hoping that as she grows she opens herself to even more languages. How amazing it is to see this child communicate with other children from various cultures. As i listened to your words, I thought of your Mom and the pride she feels in you. This was never an issue of your Mom not learning to speak a language. This was an issue of ignorance. Not your Mom's, but the very person who would assume to even make a remark about her. Your Mom speaks a universal language that goes beyond any limitations of a language. Hers is a language of love. A Mother's love. I don't know your Mom, not that it matters. But I can tell you that I think your Mom is a blessing in any language.

Bob Marshall   July 17th, 2009 3:51 pm ET

Rick, I tend to disagree with you more than agree and don't always watch you but... today I watch you with the interview with a former ambassador to Venezuela talking about Zalaya removal in Honduras.

I am so pleased that you were open to understanding the difference between the Honduran constitution and ours! I agree that Zalaya was legally removed from office and that he now keeps threatening to return only to keep himself in the news.

I also saw your article about you mother not being able to speak english. Initially, I was one who always complained about latinos who come to our country and don't learn our language.

Well, I have changed my viewpoint! I've been living in Honduras now for nearly 9 years and still struggle with my spanish. I do try but I now realize that learning a foreign language is not easy for everyone!

Best regards and I promise that after today I will watch you more. I just wished you were a bit more conservative but living in a democratic country like ours give each of us that right to agree to not agree.

Regards, Bob Marshall

graceonline   July 17th, 2009 3:53 pm ET

Rick, thank you so much for this post. I have been trying to explain this to certain family members and business associates for decades. You nailed it. Many blessings to you and your mom.

Stephen   July 17th, 2009 3:55 pm ET

Rick, why is it that all the pundits who are complaining about the high cost of President Obama's Health Plan fail to realize that he has been saying all along that the whole purpose of the overall plan is to 'REDUCE' health costs in the LONG RUN? All they focus on is the 'short term'. Leaving things as they are will cost much more over the long term.

Patricia Soraire   July 17th, 2009 4:20 pm ET

Thank you, Rick! You made me cry when you said, "My mom can’t express herself in English, because I can." I lost it, I was in tears. I'm a former teacher and a mother of three. My parents and I immigrated to the United States when I was a little girl. They struggled so that I could get a piece of the American pie. Thank you for expressing my feelings on national television!

LEROY EGENBERGER   July 17th, 2009 4:29 pm ET

Yes, your interview with your mother and the other Latinas was excellent.

Real people with real life stories are always behind headlines. Listening to them is very important. Thanks!

Eileen Kugler   July 17th, 2009 4:45 pm ET

Wonderful, wonderful comment about your Mom. I've posted on my Facebook page. In addition to her many gifts to you, she gave you the gift of being bi-lingual. My mother did not speak English when she started school, but she never taught me her native Yiddish, because that generation considered to be backwards. Thank your mother for raising you to appreciate your culture, your native language, as well as your new home.

Eileen Kugler

george   July 17th, 2009 5:40 pm ET

Rick,
what most of the idiots giving your mom a hard time fail to realize is that the USA does not have an official national language. They should be just as mad at themselves for not knowing spanish french or any other language for that matter.

As for health care, our tabacco smoking president is gonna spend a TON of money taking care of our chain smoking fast food eating fat nation when all that really needs to happen is people need to exercise and eat better. I still like that obama is pushing health care though because it is RIDICULOUS how many people in america are going broke because of medical EMERGENCYS. The government cannot make the country healthy but it can and SHOULD patch us up in emergencys and not charge us.

Jackie Carnahan   July 17th, 2009 6:03 pm ET

I totally understand this 100%. I am Cuban and my parents came to Hialeah for the same reasons your parents left Cuba..for me. My mom does not know English either. I have translated for her all my life. When she and my dad come to visit me in Georgia, she doesn't understand either. This does not take away from who they are, what they have done, and NOT done, for their childrens benefit. They left it all behind and... they would do it again. Priceless.Only people in this situation truely can understand what this is like. We are the lucky ones because of them.

By the way, thanks for having us over to Savannah's Communion. It was a pleasure meeting your parents and being able to speak my native language.

Mario   July 17th, 2009 6:10 pm ET

WELL SAID. PERIOD.

Lewis Storey   July 17th, 2009 6:30 pm ET

I teach high school in Arizona, and have many immigrant students. I will share your inspirational blog with my classes, and more importantly, with my colleagues.

Barb   July 17th, 2009 7:07 pm ET

As I was reading the emails I had gotten from wanting to follow this conversation, I feel a lot of segregation going on, which was the point of mom not speaking english. I understand our nation was built on immigration, as I said too many post ago, that my parents came from Hungry, did not know one word of the English lang. also working hard long days to give the family a better life and be a part free nation, but self taught themselves while we were sleeping, taking years to do this but they were proud not only of their homeland but being part of America. I think that most of our thinking is that even to this day, we can go into a Pizza shop, Chinese restraurant and hope you don't want something special because they do not understand or speak English. Again, my parents still speak their native lang. when other family members are around, you are right they feel comfortable but they can go outside and be part of the American world and speak english. Be proud of where you came from, carry those values but also when you become a citizen of the US, my thoughts were you had to know English and other facts, sad to think too many of done enough to raise their hand and didn't take it further..Again, Rick this isn't Bashing but do feel that your response left more questions then answers.

mertz   July 17th, 2009 7:21 pm ET

i confess to not reading the comments, or not seeing the show, but i did read what you wrote before i posted my last comment, and i didn't know people were so offended/(i don't knowhow to describe this so i'm just going to say) were picking on the fact that you maman habla espanol. what's the big deal. my dad has lived abroad for more than thrity years and although he can speak several languages, he also knows and speaks our native language to our family and friends. my mother has lived abroad 20 years like we have (but we, my brothers and i were babies and yet we grew up learning our native language, and english because english is actually our primary language back home...colonialism by the brits) and although she knows how to speak english, and speaks it well enough to get by, even with an accent that isn't really recognizable, she feels INTIMIDATED, because she thinks, but also knows and has experienced that people laugh at her because she is not like them. she feels like because she wasn't born here and didn't have the chance to grow up here like her kids, that even her attempt to speak english is embarrassing for the people who have to hear her speak. the fact of the matter is that she is scared to speak english, even though she can actually speak it quite well, even if it is hesitant, and one thing i regret is not helping her feel more comfortable with herself to speak the language. although english is the primary language of my country, because it is used by government, society, schools, we speak our native language, most people from my country (and we have tonnes of different dialects that are much harder to speak or learn and beautiful than the english language), but the older people don't feel comfortable, living abroad, and speaking english. my mom feels like she is always being judged or something. meh. us young people, i don't think we care about any of that. we will speak our broken, immigrant mix of english, piggy, patwa, etc...until we master the language, the accent, the dipthone, until we get comments like what i usually get, "hey you don't look like you're from here but you speak english so well i can't tell where you're from." and because i wasn't born here, even though i was young when i came, i can't pretend to have been born in a place i wasn't. it's funny whenever i fill forms (like i was doing for school applications recently) and there's a standard question asking you about your background, and if english is your first langauge or if you speak another language/what is your native tongue, then it asks if you have ever taken esl, and i always laugh when i fill those forms out because people don't know anything about my country. they don't know that we were colonized by the british, while other close by countries were colonized by the french or the dutch, the portugese, or spanish (and because we are all so close, neighbouring countries we end up picking up on all these different languages), and that although the brits decreed that my native language was no longer the primary language, and english is the sole primary language, people don't know that i come from an english speaking country (although admittedly we do speak our native language first) because i am not caucasian. the whole experience is hilarious yet unseemly as well, so i just try to go around and not pass on that judgement onto others. i always fill out the forms and say i have two first languages, and that's the truth. english is not my native language, it has never been, even if i, and many others from my country have been forced because of colonialism/slavery to recognise that english be our sole language, and the truth is that it isn't. so i am glad you told your story about your maman rick. it's good for people to know this and for people like me and otheres commenting here to also share their stories. thanks for furthering the dialogue and providing the forum.

Paulette   July 17th, 2009 8:01 pm ET

I have read many of the comments regarding this topic and found many of them interesting. Interesting, I say, because one lady posted that Texas once belonged to Spain. She is correct but what she did not say is that when Santa Anna was defeated at San Jacinto he lost that right. Throughout history when one country or nation waged war on another, whoever won actually won that country, thus Texas is not still a part of Mexico. The difference in what was actually done to the Indians is not the same. That was totally wrong and really the whole country really belongs to them. They were no match for the white settlers but Santa Anna had the same military skills. He lost, get over it, the border did not cross you, it was lost in war.

Paulette   July 17th, 2009 8:16 pm ET

To add to my last post. One lady said that people should not assimilate. I agree that they should not loose their heritage and should celebrate it, but if I lived in France you bet that I would learn French. One of my very good friends is one of those 'wise Latina women' and she and I have these conversations all the time. She says that this is like the Civil Rights Movement in the '60's'. I remind her that we (Blacks) did not go to Mexico, Canada or any other country and demand that they give us citizenship or anything else, we stayed right here where we had been for the last 400 years and fought for the rights that were ours as US citizen. We get along well because being professional women we both understand the problems that all people of color face but she can never answer me when I ask her how people can be so vocal and demanding here but are afraid to speak out in there native countries. She is from Mexico and we have been friends for years but I cannot understand the push here but not there. BTW, we agree on just about everything else. Rick your mother would be a great role model for many other than Hispanic youngsters. We all need to help others not just our own ethnic group. I helped my friend years ago to learn English and in turn I learned Spanish. See what I mean.

Lydia   July 17th, 2009 10:33 pm ET

Your commentary is so "UNACCEPTABLE" as to why your mother does not speak the language of this land..........if you are so educated, you certainly should have encouraged her to do so..........my grandparents were in the same situation.........only difference is they left their homeland and came here wanting to be "AMERICANS".....and never looked back.........I live in So. Fl. so I am well-aware of people like your mother...........they live in a ghetto and never venture out.......if they do they expect to be accommodated by people speaking to them in their native tongue...............I assume she is an American citizen.......that makes it all the more unbelievable!!!!!!!!

Roberto A. Leite   July 17th, 2009 11:08 pm ET

Rick,

wow... your response about your mother and explaining why she did not had the opportunity to learn english... it was very intelligent, emotional and proper... Congratulations....

karla   July 17th, 2009 11:38 pm ET

Well said and thank you for sharing your personal story!.
I could relate with the hard effort and self-sacrifice that my Peruvian parents had to deal to provide me and my brother with the best education they could.

ZINNIA ANDARA   July 18th, 2009 1:39 am ET

Dear Mr. Sanchez....

I just want you to know that I am so proud of your statement on CNN about your mother. I am an 48 year old "Wise Latina woman" and my mother did the exact thing that your mother did. My mother is from Honduras and came to the U.S. 50 years. I was born in Honduras but came to the states at 10 months old and grew up New Orleans. I presently live in Gulfport, Mississippi with my husband, Alonso....21 year old son Alonso, III and 17 year daugther, Alexandria. Thank you so much for sharing your heart about your heritage and how proud you are of your mother. So what if she can't speak English....she did a wonderful job raising you and I am so proud of your accomplishments in the media world.

Proud of you....please give your mother un abrazo y beso!!

Zinnia Andara – Gulfport, Mississippi

Holly B.   July 18th, 2009 5:59 am ET

Your comments about your mom are truly on-beam. Let me tell one thing you didn't mention – that the older you get, the harder it is to learn new languages.

My situation is the reverse of your mom's. I've lived, disabled and retired, in Mexico for the past 15 years. I love living here, but try as I may, I can't master fluency "en espanol."

Not that I'm dumb. On the contrary, in high school, I took German (some in my family spoke it) and it's harder than Spanish, yet I learned it easily. I have a natural facility for new languages.

Except after growing old. Age itself can be a huge obstacle to learning a new language, and it frustrates me every single day. It isn't that I haven't learned a lot. Learning the words still comes easily to me. I know googobs of words, but words alone are NOT language. For me, Spanish is particularly hard to master. For one thing, I don't know how to remember the sexes of inanimate objects, or comprehend the existence of TWO forms of the verb "to be." In addition, Spanish is an entirely different WAY of expressing thoughts. It's more than words, more than syntax and grammar, which I admit I have trouble with as it is. The way a thought is expressed is entirely valid, but difficult for Americans to grasp, and only adds to the prejudices. Not to mention my frustration at my own inability to use it properly.

I speak a kind of "pidgin" Spanish, using my large vocabulary of Spanish words, and "plugging them" into English-type sentences. I have no trouble being understood. The problem I have is understanding THEM. They speak it correctly, you see! My accent is extremely good, and they know I'm utterly unprejudiced, and genuinely into learning their language and using it with them, so they're kindly and sympathetic with my pathetic form of their language. But it bothers me to no end to be so limited in understanding what people say to me. The only one who suffers from this inadequacy of mine is – ME.

And it isn't that I don't use Spanish every day; on the contrary, I go for weeks at a time without talking to a single person who understands English. My problem is much more difficult than merely a lack of use.

And I'm a person who once had a gift for language. How much harder for people whose own gifts lie elsewhere? Your mom's greatest talent – and gift – was her determination to make her children successful in life, and what she sacrificed to make it happen. Good moms like that are kinda hard to come by these days.

How about asking your mom to set up a school to teach other Americans what it takes to be a devoted parent. You're a lucky man, Rick. As for me, I WISH I'd studied Spanish in high school, too!

Catalina Bunn   July 18th, 2009 6:04 am ET

THANKS FOR SHARING YOUR BEAUTIFUL MAMA WITH US!
and more so for sharing your pride, you made me remember all the sacrifices and efforts my mom made for me, I no longer have her, I wish I would have had an opportunity to publicly thank her and show her how proud I am. In today's society not all moms postpone their own interests and sacrifice like that, For me your recognition was the high point of the note, it shows the good values you were raised with

Holly B.   July 18th, 2009 7:33 am ET

There are bigots here who claim that Spanish-speaking immigrants refuse to learn English and make life better for themselves by living in barrios, where most people speak Spanish, so they won't have to learn English.

This is flat stupid, just for starters. It is only natural for people to want there to be other people around who speak their native tongue. I'm one of them. I often feel my brain is frying from trying to speak Spanish all the time. It's a relief to be able to talk in English to someone after a while. But I don't diss people for their language, their culture or anything else. I understand the temptations of a cultural and language community matching your own background, but I also understand its limitations. I preferred to do without them.

But I'd like to remind those bigots that, here in Mexico where I've been for 15 years, a huge percentage of Americans choose to live in English-speaking "little Americas," and care little about actually learning Spanish, the NATIONAL language of Mexico. I don't see Mexicans grousing or holding bigotries against them for it, though. Mexicans are a far more tolerant people than we are. I've lived in both. That gives me the experience to know. It's true that many Mexicanos deeply hate Americans (not that we haven't given them some reason to feel strong distaste for us), but they are not the majority. Not even close. I've encountered a generosity of spirit here that I'd never bumped into back home. This is a wonderful country with many wonderful people. There are some finer points of basic human decency that have been dwindling alarmingly in the States for years. But only WE can fix it.

We Americans only claim to honor motherhood; in reality it is a very low-status position. In Latin countries, mothers are revered. They often serenade any mom at the drop of a hat, with a song honoring mothers, known to – and dear to the heart of – every Mexicano. They've even serenaded ME. We don't take motherhood nearly as seriously, and honor it FAR less. That could be part of why we've lost so much compassion and embraced so much crassness and coldness. We have huge numbers of "mothers" who abuse their own offspring. It happens anywhere, but not nearly to the degree it does in the States. I've yet to hear of a Mexican mother putting her infant in the dryer, or a microwave, or beating the kid to death so a new lover will be pleased. We get top ranking for the prevalence of maternal malevolence.

There are American "barrios" right here in Mexico, people who think if you don't speak English, you're not a full human being. I've talked to enough of them to know. I'm white, but preferred to live in a normal Mexican community. These have some expats, but mostly Mexicans, and I've had no problem whatever. And I've enjoyed more good neighbors here than I EVER had back home. I wish it weren't so.

When Mexicans see that you really WANT to speak their language, suddenly some of them reveal that they speak English. They won't reveal it to the American bigots, though. I don't blame them. They know the American attitudes about English very well indeed. It's been a hard struggle for me to learn Spanish – and I'll probably never speak it fluently, so I sympathize with Latinos' difficulties with English. I have been treated very well here, in spite of my language limitations.

When an American approached me one day and did his cutesy little song and dance (to the tune of "Hooray for Hollywood," only his lyrics were "Hooray for Poverty") the depth of callousness raging throughout our culture crashed in on me, hard. He was obviously accustomed to other Americans finding it entertaining, and was shocked when I verbally peeled his skin.

I now love two countries, although, warts and all, my homeland is my greater love. It doesn't keep me from wanting to see those warts removed. Bigotry and hate have NO PLACE IN ANY DEMOCRACY. I hope I made that clear?

My grandparents were immigrants from Germany. They saw the writing on the wall about the uprising of fascism and got OUT. They learned only a little English; enough to get by is all, but their kids were raised bilingual. My granddad had finished study to be a lawyer; he ended up having to do carpentry in the States, but was never sorry he came here. All immigrants from non-English countries have it mighty rough, and learning English is a horrific job; it's one of the hardest languages to master.

I don't blame anyone who has a problem with learning English. I don't have the posture to be judgmental of them – and NEITHER DO ANY OF YOU.

Assimilation does NOT have to mean giving up your own culture. For 9 years I worked on my empowerment plan with the Huichol people (which resulted in their own nonprofit organization) – I tried to help them understand that they can be every bit as Huichol as they want to be, while also being fully a part of the enveloping Mexican culture. It isn't an either/or proposition. Those who are best assimilated are those who can take the best from BOTH cultures and make them their own. It's called being "cosmopolitan," and anyone is enriched by this. Exposure to the Mexican culture has enriched me, too.

Cultural roots ARE important, but so is a new culture one moves to, or lives within. Both deserve respect and consideration, because both have value.

Patty   July 18th, 2009 10:03 am ET

Your mother sounds like a beautiful person but I think you have both taken the way of the cop out. My husband and I served in the military and I was alone with two small children in a strange countryy where I did not know the language so I LEARNED THE LANGUAGE myself. I had to work and did not have the money for classes so I bought a book and learned it myself. As a hospital emergency department technician I see first hand the negative impact of people who CHOOSE not to learn the language and the burden of cost it puts on EVERYONE ELSE. The costs are astronomical when translators have to be paged to come to the hospital and time is taken away from sick people to have to do the work for those who dont want to take responsibiility for themselves. Some decisions are not just about YOU but about how it effects EVERYONE!!!

Terri   July 18th, 2009 10:40 am ET

I am always amazed at how fast minorities come rushing forward to mourn about their tragic lives in the big bad US...let's examine how tragic you have it...you get to show up here illegally (and legally ) and take the jobs from natural citizens, then you don't bother to pay taxes, you drive up the cost of living for everyone else and drain the resources that Americans have worked and paid into all their lives, you get to move to the front of the line based ONLY on your skin color and not your skills or work and then you expect us to throw a party and celebrate your presence..Are you surprised that Americans resent you. You expect a FREE ride and don't even have enough respect for this country and the people who are paying your bills to learn the language. Sotomayor is a prime example of how other people get screwed to accomitdate "minorities" who spend more time blaming "cultural bias" and crying discrimination than the time it takes to learn a language or study for SAT's. Sotomayor has NOTHING to be proud of!!! She didn't meet admission test requirements at Princeton University and Yale Law School because of "cultural bias" in the testing but she was accepted at those schools anyway because of AFFIRMATIVE ACTION!!! She did not EARN anything...she took the hand out at the expense of American Citizens. She should be ashamed. So what does the impoverished white person do to get into Yale who doesn't have affirmative action to run to? Yeah, you have it soooo tragic and you are so persecuted...

India-Seattle   July 18th, 2009 10:56 am ET

Forgive me if I don't cry a river for your poor mother. I have no respect for those who make excuses for why they don't do something....let me quess... the language books were all too "culturally biased".

Nancy-Seattle   July 18th, 2009 10:59 am ET

By the way....why did you post mostly "minority" comments? I think we all know....

Mary Ann Lefker   July 18th, 2009 11:07 am ET

Dear Rick Sanchez,

Though I can appreciate your efforts to justify your mom not learning English I would suggest the best gift you could give your mom is the efforts you could give to teach her. Our ancestors did the same thing yours did but they knew English was the American language they needed to learn to accomplish their goals for their children. As a woman who can appreciate how open the door is to all who strive to be successful in America if one is willing to work and contribute in a positive manner ,I'm sorry I cannot justify the excuse given for not conducting the interview in English. I'm just curious, how long has your mom been in the U S and is she a legalized citizen?

With total respect for your Mom but disappointed in the interview,
Mary Ann Lefker

Marcel Gendron   July 18th, 2009 1:45 pm ET

Good day Mr Sanchez,
Would like to thank you on the report of most influencial ladies.
I have really enjoyed all the comments about your mother.
I am a French Canadian from Québec Canada and truly beleive that the comments where most appropriate. My English is not so good but I had to thank you on your report.
Keep the good work Mr Sanchez .
Hope my English was ok

Marcel Gendron

Jacqueline Padilla   July 18th, 2009 2:08 pm ET

I completely understand. My mother did the same for me and my 3 sisters. If it was not from her we all would not be where we are today. Proud to be a daughter of a Nicaraguan immigrant and more proud to hear you speak out the truth! Gracias Ricky!

Barbara Andrews   July 18th, 2009 4:57 pm ET

I am absolutely astonished at the vehemence shown by people on this subject. How many languages do all of YOU speak? When you go on vacation to Cancun or Paris or even on mission trips to Guatemala, do YOU bother to learn the language first? Because even though that is a different thing from going to live there, it does make you appear ignorant and reflects badly on ALL of us.

And the fact is, there is no law requiring people to speak English. Most people do–at least the young people–because they know they will need it to be successful here–but if they choose not to, they have broken no law and have hurt no one.

Monolingual Americans tend to be very touchy on this subject because they themselves have never learned a second language and it makes them feel better about themselves to put down others. Bullying tactics.

The truth is, you have nothing to apologize for for interviewing your mother in Spanish, and those who are offended by it are way off base and should examine their motives for making a stink about it.

Ricardo (brazilian) - Houston - TX   July 18th, 2009 6:50 pm ET

Wow !!! What an awesome response Rick !!!
I couldn't put it better.
By the way, if more people in this word paid more respect and love to their parents the way you do to yours, the world would be WAY better...

Cheo Malanga   July 18th, 2009 7:21 pm ET

Reading a good part of the responses it is obvious why the world looks at the US in disgust. The sense that everyone should speak English is not limited to these borders, it is as if everyone else needs to meet "the USA" criteria. As if everyone else is one step down.
The truth of the matter is that the rest of the world has accepted that we are a global race. Anyone who has ever been to Europe or outside of this country will find that the majority speak at least two languages, even in the third world, who generally are better educated and well rounded then the Amrican counterparts. Against popular opinion, this is not because they make their money through tourism and need to speak it to make due or that the US is the measuring stick for the rest of the world.
It's time that the US to open their eyes realize that we are on our way down. Within this generation you will find that English is not as important as it once was, just like the dollar, you can get by better speaking Spanish or French and the Euro.
The global economy is going to gobble this country up and it is because of those narrow minded people that feel that there is only one way to be, act or speak. As a country, those who consider themselves to be "Americans" whose families have been here for hundred's of years, they need to be reminded that their ancestors were originally a pack of peasants driven out of their lands. Pushed out to a new world filled with trusting and what they saw as inferior peoples who needed to be purified and relieved of anything that they possessed prior to the arrival the chosen ones. The lot of them, cowards and thieves who decided that is was easier to kill and steal their way through this land. Just because they were Anglos on a mission from god.
When in reality they would have been seen and welcomed as a tide of trash washing ashore by the same types as the ones that are showing their colors on this day and age. Generation after generation this misguided view is passed down.
Now the shoe is on the other foot. Except that it is now the brow skins that are gaining some ground. And not by stealing or killing, but by hard work. Let those inbred wasps squirm while educated Latinos and others from outside of their country come and steal their women and take their jobs. After all, they are all so defenseless and the real victims under the scourge of immigrants who have come to take what is theirs by holy decree.
In the meantime they forget that it was non English speaking immigrants that built this country. The same who right now are dying protecting the rights of the likes of Nacy and India Seattle or Terri. I feel for your children, if you have any. I can only hope that you dont since your way of thinking and rationale is like a cancer is spreading across the land. To think that at this very moment an Army of mostly minorities are the ones serving and dying for flag waiving true americans is such a sad injustice.
I pay my taxes, have served my time in the military, work a good job that could have been given to a poor white male. I have also tainted the white gene pool and am just getting started. To top it off, I look white like one of them and am college educated, which is what they most fear.
Sadly, having lived more then half of my life here, I can say that the American dream is dead. This country will find itself lost and in the minority, with little to offer to the world. A country that if left alone to its own vices would end up full of inbred angry uneducated brew that will be shunned by the rest of the planet.
Keep on teaching English in your schools, since about 1/3 of the population seems to have a problem grasping it. Young Americans don't need anything else to survive in this world. Look at where the US falls when you compare their education system with everyone else. Why have them expand their horizons and learn to be a part of the global community?
Also remember to have them only marry those like them, eat only one type of food and think one way. Like veal they can roam from coast to coast making sure that their way of life is the only way.
Progress? Who needs that?
I could go on and on and on about how disgusted I am to be an naturalized American, its easy. Or why I wish that that we would have ended up someplace else instead of ending up here. But, they were fooled by the now extinct American Dream that has made way for the american way. It all turned out to b e smoke and mirrors.
I know, if you don't like it then why down you leave? All in due time. I'm a strong believer in the old saying, "if you hang around trash, eventually you are going to smell like trash", and am afraid that I will be viewed in the same light. There is a reason why I've seen and heard of Americans wearing Canadian garb while abroad to throw off the stench that follow them. I just need to make as much as I can here to go spend it elsewhere, that is, if my savings don't disappear before I can pack it up and go.
This whole topic makes me sick and makes me question why would anyone want to raise their children in this place.
I feel for the future of this country and only hope that we can move forward dragging all of that dead weight.
Umpha, feel a little better having vented. Even if nobody reads it, the possibility that one person might get a rise from it is almost comforting. Just to clarify, the my use of brown skin refers to everything outside of that thin soft pinkish hue that these pure americans hide behind.
Wake up "white" people! Rome is burning!
Last one to leave, please take old glory and the eagle with you.
Un Cubano Orgulloso.

I G Dell   July 18th, 2009 7:34 pm ET

HEY PEOPLE!!!! Don't you realize that his MOM is probably in her 80's! Not a young pup like ya'll!!! Back in the Day, these mothers had only to take care of their children!! SHE DID THAT!!!! Why the Hell do you have the right to condemn her for something that happened BEFORE MOST OF YOU WERE BORN!!!!!!! Get a Life for God's Sake!!! You are so lucky to have been born in the latter part of the century, and have NO idea how hard it was back in the day..... to come to a foreign country, alone, penniless, and with a child (or children) to raise!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That Was THEN!!! THIS IS NOW!!!!!.... GIve Rich and his Mom a break!!!!

I hear you people.... you want to rid our country of all the "Illegals".... I hate that word..... But this does NOT apply here. Did it occur to any of you that when His Mom CAME HERE there was none of the ways to learn the language like we have now???? COME ON!!!!! Let's try a Kinder approach and not be so Judgmental :( :(

I THINK there should be less cruel talk and more of the compassion that Jesus preached :)
DILLYDELL

christano X   July 18th, 2009 8:46 pm ET

Sonya Sotomayor judged white males and needs to be able to over look her own prejudices and just do her job. As a person in such a high position it isn’t write to speak out against any group. She shouldn’t be nominated. Latinos can speak spanish if they want its a free country or so I think.
Distinguishing racial fact: authenic hispanics are white and from spain or spanish american. Latinos are a subculture. Mestizo-native american/spanish and Mulatto-black/spanish.
There are not many of us Spaniards,jews,and italians due to racist quotas placed on us here in america. irish,germans, and english are the dominate white cultures and settled the south and western states. Due to resentement they are often times deemed with negative ethnic conotations/ rednecks, bumkins,hillbillies,white trash, kicker, and so forth.

F.Zelaya   July 19th, 2009 12:22 pm ET

Wow, what a great piece. This is why the GOP will NEVER regain the latino vote, they simply do not get it and never will.

This article made me feel very proud of all of our "Wise Latina Mothers"

Amazing work Rick.

sue   July 19th, 2009 10:13 pm ET

Thanks Rick for the story on Wise Latina Women and for introducing your mom. She's a beautiful lady and you must be very proud of her. I read all of the positive comments above and skipped the negative ones–life is too short. Keep smiling!

Sue

Thomas Birmingham   July 20th, 2009 6:26 am ET

Most of the World speaks more than 1 language It is necessary...to...for... respect other languages and cultures. I am Irish/Scottish/American..married to a MEXICAN/German/AMERICAN. Her mother is a professor who teaches Spanish/ English. They are damn Mexicans(joke). My family has been here for 100 years. They've only been here... 300 years... OOPS!! They are more American than I !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Oh wait, they're Texans too. They fought the Mexicans to free Texas. I'm all mixed up!! NOT!!!! Rick I hear u speaking/translating Spanish, and we(my wife and I) laugh cuz we know White.. and other America's doesn't understand. DON'T UNDERSTAND?!! Then go learn Spanish u idiots!! Soy amor me esposa. And I don't mean handcuffs!! LOL. Few will understand that!

Thomas Birmingham   July 20th, 2009 6:40 am ET

Rick..I have an idea!! Go to England where English comes from..duh,,and have the Scottish, Irish, Gaelic, etc. speak ENGLISH and see how many Americans understand them!! We DO NOT speak English!! We speak a slang(and very bad English) of English. SLANG ENGLISH!!

Roger Coulter   July 20th, 2009 12:46 pm ET

Rick
well your story brings a new perspective to me i was always the one that said speak english or get out but after reading the story about your mom has made me realize that no matter where your from you deserve the respct that everyone else gets so on that note i say good job Adela Fernandez the job you did gave us a great journalist

Patti   July 20th, 2009 2:42 pm ET

Let me try and understand your logic. As long as you're a person who is
A) on TV
B) well educated
C) successful
D) a person of means
E) all or any of the above
that makes you an exception and your immigrant parents don’t have to learn English. What a statement given we’re supposed to be living in a democracy. What privileges apply to the immigrant parents raise someone who turns out to be a dishwasher or a short order cook?

Barb   July 20th, 2009 3:03 pm ET

Frist, well said Patti, when I posted, I explain how my parents came from Hungry, learning the English lang. whie we slept, I am getting the feeling those that support non English citizen, have no problem when they walk into a restaurant or another ethnic needing to make a request with their order to find they don't understand. This is the only problem I have about people coming to our Country for a better left, we set them up, giving them how many yrs of not having to pay taxes and they can not have the respect to learn the Lang. This is what the whole topic started out about, not bashing his beautiful mother but that she hasn't taken the time again, to respect our lang. as well. OK, I don't speak my parents lang. hell they don't teach it, but my daughter does speak 3 different Lang. but again, this is about not just Rick's mom but anyone that becomes a citizen, that should be a demand, not just enough to get by

Judy Green, Nebraska   July 20th, 2009 3:24 pm ET

I am sympathetic to your Mom's age and inability to go to college. However, this is America and the language we speak is English. It should be REQUIRED of ANY immigrant who wants to live in the US for any length of time or wants to become a citizen to learn English.

Natalie   July 20th, 2009 3:27 pm ET

I have a confession Rick: Your comment that those referring to Michael Vick being "thugish" has "racial connotations" stings me as an African American woman. In fact, while I understand how comments regarding your mothers inability to speak english must sting, I find your comment equally disturbing.

In fact, when the black community and probably others hear the word thuggish, we don't conjure up pictures of our young black men...thats media hype perpetuated by the media and Whites. For the record we (most blacks) have been taught from a very young age that even the "N-word" applies equally and across racial lines depending on a persons character and integrity or the lack thereof. We do not, contrary to popular belief, assume that we (Blacks) are being referred to when these "fighting words" are uttered by ignorant people.

Conclusion: Shame on those that are ignorant enough to be ethnocentric requiring your mom to speak English and shame on you for buying into the stereotypes of racists and media dummies.

indydee   July 20th, 2009 3:32 pm ET

...never really thought that that could be the case.
My grandma came to this country worked in a textile factory but spoke both Spanish & English.
My mother & I came to this country & both of us also spoke both languages.
We are Puerto Rican & both Spanish & English are taught in schools.
...interesting perspective Rick.
I appologize if I have been intolerant or ignorant.

lonnie   July 20th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

In my experience the reason foreigners when they migrate to this country and don't speak English is because they don't consider themselves Americans. Shame on them, want to live in a country with the opportunities that Americans have, but spit on the same system as the same time. . .

Richard Irons   July 20th, 2009 4:00 pm ET

Wonderful response by you and the absolute truth. Thanks

Mark   July 20th, 2009 4:23 pm ET

Rick,

I saw your video clip on with your mother and read your response to the comments of people that saw the video. It is great you had a wonderful mother that sacrificed to give you a better life and congratulations on your success.

But I DO have a problem with those who don't learn the language of the country they move to, including Americans that move to a non English speaking country. I'm not talking about those visiting, but living there. My grandparents on my dad's side came from Germany and Switzerland and learned to speak English. America is touted as the "melting pot " country but that means those who come here acclimate themselves. It doesn't mean they forget their ancestry and/or not celebrate it but they should learn the ways and customs of the country they live in and a major part of that is speaking the language.

Granted, the older people get the harder it is to learn a new language, but if they have the means it really becomes a matter of will not ability.

Inmortal   July 20th, 2009 4:31 pm ET

What a prefect method of response to those that unfortunately do not know any better. In this brief but heartfelt entry, you have truly captured the essence, struggle and purpose of the "Wise Latina". Cheers!

Cecile Guilbeault   July 20th, 2009 5:13 pm ET

The Show will be over by the time I get this note out.
I came back to Canada 3 years ago after 48 years in Westchester and Rockland County NY. I presently live in Valleyfield QC to be near relatives in my retirement.
To find a family doctor, I was on a list of over 500 people at the CLSC to get a family doctor. I finally got my sister's doctor after months of waiting during which time if I had a need, I had to go to the clinics or hospital emergencies.
There is very few specialists in Valleyfield; example if you brake bones you have to go to Montreal – 38 miles away. I feel my health is very insecured around here, God keeps me healthy or I'll be finished.
In the US I was on medications for panic attacks, before I obtained a family doctor, I had to go to Valleyfield Hospital to refill my medications. A spychiatric gave me the equivalent of US med, after 4 days of that equivalent medication, I called the pharmacist giving him the symptoms, his reply was to stop the medication immediately. This happened in June 2007. I was later on diagnosed as having Rabbit Syndrome. June 2009, I still look into this uncertain diagnostic, I saw some specialists in Rockland County NY who gave me more medications. The chances seam small for recovery.
In January 2009, I had a bad cold which for me it always turns into bronchitis. My family doctor's assistant told me doctors don't give antibiotics for a cold when I asked for an apointment. I had two bronchitis subsequently and then the doctor gave me antibiotics, saying in the futur I will get them. After a few days on that antibiotic, I called the pharmacist for I had lost my taste and smell, I asked if it was due to the medication, the pharmacist reply was; probably the cause of both. I asked if I should stop the antibiotic, the pharmacist reply was to continue taking the medication. So, I continued with the medication – until today I have not recovered the taste & smell. The medications of US in June 2009 don't seem to help.
Two doctors and two desasters for me in the time of two years.
I have very little confidence in the medical doctors around here.
I was told by a new friend who has a son as doctor that it is a known fact here that the government holds back the production of doctors because of the cost.
I heard a rumor that, If a doctor puts in a certain amount of hours in practice, the doctor is then held back for some times to practice medicine. Also, as rumors, the doctors do not practice medicine wherever they want and the government control their financial practice. I hear a lot of horrible stories.... is it true?..I don't know yet.
I felt secured when I moved here because I had heard just good about this Social Medicine – in no time, I found it quite different and a lot like this about the government, businesses and more; the least to say, they are very poor administrators in general etc,. a lack of openness.
I have to add that not all is bad, they have a lot of good things too.
It seems to me that they lack of basic, at times for specific reasons, it seems they have been brain-washed for so long, it has been accepted as normal for what they know is incorrect. To summarize all their problems is that they think they have no recourse. Their laws are not observed and practiced. When you ask general questions about the rights of most of anything, (except for nonsense), no one seem to know the answer nor who might know – very strange. The problem makes people discontented, powerless and passive, and those who persists of finding the answers are looked at as "smart guys" – as who do they think they are! No one has succeeded to get things moving and I will be able to do otherwise! It makes me feel very sad. Finding the sources to make a dent into this mess is exasperating for an individual.
Cecile 450-371-2627

Maria   July 20th, 2009 5:23 pm ET

What an amazing response! Thank you Rick for speaking for the masses. ~Maria

Lorraine Verona   July 20th, 2009 6:14 pm ET

I am a French Canadian who married a Brit. We now live in Quebec, Canada, a very French province. My husband who became a Canadian citizen two years ago does not speak French, not one single word and the community has accepted him as he is, an English speaking person. So, the fact that Rick's mother does not speak English for me is not a problem. I even think that with the amount of Latino people in the USA, Spanish should be the second language and should be taught in school. We French speaking learned a bit of English during our school years. Those who wanted a better job or wanted to travel, learned to speak English as English is the language known around the world. But, the fact that one does not speak a second language should not bother anyone. Especially when that person worked hard all her life and made everything she could for her children (like Rick's mother). And please Rick, don't let anyone condemn your mother for not speaking English. Very narrow minded they are. BTW, please excuse my English mistakes, as I said, English is for me a second language.
Lorraine French speaking Canadian living in Quebec.

Lee   July 20th, 2009 8:21 pm ET

Rick, It is refreshing to hear someone speak so highly of his Mother. I assume your parents are American Citizens so I just don't understand why she did not make an effort to speak English.
I grew up in a family where my mother and grandparents often spoke German. Some of it I understood, some I did not. But education was treasured and everyone learned english. Years ago I heard how immigrant parents sat down daily with the children to learn what they learned in school.
What if your Mother or someone she loved needed help in an emergency and no one spoke spanish? Is it necessary for all police, fire, emt's, nurses, doctors, teachers to learn spanish to communicate with those who have lived here for many years but will not speak or learn the predominate language?
In some way don't you feel you have been an enabler?
In most families, the parent would make a statement & ask other family member to tell him/her how to ask it in english and then repeat it.
I get that you love your mother, admire her and that is admirable but I don't get that you do not think it is necessary to learn english. I hope no one's life ever depends on her communicating with officials, etc.

Best wishes.
Lee

Shelly   July 20th, 2009 8:22 pm ET

Rick,
Your family's experience is the shared experience of millions of immigrant families from all over the world. Thank you for lending a voice to these families. For the longest time, I have wanted to shout the very thing you articulated here to the world about my parents. But I don't have to now, because you did it for my family. Thank you.

jrteddy704   July 21st, 2009 10:59 am ET

Well said Rick, I guess is hard for people to relate unless they have gone through the same experiences.

Ann Estrello-Brown   July 21st, 2009 12:53 pm ET

Your response hit the nail on the head! It is too bad that there are others that can't understand- only those of us who were raised this way will only truly appreciate all that our parents and grandparents sacrificed for us to lead a well educated and productive life! You not only stood up for your mother you stood up for my grandparents and parents, and I thank you for being my voice! People ask me everyday- "Oh you're Mexican? Why don't you speak spanish??".... I wish some would just make up their minds! ;)

A Young UPcoming Wise Latina   July 21st, 2009 3:09 pm ET

With my greatest gratitude, thank you Rick for adding the side comment and informing ethnocentric viewers about the ignorance that deplores their minds when it comes to Latino/as. I appreciate you broadcasting this statement and make it nationally (and internationally) known in such an articulated manner. Thank you!

CubanMom   July 21st, 2009 3:24 pm ET

Just read your comments, Rick. As a daughter & daughter-in-law of Cubans, who sought refuge in this country I know first hand how difficult it is for adults to learn a second language!

I like to challenge people when they complain about someone's accent, or the fact that a foreigner does not speak English. I ask them could you learn a second language at your age?

Most Americans do not know a second language, unlike most Europeans and Latin Americans who more often than not know two or even three languages!

When someone corrects my English, I say, at least I speak English better than most Americans!

Sam Thornton   July 21st, 2009 3:30 pm ET

The one thing I can say. I admire your admiration for your parents and the sacrifices that they made so that you could become as successful as you are. The thing about it is that I'm guessing that they did it legally. So they deserve all of the good things that have come to them to include seeing their son become the success that he has as a result of their hard work. You've been truly blessed.

Jeruel ROHAN   July 21st, 2009 3:33 pm ET

Thank you for those words. Many of us children of immigrants here in the United States need to remember the sacrifices that were for us so that we can lead prductive lives. Many of our greatest role models and leaders in this country are the sons and daughters of those who don't speak "perfect English"

Annie   July 21st, 2009 3:40 pm ET

I am first generation born in the US in my family. Children of immigrants can certainly identify with you. My parents immigrated to the US from Vietnam in 1975. Not everyone in my family is fluent in English but it does not mean they were not grateful to be in the country. With all do respect, it is ridiculous to consider forcing immigrants to throw away their native culture and language just because they are in the US. My parents sacrificed and worked very hard so my brother and I have the best opportunities. My success is also is my parent's success. Thank you, Rick!

Summer Ellison   July 21st, 2009 3:49 pm ET

Personally, moving from WA State to So Cal (20+ yrs. ago now), I've had my moments of frustration when driving through certain parts of Los Angeles (or surrounding areas) and seeing billboards in languages other than English, true enough. Further, I'm also of the mindset that a common, shared language (such as English) has the advantage of helping foster cohesion amongst the diverse people of this country. That said, unless and until I ever make the effort to learn at least one other language myself, I feel extremely hypocritical demanding that others do the same per se.

karen-AZ   July 21st, 2009 4:01 pm ET

I agree with you 100%. I'm 65 and took 2 years of Spanish in high school(long time ago). NO luck. I can't speak it and its easier than english. I spent some business time in Germany and couldn't speak German. Your Mom is special and she speaks to you, her most important subject!!!! Love her!

Angie Mcgill   July 21st, 2009 4:21 pm ET

Well said Rick! I am sure your mom and dad are so proud of you! You are a great success and you and your family deserve only the best!

George   July 21st, 2009 4:36 pm ET

The reason she did not learn English is because she did not want to. Our mother never learned because it was easier to just speak Spanish. We were unable to get her to even try. When Hispanics migrate to the U.S. they live in the same communities where they can live as if living in their original country except they have all the benefits of our country. The same goes for immigrants from other countries. They all live together in the same communities. The store and signs are all in their prior countries language.

All you people that claim English is not your native language and Spanish is have to remember Spanish is also not your native language. I don't know about you but my native language was Cherokee. My ancestors were the first Native Americans to have a written language. Are a Spaniard, Native American or Mexican. The Spanish force Spanish upon the Native peoples just like European's also forced their languages upon the Native Americans. I'm not griping about ti. It was a long time ago. It's great to want learn all about your heritage but quit claiming that white people should be rquired to give your land and language back.

Delia   July 21st, 2009 4:51 pm ET

Your commentary on why your lovely, hard-working mother doesn’t speak English speaks for many of us whose parents toiled as immigrants so their children could grow up to be successful. As a wealthy, successful Latina with two siblings just like me, I applaud and thank you for echoing my sentiments in your remarks.

Ante   July 21st, 2009 5:22 pm ET

i am glad that you have such support for your mom! God bless you both!

Cheryl   July 21st, 2009 8:46 pm ET

First let me say thank you Mr Sanchez for your story and for sharing a part of yourself. You are truly blessed to have such a wonderful mother.

My comment is directed to Patti and Barb and the other people that so eliquoantly show the depth of their ignorance. I am dismayed to find that in this day and age there are so many who unfortunately share such an ignorant opinion of what people should and should not do in what they deem is their country.

My ancestors came to America too, but that was several hunderd years ago. Therefore, I have not had the privledge of being raised in a multi-cultural household as many others have. We have always spoke English (notice it is called English and not American), but that is because my ancestors spoke English. They were from England, where English is spoken. Now, as far as I know America has never in it's 233 year history (not the 507 years since Columbus landed) established an official language. Therefore, if as these people are demanding, we all speak the native language, I would like to hear them speak in the true native language. Which by my knowledge of American history would be any one of over 500 different Native American dialects or Spanish, depending on where they currently reside. I also find it a little upsetting to hear the term assimilate, as this brings to mind the tribulations of the true people of America and how they were 'taught' to assimilate. Forbidden to speak in their own tongue or practice their own beliefs and traditions under threat of beatings or death. Entire cultures were lost because of this. I wonder how Patti, Barb or Tony or any of the other negative people would like being told that they could no longer speak their language and if they did their tongue would be cut out or they would be whipped everytime they celebrated a birthday or Christmas or Easter. Is it just me or does this scare anyone else? They say that history repeats itself, do we really need to destroy each other over and over. This destruction is not just here, it is everywhere. Hitler was another example of racist ignorance and what is wrong with society as a whole. Trying to wipeout an entire culture, out of fear or jealousy but more likely ignorance. What happened to America the Great Melting Pot, Lady Liberty and her words 'Give me your huddled masses, yearning to breathe free' Correct me if I'm wrong but, I don't remember anything about but only if they speak English... Isn't this still the land of the free and home of the brave? Where would we be without brave women, brave Latina women, brave German woman, brave African women, brave English women, brave women of every culture...

Thank you to all mothers for the sacrafices they have made for their families...

Evylis   July 21st, 2009 10:30 pm ET

Usualy I don't even bother to think about leaving a comment. I always think it's yaketing and bla-bla.
Today I make a first and want you to know it was a privilege to see that report on 'wisw latino woman" . I'm honor to have meet your mother who give you so much. She does not express herself in english, like you ssid she didn't have time to leanr and if more people were like your mom, you and your friend it would be great.
Thanks for giving me some hope where I didn't see any anymore.

George   July 21st, 2009 10:32 pm ET

Cheryl, Spanish isn't a native language in the U.S. I live in an area of the U.S. where there are people that say white people took their land and language away from them and made them speak English. I keep telling them Spain took their land and made them speak Spanish. Everyone points their finger at whites as being the only bad people of the world. I have to listen all the time about this and I have to listen to all the white is right and all the white jokes. If a white person were to make one Hispanic joke he would wind up in court. My family is white, Hispanic and Native American ( The Civilized Tribes). I'm tired of the blame game. My ancestors were also forced to learn English, forced to wear settlers clothes and grow crops and they were forced from their land. We all suffered from immigrants sometime in our history. Stop blaming white people for all your troubles. There are other cultures that immigrated to this land and forced themselves upon the natives.

Bryan Colson   July 22nd, 2009 2:43 am ET

I too have found it amazing that even in my own family an older brother rails against immigrants.

We are proud Poles who landed in New York harbor in 1903 and farmed in Mass. My parents used their education to better themselves. Dad was a journeyman carpenter who ended up a construction engineer. Me and my brother are college guys, he a scientist and me a teacher. The fourth generation of our family brothers daughter is a Doctor. In four generations we went from farmers to having a Doctor in our mist! Our grandmother hardly spoke english. But they managed to raise a family of six.
Why are some people so ungrateful and forgetful of their origins and struggles. WE ARE A MELTING POT. IT'S A STRENGTH NOT A WEAKNESS!

Michael   July 22nd, 2009 2:36 pm ET

Dear Rick,

Great story. Your reply was very eloquent, heartfelt – and right on. Your mom reminds me of my own – even though my mom is a third generation african – american. I can very much relate to her struggle to give you a better life through my own mom's struggle to give me the same.
Keep up the good work my friend.

P.S.

I announced your entrance and we met briefly at the Walter Kaitz Annual Dinner in New York City . A right good piece of speech – ifying on your part that night.....!!!!

Cindy New Port Richey, fl   July 22nd, 2009 2:52 pm ET

Rick, your story, is the story of AMERICA. This is what we are all about. Some Republicans (Pat Buchannan) seem to forget that we all migrated from somewhere else. This country was not built on 100% of white men, but on mothers and fathers like yours who wanted more for their children, who happen to not be white. I actually look forward to when the white people in this country are not the majority. The lawsuits will be flying and my brother-in-law will finally feel the sting of hate and bias. Maybe then we can be kind to each other. Love ur show!!

M. Robledo   July 22nd, 2009 4:53 pm ET

I agree with Rick 110%

Cherry M   July 22nd, 2009 5:02 pm ET

I love your show....but I still don't understand why your mom doesn't speak some English, she doesn't necessarily have to be fluent. With her having children and grand children that are fluent in English are you telling me she can't learn from all of you. I personally think she is just not interested in learning the language...and there is nothing wrong with that.

Brenda A   July 22nd, 2009 8:00 pm ET

I was so moved by your words at the end of the piece defending your mom for not speaking English.

I think most people do forget that they also came from immigrants and I think that was an important point to bring up. I was also was so touched how you spoke about both your parents with such love and admiration. I think most immigrants come to this country for their children and I only wish everyone could hear and embrace your message.

LINDA AVANZINO   July 23rd, 2009 12:33 pm ET

Dear Rick...I heard you give this reply on your show..(which I watch every day.).and it brought many nostaligic tears to my eyes. I, too, am born to immigrant parents ( Argentinian and Russian) and had Grandparents and Parents who did not speak English. They all became US citizens My gramma learned just enough English to pass the citizenship test...and then forgot it in the confusion of raising her 8 children and cooking for them and her also immigrant husband. For my childhood years, English was rarely spoken in our home; the words we heard were either in Russian or Spanish. In order to get to America, my Gramma took in laundry and did whatever work she could find. Here in America had a miniature farm in our backyard that produced goats milk and eggs, and vegetables for the family.
My grandparents and parents came here, to America, to make a better life for us, their future generations...These sacrifices gave birth to a generation that is basking in the sunshine of the American Dream-a generation of PHD Scholars, Wealthy entreprenuers, published authors, artists, socially conscious volunteers...a harvest too amazing to imagine.
The only thing missing in this mix nowadays -are the sounds and reminders of our heritage; those echoes of the words, now only spoken in far away lands...those loving words..such as "shaneh madela" and "mis preciosas". I cherish all our memories of coming to America...the most poignant being those spoken words, many of which have taken the form of remembered phrases we heard spoken daily long ago. Their speakers have now passed from our lives and now only live in our fond memories of those simple and precious days.

Juana Freire   July 23rd, 2009 4:17 pm ET

I agree with you 100%. My parents both came here while my dad learned English my mother was always busy taking care of us. There is 18 of us nine boys nine girls. My parents came here not too get rich but for all of us too strive here in America. My grandfather came here too work and one of the things he always told me was too go to school study become something. Same advice was given to me by my father.

Emmy   July 23rd, 2009 4:29 pm ET

Wow, Rick!
A few words yet very powerful. How can anyone not understand your perspective on why (not that it's anyone's business) your beautiful dear mom does not speak English? All I can say, you nailed it Rick and that sir, is effective communication.

Robert HuntingtonBeach   July 23rd, 2009 4:54 pm ET

Rick, my Viejita is the Same Way. She cannot express herself in English as she can in Spanish, but her Hugs and touch says it all about her.. Hard Work and lots of Love. I am successful because of her. Love you Rick., From one man to another. Your work is first class without personal biases, I heard your discussion with Rowland and the other gentleman about Pres Obama's comments on the Gates incident. Rowland's points confirms why i cannot take him serious as a journalist. I respect and admire his knowledge and passion, but not his biases. Just like you rick, I have been harrased many times just because of being Spanish, My Son just got stopped/harrased in HB and unfortunately did he not remember my advice, R.

Denise   July 23rd, 2009 7:15 pm ET

Rick first I want to say "Well said". My grandmother spoke little English, but my dad speaks English well enough and so does the rest of the family; my grandmother socialized with family. She had arthritis so bad, she didn't go any where. She has since passed on. Both my grandparents (mom & dad's) have passed. Thank you for good reporting. I enjoyed Wise Latina Women.

Linda Villarreal Wood   July 24th, 2009 12:10 am ET

Well said! My grandfather was born, lived and died in Texas and never did speak English. His ancestors were born in Texas when it was Mexico. As a fifth generation american born Hispanic I never learned Spanish much to my regret.

Rick, why don't you do something like Soledad O'Brien has done on the black in america experience? There are so many different experiences and stories that make up the Hispanic populations of North of America. Perhaps you could help educate people who assume that all Hispanics have the same roots.

blacknamerica   July 24th, 2009 12:06 pm ET

I understand why your mother does not speak english. My issue is if people do not want to learn how to speak english that is fine however, it is not fair that people who do not speak english expect us citizens to learn their language in order to communicate with them. My family and I work just as hard as your family and it is not fair that we are expected to become bi-lingual in order to accomodate them

debbie   July 24th, 2009 2:21 pm ET

African American woman....I wish that our ancestors had the opportunity to preserve their language and culture.....keep your culture alive!

Evelyn   July 24th, 2009 3:39 pm ET

You have such a great mom Rick! whoever that says she doesn't speak English might be naive. Thank God you are such a successful guy. If I were you that will not bother me a bit. What a wonderful woman!

Valarie   July 24th, 2009 3:54 pm ET

Rick,

I think it's horrible that people asked you why your mother doesn't speak English. It's painfully clear to me that xenophobia is alive and well in this country. I am a bilingual African-American so I understood her pefectly. And it made me smile from ear to ear when I heard you speak Spanish... as I am just watching this today. But beyond that, your mother worked hard to give you a good life and you are the fruit of her persistence. Your mother was endearing and I can tell she is a very proud woman. It warms my heart to see that Spanish is still spoken in your Mother's home. At least you have a language....and a cultural identity. As African-Americans, we find ourselves shaping ours as we go along. It hurts deeply that we have nothing to look back to as a language... to claim as our own...the language our ancestors spoke. I take my hat off to those who do have it and mourn for the loss of mine.

Brush the haters off and keep adding a perspective that is sorely needed in this country.... Latinos! Go RICK!

Belgium   July 26th, 2009 8:47 pm ET

My mom came from another country. She's in this country for about 2 years now. I tell her to speak English, because after all this is America. She reads and understand a little bit of the newspaper. The newspaper she reads every day.

She speaks English to me and my relatives as well as she can. I encourage her to do so because I like for her to be independent of us.
My mom is 84 and going strong.

Chris from Wausau   July 27th, 2009 3:43 pm ET

This country is a country of immigrants. My grandparents came here, learned the language, found whatever work they could. They received no benefits, no health care, they built & started schools. They came here as 1st class citizens. Today's immigrants are demanding. THeir children enter schools without speaking the language. They expect teachers to learn their language (children enter our schools speaking 26 different languages. Schools, employers, not even the police can ask what their immigration status is. I live in a community that has been deluged with southeast Asians as well as Hispanics. It's very challenging & places a huge burden on our schools,medical facilities, public services & police force.

Dorothy   July 27th, 2009 3:47 pm ET

First, as a 12th generation American and one of those terrible white people some folks blame everything on, let me say that I am glad to see good, strong folks like your mother come to this country and make a go of it, for that has always been what America is about, be it now or 350+ years ago. Still, I am saddened that your mother has never learned English, for if she had some of us outside of her family and friends wouldn't have had to wait for your blog to learn what a great lady she is. It would have also increased her options, as it is the language understood by more than 90% of us, regardless of background, and perhaps made things a little easier for her.
By the by, it's way back there, but I do have a couple of Native American ancestresses. I wish somebody could have recorded their viewpoints as they watched their tribes be decimated. America's history is as full of tragedy as it is triumph, and ALL of it is what makes us who we are, you included.

Carmen   July 28th, 2009 1:07 pm ET

It is sad to realize how race issues still be "a problem" in the US. I think it is easier to blame someone who "looks different" than accept our own ignorance. We are in the 21st. century, wake up!

Lisa from Connecticut   July 29th, 2009 7:06 am ET

I am a single mom of a wonderful 12 year old son who's half Cuban. His only connection to that part of his heritage is a rare visit to Florida to sit at the kitchen table with his aunt and his abuelita, and we both cherish that. His abuela doesn't speak English. When I told him about this broadcast, he was as moved as I was, and asked me to find it on the internet. Thank you for putting this in the proper context, Rick. You've had an impact on a wonderful young man – and his mom.

Jeanette Arnhart   July 30th, 2009 11:33 pm ET

OMG!!! You have been my linguistic hero for a lllooonnnggg time because your English and Spanish are equally incredible! I am a Spanish teacher who teaches Spanish for Native Speakers in Arkansas and have been trying to help my students to verbalize why their parents, aunts and uncles don't speak English. You said EXACTLY what they have been trying to vocalize!!! When I heard you SAY the words in your IMPECCABLY STANDARD English, I was reduced to tears!!! I printed out your statement to share with my students when school starts. Your words will empower a wonderful group of young adults to stand up and proudly defend their parents who work tirelessly to build and serve the place in which we live!!!!
Thank you!!!

Clara   August 10th, 2009 10:33 am ET

This is my story, Rick. Both my parents were working too hard to have time to do anything other than give me the best opportunities that they could - all the ones that they didn't. My parents never had much, but they're the most successful people I know.

Bruce Przybylski   August 13th, 2009 10:10 pm ET

Rick, ever since you gave that speech on CNN as to why your mother does not speak english I've been running it over in my mind.
Think back to your childhood, was ther 1 hour a week your mother was doing something other than slaving away so you can be so successful? A social club, visits with her friends, activities other than taking care of you and your father? She could have gone to English class once a week, even if it took years to get to a level she may have wanted. Was there your father's machismo involved? Was he afraid that if she could read, write and speak English she was more available to men taking her away from him? There is more to this story than you let on.
We have a double standard in this country. When Europeans, North and South African nationals, Asians come to this country there is a reasonable expectation by themselves as well as those around them to grasp the English language. Any criticism of donde esta Estados Unidos, hablo ingles is taboo, how dare you. Is it the elitista attitude of the Cuban mentality that they don't have too? Please tell us the real back story of why your mother did not make an effort to take 1 or 2 hours of her week or month so she could learn English. All of us who come from immigrants have a right to know, why our families and not her?

Barbara Andrews   August 14th, 2009 8:11 am ET

Many Europeans already speak English (and perhaps 1 or more other languages in addition to their native language). Even more, they don't get bent out of shape when they hear languages they don't know. Why does it bother YOU (the last poster, Bruce) that some people in this country do not speak English? It's a free country (have you forgotten that?). You have a right to be monolingual even though being multilingual is usually considered a requirement for a well-educated person. The fact that most Americans do not spend 1 or 2 hours of their week or month to learn other languages is a real shame, but it is truly none of my business. And I frankly find it offensive that you try to "blame" Rick's father in your attempt to psychoanalyze the reason for this "defect" in his mother.

Incidentally, my own mother would agree with you. She is 71 and completely English monolingual and can't stand hearing people speak other languages around her because it makes her feel like they are making fun of her. I won't assume that you are linguaphobic like that, though. Again, it's a free country.

Holly B.   August 15th, 2009 1:28 am ET

When I moved to Mexico, I worried that people would laugh at my pitiable Spanish. I still do, after 15 years! But almost nobody does laugh, even though my Espanol is more pidgin than correct. They don't judge or laugh. They're just nice to me, even though I am NOT a rich American. What they DO know about me is that I treasure good people, and despise racism and other hatreds with a black completeness. The one thing I truly hate is cruelty.

In Mexico, as is probably also true in the other "Latino" countries, there is an amplitude of generosity of spirit, which I find delightful, endearing and also astonishing. It is distinctly lacking among far too many of my own fellow Americans. I wish it weren't so, but it is. It is bigotry, religious absolutism, and corrosive politics that perpetuates this, and we've become very lazy, intellectually and about genuine self-improvement, particularly in our attitudes and worldviews. We've become a very mingy people on the whole, and it shames us all.

Everybody has their own preferences on learning another language. Many have fears about doing so. Some may even fear harassment if they DO try. Others have little aptitude for new languages, or are too old to do it well. We should absolutely encourage all people in America to learn English, but we should also encourage our own people to study MUCH more foreign languages. The operative word here is "encourage." Which is not the same as "force". Nor is it the same as to condemn those who don't.

Dissing someone for not doing so is flat-out unfair. In other words, mingy.

Anyone who lives in America and doesn't speak English knows he is suffering from a major limitation, and most will want to learn at least enough to "get by." The idea that they detest English (and therefore America) and express it by stubbornly not learning English – how do you spell "yippledung"?

I'm a well educated white person, an intellectual who still loves learning, yet Rick's mom – and millions of other Latinos – are NOT my inferiors. She's a lady I can look up to.

Encountering a different culture is an adventure, not a cause for suspicion and hate. There's always something new and wonderful to learn from other cultures, even if it's only how to make authentic guacamole. There's usually tons more, all of it enriching.

And Rick's mom is everything I always wished my own mother had been. I'd like to cuddle her.

This lovely woman isn't overly-educated, but don't we know by now that education gives no guarantees on character? This lady is perhaps lacking in higher knowledge, but it hasn't affected her ability to be strong and to develop genuine wisdom. And those are just as important as book learning. How many of our well-educated leaders earn points on wisdom, integrity, compassion, open-mindedness, fair play, egalitarianism?

Of all the people I've known all my life, there is one for whom my respect and admiration stands head and shoulders above them all. She's the most thoroughly GOOD person I've ever known. She's my "domicilia," who has helped this very disabled American for 15 years, but has often been more of a friend, sister, or even a mom, to me than "just a cleaning lady." Her education is pitiful, and she's what some would call a "poor Mexican peasant." To me, she is a reminder that our species really CAN have some good points. I do all I can to reciprocate in kind; there's almost nothing I wouldn't do for this "Wise Latina"! And she probably has less schooling than Rick's mom. But what a joy of a person she is! From the knees down, her legs are TOTALLY purple, varicose veins from slaving all her life for her large family. What a marvelous person – and how rare. She even has room in her heart for me.

Education doesn't result in lousy character any more than it guarantees a good one. If you have it, though, you have about zero excuse for lacking basic integrity and humanity toward others. What counts with education is what you DO with it, and many people use it to do nasty things. High integrity is available to ALL. Anyone can choose it for themselves. But how many really DO? They may cop an image of integrity, but more often than not there are maggots festering just behind the veneer.

Rick's mom HAD excuses for not learning English, with little schooling, yet she developed true magnificence: as a mother, that was her job, and she did it supremely well. My own mother was highly educated but lacked many of the character qualities I admire in Rick's mom. I developed my character and personal strength largely without her help. But I did it, because my honor and integrity are extremely important to me. It also helped a lot that I had the world's best dad!

And maybe, just maybe, with so little time to call her own, she had other priorities for spending it, rather than courses in English. Last I looked, this was a free country that doesn't dictate how anyone spends their free time.

Some here DO disagree, though, don't they?

Yeah, mingy.

Bruce Przybylski   August 15th, 2009 10:00 pm ET

If you read my comments it never said she HAD to speak English, it was the fact that his selfless ambition of his parents resulted in her not learning English. He's rich because his parents blood sweat and tears got him there off their backs. So for him to crow about how basically his mother is illiterate because of him is offensive.
I like how the moderator weeds out any dissent, only the Rick Sanchez Fan Club gets through.

Barbara Andrews   August 16th, 2009 11:01 am ET

His mother is illiterate because she doesn't speak English? Spanish is a perfectly respectable and beautiful language, and I find it offensive that you should believe that the only people who are not illiterate are those who speak English. It is SO obvious that you are not only monolingual but inordinately proud of being so. And it bothers you to a great degree that there are people in this country that you can't talk to because of your lingual deficiency. Ergo your great desire to make OTHERS ashamed because they do not speak English.

Be comforted that monolingualism is easily cured. If you can't find a class in your neighborhood, there's always Rosetta Stone. Hey, if people in Europe can speak 2-3 or more languages with ease, surely you have it in you to learn another one!

Bruce Przybylski   August 17th, 2009 2:32 pm ET

Babs,
It's obvious your one-sided predetermined mind has no idea what I can and cannot do. I speak Japanese & Polish as well as English. My Grandmother Spoke Polish, German and French when she came here, so to wrongly imply I'm mono-linguistic (correct spelling Babs) is a shining example of your closed mind when it comes to others who do not regurgitate the same ideas as yours.
Why did he go on TV? To explain why his mother did not speak English, he was the one who was broadcasting to the world her lack of English skills, not me. Find offense with him, not me.

dori   September 10th, 2009 5:28 pm ET

I know its a bit late for this comment, but I have been busy.
Rick, touching story about the sacrifices your mother made for you.
I work in a large trauma center in Los Angeles County. It is imperative people speak some english in this country. I see people come into the truama center, and the emergency room who speak NO english at all.
I am a respiratory therapist who deals with breathing and cardiac issues. If a patient comes in to the hospital who doesn't speak English and needs MY English speaking help...what happens? Patient care is DELAYED so I can go and find someone who speaks their language. Taking them away from their jobs to help with mine. I deal with breathing. Every second counts when you cant breath. Every second counts when you are having a heart attack. How am I to communicate with the patient if they don't speak English? How am I to know what the symptoms are? I am the one who usually sees the patient before the MD can. What if I miss something? Is it MY fault if there is miscommunication? This could potentially turn into a malpractice law suit. this could seriously impact care for immigrants who don't speak English. It is IMPERATIVE to be able to communicate in English, especially in the medical field. What if something is missed because of the communication breakdown? YOU can not always be at your mothers side to help her. What if she died because she didnt get proper medical treatment because of the language barrier? this happens everyday in every hospital.
when in Rome, do as the Romans. why am i expected to learn another language because people do not feel they need to speak the native tongue of land? when someone comes into the ER pointing at their chest and they don't speak English, what happens? We have to delay treatment to find someone to communicate with that patient, again, delaying care. So does this mean hospitals are only going to hire bilingual employees? So i am going to lose my job because I don't speak another language? Possibly. I have been denied higher paying jobs because I am not bilingual. I do not think this is fair.
The story is touching about your mom not speaking English, but the practicality of it is unreasonable.

Barbara Andrews   September 11th, 2009 4:26 am ET

You actually answered your own question! If there is a large number of Spanish-speaking people in your area, then of course your hospital should be hiring as many bilingual people as possible. Those who are monolingual should go somewhere else OR learn another language.

It's interesting to see how the monoiinguals seem to think learning another language is a burden. It's not that big a deal. And anyone in the medical field who presumably got into that field to save lives should definitely learn the language of their potential clients.

I live in the Midwest where very few people speak anything but English, but I still run into lots of my students' parents who tell me they wish they had learned Spanish because it is sometimes needed. Good grief, anyone in California should be able to see that very clearly!

You seem to be saying that you have a right to your job simply because you speak the primary language of this country, but the fact is, you aren't properly qualified.

Good grief, learn the language and then you won't be passed over for promotions anymore!

Peter   September 21st, 2009 3:04 pm ET

Rick,
You hit the nail on the head. My mother and her family came here from Hungary. They left a very nice life in Hungary due to the Germans invading. They left so we could have better lives not them. Too many Americans forget that they are decendents from people who came from other countries and who did not speak english. You are one the BEST people and reporters I have seen on TV.
I would love to and be honored tobe able to call you my friend.

Your follower and hope to be your friend,
Peter Griffith
Ft. Myers Florida

Nadine   September 26th, 2009 6:55 am ET

I have a disagree with you. When my grandparents came to this country in the early 1900's they made it a point to learn the language out of respect for the new country that gave them hope. They also set up a business (a farm) which they would not be able to conduct if they couldn't speak English to trade their goods. There were no excuses they either did it or they ended up in one of those sweat shops. Not only did they want better for their kids but they wanted better for themselves.

Angela Davis   October 7th, 2009 3:25 pm ET

Hi Rick – love your show – commenting on speaking Spanish, I'm a South American Mom and I'm fortunate my daughter speaks three languages, English, Spanish and French – she's always amaze how Americans can only speak one language – it's a very good idea and I wish my daughter had learn to speak Spanish when she was younger.

Jesus   October 10th, 2009 6:19 pm ET

I give all my respect and admiration to those men and women that silently and diligently struggled their way to allow their families to get into the mainstream culture. Let's not forget though, that discrimination is still a big issue in this Country. As a high school Chemistry teacher I could not believe when my Principal called me to warn me: "You have accent..." After many meetings in which he would just overwhelm me with complaints that he fabricated, he would never let me explain myself in my defense. My non-academic, conversational English fluency was not enough for his patience. He never listened. He finally dismissed me from my job as a teacher (and as bilingual-Spanish teacher too) and his reluctancy to give me a recommendation has made me depend on Unempoyment Insurance. All this despite the fact that I produced the highest standardized Distric test scores.
So, when I read your story and your answer to the stupid questioning regarding your mother's lack of English, I feel moved and encouraged to keep trying. God bless her and you!

Natalia   October 19th, 2009 7:05 pm ET

Rick!
I LOVE YOUR SHOW!!! I completely understand this situation because they've [people in general] have said comments about that to both of my parents and it really ticks me off because I would love for them to be in my or my parents shoes just to see what it's like. I admire your mom and yourself about the many things you've overcomed!

PS: You're attractive for your age! :)

Keep up the great work Rick!!

Natalia [ Latina! :) ]
Norcross, GA

Jack X   November 23rd, 2009 10:40 pm ET

All these liberal bigots who put down their own countrymen for being monolingual have it backward. It is these immigrants who are also monolingual. WHAT DO YOU THINK OF THAT BARBARA!

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